This year I downshifted and moved into a much smaller house and got rid of a lot of things that were weighing me down. I also found that even though I had a lot of things, I didn't necessarily have the basics that help make a house a home, a place that's comfortable and luxurious where it counts.
So I spent a little bit of money and invested in some new items to welcome in a fresh start and soon, a new year. Chime in below with what makes your home, home.
• Good Linens: I had a hodge podge collection of different pillowcases and flat and fitted sheets, some of it old, stained or with holes. Other things I just didn't like. I also had pillows that were…old? I couldn't even remember where they had come from. So I bought a new set of plain white sheets and some of Abby's favorite pillows from IKEA. I put my down quilt in the sun to air it out and made a new bed that feels comfortable and soft and inviting. You can find affordable sheets on Overstock, at Target, Costco, or on sale at larger department stores. Or you can invest more and really splurge on luxurious bedding.
• A Cast Iron Pan: I used to have a hundred different sized pots and pans but discovered that a simple cast iron pan can handle most of the things I want to cook: from eggs in the morning to a tarte tantin. I got mine from my mom, she had an extra, but you can find them used at thrift stores and garage sales or you can buy one new one. The first night I lived in my new place I cooked dinner for a couple of friends (nothing fancy) and it made me feel at home.
• Natural Cleansers and Cleaning Supplies: This is a real basic, but I found, moving into a new space, I wanted to get everything really clean (especially since I got rid of enough stuff there was way more space to look at). I bought new sponges, a mop, a broom and an arsenal of natural cleansers made with baking soda and vinegar or I like to invest in some Mrs. Meyers — particularly the geranium scented all purpose cleaner.
• Something That Smells Good: Whether its great bubble bath, hand soap, a candle or a linen spray, smells make a huge impact on a space.
• A Plant: I moved my dwarf meyer lemon inside along with a number of succulents that used to sit on the porch (I have plenty of light so they will survive) but nothing makes a space feel larger or more comfortable than a well placed plant.
Images: West Elm, Emily Ho, as linked from The Kitchn, Gardn, Laure Joliet






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I'm in love with that planter in picture number 5. Can anybody source it?
Like you. I'm really wanting to get those 'basics' in place.
I'm investing in some Le Creuset pieces to round out what I inherited. I also just recently purchased some really, really nice sheets.
I love that bedding! Does anyone know where it is from?
I so agree on good linens. They make all the difference and on a per use basis, even expensive linens are relatively cheap--and they last a long time. I also have to say I LOVE ironed pillow cases; it takes very little time but feels like a total luxury.
I could not agree more with the cast iron pan! LOVE them-picked up a few already 'seasoned' from the thrift store- my BEST pans in the kitchen for cooking ANYTHING-especially buttery pancakes!
Good pillows are another thing that make a huge difference, and if you get them at Overstock.com you can get a nice set pretty reasonably.
In full agreement with your list.
I totally agree with all of those ideas. My "house warming" gift to myself is always a new duvet set. It brings a new life to a new place! And scents (my preference being candles) and plants to freshen the air really do make a house a home.
But I find, the best way to go about making a house a home is just to make memories there. It takes time but its the best!
i believe the linens & floor pillow are from west elm.
Good linens go with a good quality bed. If your night's sleep is screwed up, so is the following day. Coming from a girl who has spent years on futons, blow-ups and day-beds. :)
great room scents that i've recently become OBSESSED with..."CB I hate perfume" based in brooklyn (but they have an online shop). Water-based (not alcohol based) and very curated scents that remind you of old books, leather, the mediterranean, cedar, fall...there are so many to choose from...!
a entry on basics - LOVE IT. hate it when smart-alecs make life so unneccessarily complicated and forget the smaller, fundamental things so i am ALWAYS a friend of the basics and 'going-small, then-getting-big' ..love the five basics and agree with them! linen, cleaning, plants... !!(=
my cast iron pan was the best purchase in my kitchen outliving all my other pans through the years! i know of families who pass their iron pans to following generations. thanks for the post. m
I totally agree with this entire list. I just moved to a new place (from very small to larger, so had to fill in some gaps) and did all this! I especially second the plant. Plants just bring a good atmosphere to any home - if they're taken care of.
Question for people with cast-iron pans... I was just given two (one basic pan, one with ridges like for grilled cheese, I suppose) and she hadn't seasoned them properly. I did season them the other day but they came out somewhat sticky? Any suggestions for this? What am I doing wrong?
A word of advice for those on the look for new pots/pans...We invested in fabulous new cookware last year and found the best way to buy them was on ebay from people who were selling extra pieces from sets. We saved a BUNDLE and were able to custom build our own set.
I would add to that towels. And, if you can stretch to it, knives.
Top notch everyday items make life feel more luxurious overall.
@ just_kazari, I think your problem was you used too much oil to season it. That's usually what makes it sticky. My cast iron pan was given to my grandmother during the original Depression as a wedding gift and it was secondhand even then. It's over 100 years old and still does nearly daily duty in my home. It occasionally need reseasoning and I do as my grandmother taught me. Heat your oven to 375 degrees and put the lightly oiled pan in and turn off the heat. Leave it in thereuntil the oven comes back to room temp. In your case I'd skip the oiling ans just put the pan in. I was also taught to never wash the pan with soap and water unless it's really messed up and then you should reseason it. The way I was taught to clea it is to add a bit of oil to thedirty pan and heat it up a bit on the stove. Then add about a tablespoon of a coarse salt (kosher is good) and use a rag or paper towel to scrub the pan with the oily salt. You can then give it a quick rinse in water and heat for a moment to dry. I hope these old-fashioned methods work for you!
Also, I have the IKEA pillows and I love them!
Yes I love good linens and the frequency of usage makes them affordable in the end. I got a foam pillow (not memory foam) from Sam's Club that I love and makes falling asleep so nice.
I second a cast iron pan. I have a Lodge from Amazon that I use almost daily, and it came pre-seasoned. I love cast iron so much, I just invested in a Staub cast iron dutch oven. Good sharp kitchen knives are a must as well.
great list! i'm overdue for getting some extra linens, a new plant and some beautiful kitchen basics, such as measuring cups, to replace my beat-up, old-college plastic ones. glad to say i do already have some rugged, thrift cast-iron skillets!
I started recently with the cast Iron pan and now I finally have money for the bedding, I hadnt thought about the other things on the list tho...this came in handy!
I'm waiting on good sheets until I can afford a new mattress -- my current one is sagging badly on the port side. My favorite Mrs Meyers scent is basil ... so wonderful and calming.
Love the duvet...where can I purchase one? Great "doable" list!!
Where can I purchase the bed cover/duvet/comforter?
Great list! Thanks - this is something I really need to do too!
That duvet is from West Elm - and was just on sale (not sure if it still is)!
Great list! Def. comes in handy since i'm doing my To Get List for my 1st place!!
LOVE that duvet!
The Crate and Barrel "tilt bowl" isn't exactly the same, but it's close. http://www.crateandbarrel.com/dining-and-entertaining/serving-bowls/tilt-bowl/s587764
I'm in love with that duvet but cannot find it on West Elm. Has anyone else been able to locate it? A link would be awesome!
I couldn't agree more. What would I add to this excellent list?
Rugs: Beautiful yet sturdy/functional rugs express personal style, and warmth (temperature & emotion) while keeping dirt out or at bay
Kitchen linens: Great dish cloths & drying towels make all the difference in the world when using a new kitchen for the first time