
With New Year's just around the corner and I've been thinking a lot about change. I've been spending more time at home and I wondered — what could I do in the New Year to make that time more about doing the things I love in my home and less about doing the things I don't? I would like to share my home and enjoy it more. Here's what I came up with. Feel free to share your own ideas!
Clean less: I don't like cleaning and I'm sure I'm not alone in saying this. Even if I enjoy parts of it, I certainly don't want to spend my whole weekend cleaning. And although I've tried, I've learned that my house won't clean itself but that a few simple mantras — putting things away when I'm done with them (this covers everything from doing the dishes right after dinner to making the bed as soon as I get up); and doing a little bit every day whether that's dusting or damp mopping or a little bit of laundry, leaves my free time free to do the things I really want to use my home for. It's a great feeling knowing that I can really relax in my home without that little voice nagging at me to get up and do the laundry. If you're looking for ways to clean less, try How To Clean Your House in 20 Minutes a Day for 30 Days or Fly Lady: Love It or Hate It?.
Bring nature indoors: Whether it's flowers, a plant, or a bowl of gleaming oranges, bringing the outdoor inside is not only beautiful, it reminds me that I co-exist on this planet with other living things. As the oranges are eaten or I bring in new flowers, I'm also actively using my home and bringing life into it — even if it's a week where I've been out of the house every night. I love the excitement of going to get flowers once a week wondering what's in season and that, too, keeps me in touch with what's out there beyond my little world.
Entertain more: What is a home for if not to fill it with the people you care about? This year I'm going to encourage my friends to come over more often. I'm going to examine how my home is set up and figure out how I can make it more casual and livable. Being prepared for guests, knowing that I always have a bottle of wine ready to open, a little pasta and some sauce in the pantry, cookie dough frozen into balls in the freezer, means I can easily say, "Come over for dinner," without it being a big production. Because that big production is what prevents me from having people over more often. I'm taking a look around my house and asking myself if I can easily have a few friends over for dinner or cocktails or make room for a sleepover guest on my couch.
Do those projects I've been thinking about or forget about them: Whether it's a drawing you've been meaning to have framed, that chair whose stuffing is starting to show, the leaky faucet or the crack in the ceiling, I'm making plans to have them fixed and if I don't do it in a timely manner, I'm just going to live with them and accept them as the little quirks that make my home unique. A home is, after all, to be lived in and it's better to live with a few creaky drawers than to feel guilty that you don't have the time or money to get them fixed.
Image: Emily and Erick's Modern Eclectic British Eccentric Bungalow
Comments (14)
Did I lose count? I only saw 4. My resolution is to either downsize houses or move to an apartment.
Clean/tidy as we go--it is definitely the way to go. I see the payoff every year around this time--we are both crazy busy at work and host two decent sized holiday parties within a week of each other (one for my husband's TAs and partners, the other for neighbors and friends). The first was this last weekend, and it just took a bit of tidying and a quick sweep and the house was ready for guests. So much nicer than having to clean like a demon before people come over!
There is no better feeling than facing a clean kitchen, neat bathroom, and tidy closet in the morning. Walking into a mess starts your day off on a bad note. It's well worth the effort to clean up after yourself as you go!
I think the last one counts as two.
I'm trying to casually entertain more. Sometimes, I get so caught up it trying to do something elaborate and perfect, I forget I'm supposed to have fun at a party!
My resolution is to quit worrying about the fact that I haven't purchased a home since my divorce...still living in a rented apartment. But it's very cozy and cute. Love it, and enjoy it. Make beautiful memories in it. Entertain and have friends over...even if I no longer have my dream kitchen. I can still cook a mean meal and what doesn't taste good with great glass of wine and friends...
I definitely want to clean less. I travel a lot (Tokyo in Jan., Brazil in March. Can't wait!). I plan to hire a cleaning lady in the spring, to come in 2x a month to do the big things. And I definitely want to get in the habit of cleaning as I go (making the bed, dishes as soon as I'm done eating, etc.)
I want to entertain more. I've spent a lot of time - and money - with friends watching SNF and MNF in bars. Hoping to spend a good bit of the 2011 season doing so in my home.
Get organized. From closets to bookshelves, I want a system.
@nrKist, your comment just made me guffaw! Hilarious.
I think zodicatt might be right. That, or Abby had been THINKING about writing a fifth one....but forgot about it (as per her #4)
Here's number 5: Bring nothing into your house unless you know you need it or you believe it's beautiful, AND you have a place to put it.
Like the #5 addition. The cleaning less definitely works for me.
i LOVE number four. it's what i just decided to do for myself last night! have about seven or eight sewing projects... (curtains, sleeves..) rather than spend year's eve at the sewing machine..im going to just shove them DEEP into the back of 'drobes FOR ONCE! past month ive been doing up the house, framing things, attending to my old(er) chair, (like youve said)etc.. it is time to stop! i am going to enjoy the year's crossing. Happy 2011 !
as for 'clean less' - i just (do) maintainence.. sheets, floor, water plants, clean top/surfaces.. =) easy.
i am going to be a 'human' come 2011 - no more a slave !! (to House OCD) =p=)
Ditto Riccardo...sincerely, mary
One resolution I'm making is to not buy things unless they are truly needed and/or high quality. As much as I love having seasonal decorations, it's crazy for me to spend lots of money on stuff that will only be out for one month at a time. My boyfriend and I found the most amazing couch at Crate and Barrel (the Lounge series), so we're trying to save up money for that. No matter how cute that little Christmas penguin is, it's not as awesome as that couch!
Great post!
I am working on #1. When that resolution is accomplished, I can move on to the rest!
I LOVE the #5 addition. I have finally taught this lesson to the rest of my household. JOY! It makes #1 so much easier!