Flatware has come a long way from the days of your grandmother's traditional sets. Now you can get quality with a fun and quirky modern twist.
The perfect flatware should have the right feel and weight, and style to last. I personally prefer a set that does not need polishing, but whatever cuts your food. Here is a guide to some less traditional pieces that are hot on the eating scene.
1. The minimal Almoco Flatware from Design WIthin Reach is classic with a unique modern twist. It comes in traditional stainless, gold or even black.
2. Crate and Barrel's Aero Flatware is ulta-modern and sleek, with their slender tapered handles in matte black polymer and smooth sculptural heads.
3. West Elm's Forged Flatware (the set I am slowly acquiring and LOVE, btw) has a bronzed-matte finish that gives a industrial rustic look with an perfect weight.
4. Twigware is a nature inspired nickelplated stainless steel flatware from Michael Araminc's Bark & Branch collection.
5. And to throw in a fun casual set for good measure, we have the fork-knife chopstick. They are a plastic, dishwasher safe interlocking fork-knife set that also serves as spring-loaded chopsticks.
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While they have fabulous designs, I have been really disappointed with my Crate & Barrel flatware. Although it is stainless steel, it is rusting in places. I would not recommend it to anyone.
We got the Dansk bistro collection for our wedding and are loving them! http://www1.macys.com/shop/product/dansk-bistro-cafe-stainless-flatware-collection?ID=154031&PseudoCat=se-xx-xx-xx.esn_results
Absolutely love the Michael Aram flatware...but I wonder how the feel is, with those little "twigs" jutting out here and there?
The fork-knife chopsticks look very nice; but if you need your chopsticks spring-loaded, just use a fork...
Isn't Crate & Barrel's Aero really Cutipol's Goa?
http://www.cutipol.pt/ing/catalogo/index.php?menu=2
In any case, Cutipol has some great flatware designs, besides Goa/Aero.
I'm surprised though that you didn't include Alessi. They have some of the best modern flatware around -- classics, that have stood the test of time. For example, Achille Castiglioni's Dry --
http://www.alessi.com/en/2/1183/cutlery-sets/418011-dry-serving-spoon
40 --
http://www.alessi.com/en/3/2249/cutlery-sets/40-cutleryflatware-set
...among many others...
I bought cheap designer flatware, and eventually it rusted. Never again. As far as I am concerned, it's not worth it to buy stuff you have to replace in a couple of years. That's why I would strongly recommend going with a top-end manufacturer and designs that don't go out of style (what happened to my parents' flatware) -- something from Alessi, Cutipol or Arne Jacobsen flatware from George Jensen (been around since before it was featured in Kubrick's 2001: A Space Odyssey).
http://www.unicahome.com/p1627/georg-jensen/arne-jacobsen-flatware-by-georg-jensen.html
I'm currently looking for new flatware since I'm eloping next month and would like start off married life with something new and nicer than my current Ikea set. So this post (and the relevant comments - keep them coming, people!) couldn't have come at a better time. :-)
Our "classy" flatware is Gense Focus De Luxe.
http://www.gense.se/index.php?id=442
Our "everyday" flatware is Gourmet Settings "Balance"
http://www.gourmetsettings.com/balance
I see that "modern flatware" means hand-cramp inducing size of the handles. Ouch on all 5 of these for being WAY too skinny to eat with.
I'm with ya, Emmmmma. Skinny handles are a pain. I like the dark handle look , though.
I don't like the large, round, shallow spoons in some of these sets. It seems the quest for "style" has come at the expense of useful design.
I love the Embassy Flatware by David Mellor. Heath Ceramics sells it:
http://www.heathceramics.com/cook-dine/set-embassy-flatware-3-piece-place-setting.html
Hey, I really like the Fork Knife chopsticks, really creative. There's actually a sale fore Alessi flatware happening on Switch Modern right now. You should all take a look. https://www.switchmodern.com/Alessi-Flatware-Sale/Alessi-Flatware-Sale.asp