Non Toxic Detergents:
We love Method for how gentle it is, how great it smells, and that we can buy it at Target with everything else we need for a reasonable price.
Mrs. Meyers has lots of great scents and they're all eco friendly.
The As Seen on Oprah Non Toxic Detergent
The Laundress Signature Detergent (for delicates)
Go Soapless with Ecoballs.
Dr. Bronners, an old classic good for cleaning anything.
Or just make your own
Non Toxic Fabric Softeners:
Add 1/2 cup baking soda to the rinse cycle of your wash or add vinegar to the start of your wash.
In place of dryer sheets, try tennis balls or fluff balls in the dryer to keep sheets fluffy.
Or try Ecover's nontoxic Sunny Day Softener
Non Toxic Dryer Sheets:
Try a handmade, eco friendly, reusable Lavendar Dryer Bag from etsy sellers.
And for a real indulgence, try making some of your own linen spray using whatever essential oils you're really into (lavender and chamomile are the best for relaxing).
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