Note - Reader anotherjen had asked in a related post for ideas on executing Cure assignments when you don't live alone. So, to that end, I will also be sharing how my fiancé and I worked together to accomplish each assignment (there's definitely been a bit of negotiation involved)!
Assignment 1: Make a list of projects
When I proposed the idea of the Cure to my fiancé, Shawn, he was very enthusiastic in his support. As a professor, he's currently on a winter break, and as such had already started making a mental list of all of the projects he'd like to accomplish before going back to school. Making this project list provided us the opportunity to not only commit those ideas to paper, but to look at every room in detail, and to collectively generate a list that resonated with both of us. Naturally, we came up with quite an extensive list to start. However, for the purpose of the assignment, we limited each area to the 3-5 projects. (We live in a relatively small one bedroom apartment, so some areas were combined for the purpose of the list.)
Entry/Dining Area
1. Declutter the coat closet
2. Repair scratches in dining table
3. Declutter the bookshelf
Kitchen
1. Deep clean cabinet doors
2. Declutter area around microwave
3. Replace old pot holders
4. Find a new home for the paper towels
Living Room
1. Declutter magazine rack
2. Reorganize my desk
3. Clean out my files
4. Rearrange Shawn's clothes closet (As I mentioned, we live in a small apartment. Therefore, the living room closet is actually Shawn's clothes closet.)
5. Rearrange stacks of books (condense? combine?)
Bathroom
1. Declutter baskets on shelves
2. Clean or replace shower curtain liner
3. Wash shower curtain
4. Declutter area under sink
Bedroom
1. Reorganize Shawn's armoire
2. Evaluate and declutter Shawn's magazines
3. Declutter area below my bench
4. Declutter the bottom of my clothes closet
5. Find handbag storage solution
Patio
1. Move small marble-topped table to basement
2. Relocate shelving unit
3. Sweep
Basement (By far, our biggest problem area, and one that's been severely impacted by my time in graduate school.)
1. Evaluate all school work (papers, projects, boards, etc.). Determine what to keep, what to toss.
2. Organize all school work being kept
3. Declutter and put away everything else
4. Create donate and trash piles
5. Act on donate and trash piles
Working together: To create our initial list, Shawn and I reviewed each room together and wrote down anything that stood out to either of us. Then, when it came time to narrow down the list, we each verbally ranked our top five for each room. From there, we negotiated until we had a top 3-5 that we both agreed upon. This step was important, as each of us has different "triggers" or responses to various trouble areas in our home. Collaborating on the list ensured that we would be addressing the areas that mattered the most to each of us.
Assignment 2: Set up an outbox and place one item in it
Let me start by saying, I love the principle behind this assignment. I know many people that hold onto to way too much stuff due to emotional attachment. I used to have a much bigger problem with this myself. My fiancé, on the other hand, is quite a minimalist and rarely hangs onto much of anything.
Working together: As you might imagine, this assignment led to quite a conversation between Shawn and me. For starters, we live in a small apartment. There is no out-of-the-way place to set up an outbox, and certainly no area that we can allow to be messy on an ongoing basis. Yet, in talking it through, we determined two things. One, this idea would probably be more helpful for me than it would be for him. And two, although we don't use an actual box or container, we sort of halfway employ this principle in our space already, whenever we set something by the door to the basement. Placing items there signifies that they need to go into the basement, either for handy storage, or for holding until we determine what we'd like to do with them.
Essentially, our basement is one big outbox. (Not ideal, I grant you, and part of the reason that our basement is our biggest problem area.) Therefore, I've decided to set aside an actual outbox in the basement that can be reviewed weekly, as suggested. Going forward, anything that is set by the basement door will be designated as "handy storage" or "outbox" and immediately filed accordingly. (Hopefully, this will help ensure that once our basement is decluttered, it will actually stay that way!) Item#1 in the new outbox - lampshade from broken lamp.

Assignment 3: Buy flowers, vacuum, mop, gather earth friendly cleaners & use your outbox
I used to buy flowers all of the time. Then, I got busy, got a kitten (who loved to play with the flowers), and weekly flowers became less of a priority. That said, I was excited by the idea of kickstarting my flower habit again. There's just one small problem. January is an extremely lean month for us financially. You see, most of my work is freelance and there's not a lot of it in December...hence, not much in the way of pay coming in in January.
Working together - Shawn and I loved all of the ideas put forth in this assignment, but after discussing it, decided that we couldn't spend any money this week to accomplish them. So, I got creative. I already had some calla lilies in a vase that had been saved from larger arrangement I received mid-December. (It's insane how long they've lasted!) So, I gave them a fresh cut, and straightened the arrangement a bit. Then, I pulled some fresh herbs out of the refrigerator, put them in glasses of water and made a few more simple arrangements.
As for the cleaners, thankfully we were already in decent shape. We use Method dish soap (I recently bought the Basil scent, and LOVE it), Seventh Generation laundry detergent and Method floor cleaner (Almond, so yummy). We do, however, need an earth friendly bathroom cleaner. Given our financial situation though, we simply decided to buy a greener cleaner the next time we run out.
Cleaning the floors ended up being our greatest challenge. Although we were both very enthusiastic about the idea, it quite frankly didn't happen. The biggest reason is because we still have our Christmas tree up. Late decorators, we bought it on December 21, and wanted to hang onto it a little while. Also, we can only dispose of trees on Thursdays, and last Thursday felt too early, (although, in all honesty, this Thursday feels too late). Either way, vacuuming and mopping before we removed the tree seemed a little pointless, so we've decided to wait on this step.
How did you do with your week? What challenges did you face?
(Images: Bethany Seawright)
















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I love your handbag dilemma XD
The challenge that arose in our home is, that my husband (who always tells I am the chaotic and he is not), realizes, that lots of the stuff that creates chaos belongs to him...^^ He was not so in this cure thing at the beginning, but now he is on the team:)
Perhaps, your OUT box should be for out of the apartment and not an IN box for the basement. You seem to be stalling. You need to make concrete yes and no decisions. But, if you must put something in the basement, you should bring something OUT of the basement, as well. Perferably, a larger amount of stuff. Otherwise, your basement issue will only grow and become worse than it already is. Just a suggestion. Good luck!
The husband wanted the tree up one more weekend so I haven't gotten to the floors either. Maybe today. Two days of taking down Christmas decorations.
I took my first load of Outbox to Goodwill over the weekend (the bedroom closet) and have accumulated another small pile since being in the attic packing up Christmas.
Your basement looks like ours did last year! I did a big basement clear out and it was so fun to see it all go. We set up at a flea every Sunday morning last summer and whatever didn't sell that day we drove straight to Goodwill. I got rid of 25 tubs!! I wish my husband would play along but not so far.
Thanks for the peek into your before!! Hope you keep us updated with the afters!! :)
@rainywoods Thank you, I totally agree! That's part of our problem. Unfortunately, everything's been on hold for the last year while I was working on my thesis. (It's taken until now, for me to even be ready to address the school work madness, a major contributor to the problem.) We have organizational systems in place that work for us (when they're accessible), but a major decluttering is definitely needed!!
Your honesty is appreciated! Photos of clutter, negotiating with your partner, and the realities of a tight budget. Inspires me to keep going with the January cure myself. Thank you for your posts!
Love love love the bushel and peck sign
Your basement and mine are definitely related.
Sorry to digress but I see you have Zadie Smith's NW. Did you like it? It is extremely rare for me to not finish a book but I just could not read this book. Page 50 and I was ready to rip out my hair. Her writing style just doesn't jive with me.
@Bethany....you'll get it done! If you can tackle a thesis.....you can do anything! :D
Ditto - it was the first thing I noticed. Made me smile.
May I suggest you use the magazine rack as a wine rack instead? It isn't nice to magazines! Best wishes!
My boyfriend is the tidy one at home, so he was at first glad I'm doing something about my chaos. Then he was horrified the paper stacks around the house weren't in the list yet (I swear, I don't even see the mess anymore!)and now he participates fully, and we negotiate the changes we do around the house. Or at least he asks what exactly is turquoise blue.
He still hates the outbox he sees as a nest of chaos, but at least he didnt laugh much when I got home with the flowers and realized we didn't have a vase. Hooray for the water jug!
Be careful with lilies and cats - pretty sure lilies are toxic to them!
@tarainsevenvalleys You're a basement inspiration! Hopefully we can do as well. :)
@alwagner03 Thank you for the kind words. Good luck with your own Cure, too!
@ec05 :) It was a Valentine's gift to Shawn, and it's one of his most favorite things, ever.
@CanadianMango The Zadie Smith book was an Xmas gift, and I haven't started yet. (Sounds like it may be a challenge, though!)
@rainywoods Thanks for the confidence! Let's hope so!
@luckygirl Ha! It was my wine rack and I decided to use it for magazines, instead. It usually works pretty well (if you don't leave the same magazines in it for years on end, that is! )
@kmcc No worries, the lilies are on a storage unit off to the side of the kitchen where the cats don't go. :)
Handbag suggestion: I once bought some vintage (maybe Victorian) coat hooks at a flea market for pennies. (Lucky find, fancy brass with two swiveling hooks per unit.) I mounted them on the wall of my walk-in closet (with anchors) to hang handbags and necklaces from.
Even if you don't have fancy ones (which are fun but not essential) you can probably find some kind of hooks to mount on your closet wall or the back of a closet door for your bags. Even one of those over-the-door type would work, as well as use some space that might otherwise be wasted.
Bethany, I found a great paper towel holding option a couple of years ago at a Kitchen Collection store in an outlet mall. It fits over a cabinet door and holds the roll on the inside or the outside. I even tried it in my kitchen cabinets, which are flush on the bottom with no overhanging trim. It's pretty reasonably priced, less than $15.
Similar to what I bought: http://www.wayfair.com/Spectrum-Diversified-Over-the-Door-Paper-Towel-Holder-in-Brushed-Nickel-76771-L1291-K~SPM1258.html?refid=GX15983680620-SPM1258&gclid=CIjNh6G37bQCFQ4EnQodiiMANA
@Stormi Thanks for sharing! There's one cabinet door under the sink where this might work (if we rearrange things a bit)...