Our post last week about the grand dining rooms of the Newport mansions got an interesting response both from readers who like the idea (if only the idea) of ornate dining room décor and those who prefer a more minimal approach. When it comes to entertaining we tend to hop back and forth to both sides of the elaborate versus simple debate. Which do you prefer?
I think the most fun are high-low parties: comfort food with china and silver, or fancy food at a tailgate/picnic.
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There are lots of ways to set a pretty interesting table without fine china. Nothing against fine china, either, but.
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I think a random gathering is more fun than an elaborately planned occasion. Even ordering a couple of pizzas and having beer on hand can be great. When planning, I like to keep it casually elegant.
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Sarah, this is extremely random, but I went to elementary school in Texas with a girl named Sarah Rainwater. Did you happen to go to Daggett?
view Priscatip's profile
I like understated elegance when it comes to entertaining.
view rgn's profile
Entertaining should reflect the occasion and lifestyle of those throwing it. If one is a very casual person, even the most formal of occasions may be rather relaxed...it should just be authentic.
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There is a happy medium -- an unstained tablecloth, nice plates (but not elaborate china), and no centerpiece (although maybe some candles)....
Everything depends the occasion though.
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I think the answer depends on the reason for entertaining. I entertain because I love the company of the people who are my friends. I want to share their intellect and wit with others who are my friends. I want to engage in one of the oldest and most intimate rituals of the human race, the breaking of bread together, the celebration of community. The gatherings I have hosted are always informal, but can run the gamut of beer and pizza to elaborate seven course ethnic dinners. But, that's a reflection of the culture I was raised in. Food and gatherings have always been an extension or expression of the community at large.
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Casual. And casual for me means unfussy homemade food with fresh, local ingredients; unpretentious but delicious wine; and -- always -- cloth napkins and tablecloth. Flowers and candles optional. And leave your fancy duds at home!
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There is no reason why simple elegance and good food can't come together for any gathering, no matter the occasion.
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Priscatip,
It must be a different Sarah Rainwater. I've only been to Texas once!
Sarah
view sarahlr's profile
totally depends...we do both kinds and others!
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How about something in between? I want guests to feel comfortable, not terrified of braking or staining something but it's nice to have it appear that you made some kind of effort...real plates (not necessarily the finest china) simple flowers and candles make it....nice...and most of the time that's good enough.
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