With cohabitation comes compromise, both big and small. One minor matter which was resolved within days of our moving in together was that of the duvet — to tuck or to drape. Wes is a duvet tucker but likes the sheets left a little loose. Kayla is a duvet draper but tucks in the sheets hotel-tight. We settled on the drape, though on our low platform bed we both complain about the duvet sliding down the end of the bed most nights. Are you a tucker or draper? Survey after the jump...






top sheet get tucked, duvet is loose so that the bf can leave his feet out and mine can stay in...but I don't have a low bed.
view Enamorada's profile
Depends on the bed and the duvet (or comforter). Platform bed with tailored duvet = tucked. Regular bed with dust ruffle and fluffy comforter = draped. In between situations = whatever looks best for that combination.
view SherryBinNH's profile
I'm lazy and have always preferred to drape. Sadly, now that I have a futon instead of a springy mattress, I have to tuck. Otherwise there's blanket all over the floor.
view cola's profile
The summer-weight duvet gets tucked, but the one I use in the winter is too puffy so it gets draped. Best of both worlds.
view Kathryn's profile
My duvet is too puffy to tuck. It would just look like an overstuffed sausage if I tucked it. I would like to get a quilt for the summer and that would be tucked.
view canadian in swedish clothing's profile
everything must be draped so my feet can come out at night, that is more important than how it looks.
view sassydo's profile
Draper here (sadly, not Don). I love the tucked look, but don't know how to do it. Whenever I try, the ends of the mattress doesn't lay flat. Is there a tutorial out there somewhere?
view quiltmaster's profile
I'm half and half. I tuck in along the foot of the bed and leave the sides draped. This achieves enough of a tuck to make sure the covers stay on the bed, but enough looseness that I can move freely.
view nadnuk's profile
I think a tucked in duvet is kind of strange looking unless you've got a high bed and a bedskirt. Also, I only tuck in the bottom of the duvet at the foot of the bed because it looks neat and won't slide around. When sleeping though I untuck the foot of the bed.
view oliviahh's profile
I tuck everything in at the end of the bed only. Otherwise I get claustrophobic when things are all tucked in around me.
view cassielynn's profile
It is winter so our bed is extremely layered right now! The top layer drapes. Everything underneath tucks.
view speck's profile
I tuck in everything at the end so that it doesn't go flopping around in the night (I'm a sleep-kicker). If I had a neat bed that had edges to show off--like a cool platform--I would tuck everything in, but only when company was over.
And is the pup in the photo a Frenchie or a really white Boston?
view seraph's profile
I would tuck in everywhere with hospital corners...but sadly the bf kicks everything off and out and all over the place.
view Modfan's profile
Tuck in the sheets and blanket, fold the duvet in half and drape over the lower half of the bed.
view hejiranyc's profile
Tucking a duvet would damage it, and break the down (or feathers) inside. Duvets are meant to sit on top.
In Europe, few places use a top sheet in addition to a duvet -- it is considered unnecessary. Actually, in most European countries people use individual duvets (no queen or king sizes) which are folded in half when the bed is made.
view mschatelaine's profile
draped, folded at the foot of the bed. The nice thing about living in Europe is that we tend to not use top sheets. So, all I have to do in the morning is fluff the duvet a bit and fold! A clean, made bed in 30 seconds!
view MCH's profile
I'm much too lay to tuck. My bed would never get made if I did.
view littleinkpot's profile
:) Bacon is so big now! Hi Bacon!
view rebecca_f's profile
Who has time in the morning to tuck? Not me, at least.
view Cheryl's profile
You MAKE time in the morning to... oh, you said TUCK. Nevermind.
view patrick (the other one)'s profile
Does anyone know where this duvet cover is from?
view Chelsea Bentaberry's profile
Chelsea... I think West Elm makes one similar...
http://www.westelm.com/online/store/ProductDisplay?partNumber=WE-PRODb437&storeId=17001&langId=-1&catalogId=17002&viewSetCode=E&parentId=WE-SH1BEDDUV&retainNav=true&cmsrc=WE-SH1BEDDUV
view chickiegirl21's profile
Chelsea, I am pretty sure the duvet is from Anthropologie. I've been eyeing it/drooling over it for weeks now. Here's the link:
http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/catalog/productdetail.jsp?_dyncharset=ISO-8859-1&_dynSessConf=6800310230171709453&id=69300&parentid=SLEEP_BEDDING_DUVETS&pushId=SLEEP_BEDDING_DUVETS&popId=SLEEP_BEDDING&sortProperties=&navCount=11&navAction=poppush&fromCategoryPage=true&selectedProductSize=&selectedProductSize1=&color=oce&colorName=OCEAN
view onthemoon's profile
i just like the dog!
view staticfritz's profile
I drape the duvet over the tucked-in sheets. BUT, this is what keeps me neat AND sane: I pin the duvet to the sheet at the top, bottom, and sides of the bed. I pin through the top sheet and the duvet, but not through the wired part of the electric blanket, so I have, basically, an electric-blanket sandwich.
This is a modification of the Armenian way of making a bed (they use more pins than I do).
Also, my top sheet and my bottom sheet are sewn together at the bottom of the bed. The bed will NEVER become unmade or messy looking.
Barb
view moose53's profile
bacon!!!
view formosagirl's profile
LOL, Patrick, (t.o.o.)
I'd love to see some pics of European style beds--especially with individual comforters. I'd like to see, as well, how not using a top sheet and folding the comforter works with a box spring. Or do they use platform beds more often?
view kelleyk's profile
I use a fitted sheet but no top sheet and a down duvet which is never tucked in.
view martigny's profile
I love my draped, hanging duvet because it allows me to tuck the bottom up under my feet at night, making a cozy little barrier from monsters under the bed (yes, this is a remnant from childhood that still comforts me today). If I had a beautiful platform bed though, I would have to convert to the tucked look and just assume that if the sheets are tucked under a mattress, nothing could get through anyway :)
view fivemonkeys's profile
Oh, Bacon. You are perfection in a dog suit. That Anthropologie duvet ain't bad, either.
view rosenatti's profile
we converted to the euro style of bedmaking (i.e. sans topsheets) after falling in love with duvets our london hotel--since neither of us was a habitual bedmaker, being able to just drape it over the bed has rendered us a lot more neat-looking... our room & board parsons bed has a sort of a footboard frame thing, so we tuck the end between that & our very large mattress and that is enough for us. granted our dog sleeps at the foot of the bed so we do have something of an anchor...?!
view wyzwomyn's profile
OK, here's an option no one has mentioned...as a
view BeverlyDesigner's profile
Sry for duplicate...
Here's the option, as a professional designer, people hire me because they are stuck or are looking for alternative solutions to their design dilemmas. Try this instead;get some very nice monogrammed or piped sheets, tuck them in tight and take your duvet and fold it accordian style at the foot of the bed. This is a fabulous look: don't forget the mints under the pillow!
view BeverlyDesigner's profile
I use a queen-sized comforter on a king-sized bed. I tuck in the bottom, and leave the sides untucked. The queen comforter width is almost the exact width of a king bed, so there is not any overhang of the comforter. It works very well, and gives an attractive clean appearance!
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ps: the queen comforter on a king bed only works for a sunken mattress such as on the Malm bed from Ikea.
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