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Duvets and Comforters: Do You Tuck or Drape?

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With cohabitation comes compromise, both big and small. One minor matter which was resolved within days of our moving in together was that of the duvet — to tuck or to drape. Wes is a duvet tucker but likes the sheets left a little loose. Kayla is a duvet draper but tucks in the sheets hotel-tight. We settled on the drape, though on our low platform bed we both complain about the duvet sliding down the end of the bed most nights. Are you a tucker or draper? Survey after the jump...

 
 

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We've noticed a mix bag of tucking and draping across our shelter mags and catalogs. Ikea tucks in nearly everything while Room & Board, West Elm and CB2 seem to let everything drape organically. We could see the duvet or comforter in question dictating the answer — if we had Melinda's lovely ruched cover we wouldn't dream of tucking it in...and neither would Bacon.


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top sheet get tucked, duvet is loose so that the bf can leave his feet out and mine can stay in...but I don't have a low bed.

posted by Enamorada on January 21st 2009 at 3:28pm
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Depends on the bed and the duvet (or comforter). Platform bed with tailored duvet = tucked. Regular bed with dust ruffle and fluffy comforter = draped. In between situations = whatever looks best for that combination.

posted by SherryBinNH on January 21st 2009 at 3:30pm
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I'm lazy and have always preferred to drape. Sadly, now that I have a futon instead of a springy mattress, I have to tuck. Otherwise there's blanket all over the floor.

posted by cola on January 21st 2009 at 3:34pm
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The summer-weight duvet gets tucked, but the one I use in the winter is too puffy so it gets draped. Best of both worlds.

posted by Kathryn on January 21st 2009 at 3:38pm
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My duvet is too puffy to tuck. It would just look like an overstuffed sausage if I tucked it. I would like to get a quilt for the summer and that would be tucked.

posted by canadian in swedish clothing on January 21st 2009 at 3:39pm
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everything must be draped so my feet can come out at night, that is more important than how it looks.

posted by sassydo on January 21st 2009 at 3:46pm
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Draper here (sadly, not Don). I love the tucked look, but don't know how to do it. Whenever I try, the ends of the mattress doesn't lay flat. Is there a tutorial out there somewhere?

posted by quiltmaster on January 21st 2009 at 3:50pm
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I'm half and half. I tuck in along the foot of the bed and leave the sides draped. This achieves enough of a tuck to make sure the covers stay on the bed, but enough looseness that I can move freely.

posted by nadnuk on January 21st 2009 at 4:00pm
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I think a tucked in duvet is kind of strange looking unless you've got a high bed and a bedskirt. Also, I only tuck in the bottom of the duvet at the foot of the bed because it looks neat and won't slide around. When sleeping though I untuck the foot of the bed.

posted by oliviahh on January 21st 2009 at 4:09pm
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I tuck everything in at the end of the bed only. Otherwise I get claustrophobic when things are all tucked in around me.

posted by cassielynn on January 21st 2009 at 4:09pm
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It is winter so our bed is extremely layered right now! The top layer drapes. Everything underneath tucks.

posted by speck on January 21st 2009 at 4:24pm
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I tuck in everything at the end so that it doesn't go flopping around in the night (I'm a sleep-kicker). If I had a neat bed that had edges to show off--like a cool platform--I would tuck everything in, but only when company was over.

And is the pup in the photo a Frenchie or a really white Boston?

posted by seraph on January 21st 2009 at 4:29pm
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I would tuck in everywhere with hospital corners...but sadly the bf kicks everything off and out and all over the place.

posted by Modfan on January 21st 2009 at 4:43pm
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Tuck in the sheets and blanket, fold the duvet in half and drape over the lower half of the bed.

posted by hejiranyc on January 21st 2009 at 4:50pm
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Tucking a duvet would damage it, and break the down (or feathers) inside. Duvets are meant to sit on top.

In Europe, few places use a top sheet in addition to a duvet -- it is considered unnecessary. Actually, in most European countries people use individual duvets (no queen or king sizes) which are folded in half when the bed is made.

posted by mschatelaine on January 21st 2009 at 4:52pm
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draped, folded at the foot of the bed. The nice thing about living in Europe is that we tend to not use top sheets. So, all I have to do in the morning is fluff the duvet a bit and fold! A clean, made bed in 30 seconds!

posted by MCH on January 21st 2009 at 4:58pm
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I'm much too lay to tuck. My bed would never get made if I did.

posted by littleinkpot on January 21st 2009 at 5:20pm
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:) Bacon is so big now! Hi Bacon!

posted by rebecca_f on January 21st 2009 at 5:45pm
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Who has time in the morning to tuck? Not me, at least.

posted by Cheryl on January 21st 2009 at 8:07pm
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You MAKE time in the morning to... oh, you said TUCK. Nevermind.

posted by patrick (the other one) on January 21st 2009 at 8:41pm
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Does anyone know where this duvet cover is from?

posted by Chelsea Bentaberry on January 21st 2009 at 11:53pm
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i just like the dog!

posted by staticfritz on January 22nd 2009 at 2:50pm
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I drape the duvet over the tucked-in sheets. BUT, this is what keeps me neat AND sane: I pin the duvet to the sheet at the top, bottom, and sides of the bed. I pin through the top sheet and the duvet, but not through the wired part of the electric blanket, so I have, basically, an electric-blanket sandwich.

This is a modification of the Armenian way of making a bed (they use more pins than I do).

Also, my top sheet and my bottom sheet are sewn together at the bottom of the bed. The bed will NEVER become unmade or messy looking.

Barb

posted by moose53 on January 22nd 2009 at 4:25pm
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bacon!!!

posted by formosagirl on January 22nd 2009 at 11:09pm
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LOL, Patrick, (t.o.o.)

I'd love to see some pics of European style beds--especially with individual comforters. I'd like to see, as well, how not using a top sheet and folding the comforter works with a box spring. Or do they use platform beds more often?

posted by kelleyk on January 24th 2009 at 3:45pm
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I use a fitted sheet but no top sheet and a down duvet which is never tucked in.

posted by martigny on January 24th 2009 at 4:11pm
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I love my draped, hanging duvet because it allows me to tuck the bottom up under my feet at night, making a cozy little barrier from monsters under the bed (yes, this is a remnant from childhood that still comforts me today). If I had a beautiful platform bed though, I would have to convert to the tucked look and just assume that if the sheets are tucked under a mattress, nothing could get through anyway :)

posted by fivemonkeys on January 24th 2009 at 6:02pm
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Oh, Bacon. You are perfection in a dog suit. That Anthropologie duvet ain't bad, either.

posted by rosenatti on January 25th 2009 at 12:41am
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we converted to the euro style of bedmaking (i.e. sans topsheets) after falling in love with duvets our london hotel--since neither of us was a habitual bedmaker, being able to just drape it over the bed has rendered us a lot more neat-looking... our room & board parsons bed has a sort of a footboard frame thing, so we tuck the end between that & our very large mattress and that is enough for us. granted our dog sleeps at the foot of the bed so we do have something of an anchor...?!

posted by wyzwomyn on January 25th 2009 at 1:04pm
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OK, here's an option no one has mentioned...as a

posted by BeverlyDesigner on January 26th 2009 at 7:46am
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Sry for duplicate...

Here's the option, as a professional designer, people hire me because they are stuck or are looking for alternative solutions to their design dilemmas. Try this instead;get some very nice monogrammed or piped sheets, tuck them in tight and take your duvet and fold it accordian style at the foot of the bed. This is a fabulous look: don't forget the mints under the pillow!

posted by BeverlyDesigner on January 26th 2009 at 7:58am
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I use a queen-sized comforter on a king-sized bed. I tuck in the bottom, and leave the sides untucked. The queen comforter width is almost the exact width of a king bed, so there is not any overhang of the comforter. It works very well, and gives an attractive clean appearance!

posted by teedubs on January 27th 2009 at 1:51pm
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ps: the queen comforter on a king bed only works for a sunken mattress such as on the Malm bed from Ikea.

posted by teedubs on January 27th 2009 at 1:56pm
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