I feel as if I haven't written about a dark color in a bedroom in so long, and they've so thoroughly pervaded the internet these last few years. One half of this couple needed convincing on this point at first, but not for long. We originally discussed using a soft gray blue, but our test sample looked so dull and Colonial and, well — conventional that we finally moved on. More

Wow, folks... well it's challenging to see an upside among all your comments, but I am glad that you care so much. The idea for this column came from the fact that since day one, we've always done some off topic and even weird stuff that works into the personal life of the home AND I really loved meeting Evie and hearing all of her frank answers to sticky questions. I want you all to know that you are all HEARD, loud and clear, and I'll definitely think about where we take this weekend column in the future. We don't want to turn people off, but we do want to stretch the boundaries of how we cover the life of our home. Thanks again so much for all of your comments. There are some really memorable zingers in there. :-)

Best, Maxwell

Q. Why does my partner watch porn? We have a passionate sex life...I don't understand why I'm not enough...

Welcome to a new weekly column by the our own, super experienced professional in this home area, Evie Cohen. FYI, she is also a grandmother, so she's seen a lot.

A. The content of pornographic movies and books is self-centered sex unhindered by love or romance. It allows your partner to feel released to experience pure pleasure. More

Blackout roller shades and blackout curtains set the standard for blocking light in the bedroom so you can sleep soundly. Although they each have their pros and cons, roller shades have some aesthetic advantages. They work best for small spaces and have a clean, minimalist look. They're also great for people concerned with dust, allergens and indoor air quality. More

My friend Cat and I were talking sleep. Or lack thereof. We are two of the worst sleepers ever, posting status updates on Twitter at 5 am. Things have gotten better, however, since we made these home changes. More

In small spaces — and even in large spaces — nothing does double duty in vertical space like the loft bed! Whether it's maximizing storage space, making the best of a crazy floor plan, or just because it looks cool, building your bed in the air is the way to go. We've found fifteen inspiring beds that involve just a bit of climbing before you crash — come look! More

I'm a big fan of color in the bedroom, but I don't really want to feel like I'm sleeping in a big pile of candy. I typically like linens and bed dressings that are a bit more calm, and although put-a-bird-on-it seems to have turned into put-a-pillow-on-it lately, the idea of taking off 8 layers of stuff just so I can sleep doesn't hold much appeal either. Instead, check out this creative way to bring some color in without drowning in it. More

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