
There are good reasons to go gender neutral for your child's room. There's the practical: You have a boy and a girl sharing one room and you want to avoid WWIII. You don't want to redecorate again when child #2 comes along (let alone #3, #4....). Or, you're waiting until the actual birth to reveal your babe's sex. There's also the philosophical: You want your child to decide what they like, without preconceived notions of what's considered appropriate for girls versus boys.
Here are several approaches to color that make rooms work for either sex.
SOFT NEUTRALS
Use soft muted tones, like grey and beige, instead of the standard blue and pink. To avoid boring, layer in lots of texture and natural materials like wood furniture, soft curtains, fluffy pillows and rugs.
- An animal themed nursery by designers Sissy & Marley.
- A modern Scandinavian-style room in Berlin, as seen on Desire to Inspire.
- Jenni Kayne designed this laid back playroom in her own home in Los Angeles.
- Jillian's striped walls and rag rug read comfortable and worn, in a good way, in this nursery from The Virginia House.
- Lena Corwin created a simple and uncluttered nursery in Brooklyn.
PRIMARY COLORS
Primary colors make for lively children's rooms, without the normal gender associations. Control the color doses, and preserve your sanity, with basic white or black walls as the backdrop.
- This playroom from Family Living is bright and fun.
- Tons of pillows and toys provide the decoration in this otherwise basic black and white room from Design*Sponge.
- The yellow bed is all the color this beautiful room from Koulun Lattia Narisee needs.
- An Eames Hang it All and lighting cords are welcome pops of color in Suki's Helsinki home, as seen on Varpunen.
- This room from Homelife nicely balances vibrant color with its black chalkboard wall.
Balance warm and cool hues across the board. There's no reason why a kid can't have both.
- This nursery from Lonny incorporates shades of both blue and pink, making it work for any child.
- A modern take on a child's room with non-traditional hot pink and teal, from Katie Lydon Interiors.
- Morgan chose coral and navy in this super stylish room for the Animal Print Shop project, as seen on The Brick House.
- A cool green and warm orange room avoids the whole pink and blue trap entirely.
- Although this orange and aqua room from Anyon Interior Design was created for a boy, it works equally for a girl.
No one color dominates these next rooms, rather there's a fearless mix of artwork, textiles and surfaces that introduce multiple hues and textures. They are interesting and they work.
- Alexandra Angle's multiple colors, patterns and style are eclectic and unexpected.
- Blue floral curtains, red trellis sheets, and blue squares all combine nicely in this Manhattan loft, as seen in Martha Stewart.
- Fabric and artwork choices keep them guessing in this nursery from Design Crisis.
- Floral wallpaper, acid green light, blue cabinet, and purple mirror combine to make this room from Hus & Hem. Why not?
- There's a lot to see and like in this Scandinavian room, as seen on Divaani.
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Number 3 from your list was actually my design inspiration for my upcoming baby's nursery. Before we knew the gender we painted neutral gray walls and white trim. When we found out we were having a boy my vision remained the same for the room. I had one rule- nothing too "baby" so he could grow into it. When i found a rug that spoke to me (a super fun, moroccan inspired, multi-color number) everything else stemmed from there. It's very eclectic (my mother in law has no idea what to think! No theme!? Appalling!) and we love it. We cant wait until our bouncing baby boy makes it his own.
I love primary colours for kids but set against white walls and furniture - ie. pops of colour through the bedding and accessories.
I completely avoided the precious pale nurseries for my girls - bold and fun is the way to go. I have one daughter with a white room with pops of red and purple, and her little sister's room is a bit of a work in progress with pink and teal. The fun thing with these palettes is that they can evolve as the baby turns to a toddler to a kindergarten kid and beyond without having to change it up too much. Continuing to find special pieces in these colours is a part of the fun.
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The way I see it, the toys are going to be a million different bright colors anyway, so why not work with that instead of trying to hide it? All the gray-walled monochrome nurseries and playrooms I see on AT just look depressing to me.
I agree with Helianthemum about the gray monochromes that appeal more to the adults rather than the children. A soft gray as a background color, but have bright objects on the walls, red stools, blue bears, white stars! The idea is to get the infants eyes moving, focusing and recognizing objects. It's good for the infant's brain development. The calming monochrome, while relaxing and stylish, lacks this developmental aspect.
Oh, and absolutely no TV/iPad until they are 4. Research is showing a link between early TV viewing and poor attention problems in school.
"Gender neutral" seems to mean "no pink or blue allowed." I wish people would get over this fear that pink will turn your boy into a girl, and vice versa for blue. They're just colors.
http://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/When-Did-Girls-Start-Wearing-Pink.html
I've never thought of OPPOSITES. Warm and cool hues, but really it's about patterns. Hmm. I'm going to have to look more into rooms like this. Thanks for the inspiration!
When we designed our gender neutral nursery, we took a slightly different spin on some of these design concepts. We used "opposite" colors, combining shades of teal with some bright pops of red. And our color palette also includes some yellow and green accents, so we captured the basic primary colors. However, rather than using white walls for a neutral backdrop with pops of color, we took a different approach by using a very colorful backdrop with lots of pops of white! Not only did we select some white furniture, we also went for a twist on the standard nursery animal theme by using simple but striking white animal silhouettes throughout the room.
http://blueistyle.blogspot.com/2013/03/GenderNeutralNurseryReveal.html