Is there a twelve-step program for addiction to throw pillows? Maybe we'll start one. It's gotten pretty bad. In fact, we've had to place a moratorium on them for the calendar year (here we come, 2010!). But for now, in an effort to ease our withdrawal and at the risk of co-dependency, we thought we'd share with you some things we've learned about choosing the right pillows for your home...
A great pillow can truly make a room feel complete, but a bad one—or even an excess of good ones—can throw off the balance of color and texture you're shooting for. So how to choose? Hopefully these six little tips will help...
• Don't be afraid to layer your patterns. We love the look of several pillows with different prints in the same room. If you tend to favor bold, graphic prints, choose one or two pillows with a more subtle pattern (or delicate, line-drawn shapes) to tone things down.
• Choose prints that include neutral colors. Part of why the ever-popular Thomas Paul pillows (like our octopus) are so versatile is that his bold graphics are always paired with cream or another neutral color, bringing them down to Earth.
• Choose pillows that provide some contrast in texture. Consider the texture of your furniture—if you've got a leather sofa, try a nubbly linen or soft velvet pillow. For a mohair couch or chair, maybe go with a smooth brushed cotton. Detailing, like quilting, embroidery, or fringe, can also provide an interesting interplay of textures.
• Examine pillows for quality. There's nothing worse than a lumpy, misshapen throw pillow; it sticks out like a sore thumb, especially if the fabric has any sheen (calling attention to the lumps). Fluff the pillow several times in the shop (ignoring dirty looks from salespeople) and look for protruding feathers. (Even high-quality pillows will lose feathers eventually, but this really shouldn't happen right away.) If you're in love with a pillow with a poor-quality insert, you can always buy it anyway (if the price is right) and replace the insides.
• Know your limits. This may sound like lip service coming from a confessed addict, but there is such a thing as too many throw pillows. On a very large sofa, three will work, but we think most couches look best with just one or two. A good rule of thumb: if you have to move them to sit comfortably, you've got too many!
• Go with your gut. This might seem obvious, but it's important—we think shopping for pillows is a bit like shopping for jewelry... there are lots of pretty choices, but the one that's worth buying will really grab your heartstrings. Since good-quality pillows are often expensive, it's a good idea to take some time to decide, just as you would before investing in jewelry.
Help us live vicariously—do tell! How do you choose pillows? Do you have your own rules?

Shaw's Original Fir...
I like seeing different interesting prints in the same room. Saying that i admit that not always it looks so good...
Nicole Balch from makingitlovely is one of my gurus when it comes to the right "mix and match"
Here is a great example from her living room:
http://makingitlovely.com/photos/album/72157604288255662/photo/2165658531/living-room-living-room.html
I have like the opposite of the too many throw pillows problem. I don't have any! I love throw pillows, but they're always something that I can't rationalize spending money on (which I guess is a good thing, cause I'd most likely have an apartment FULL of them if i bought all the throw pillows I've ever liked). It's a problem I need to work on. :)
OMG! I have more throw pillows in storage than on my couch and bed, I have so many of them! I need help!
since you asked --
1 - get good quality pillows and change out with pillow covers -- either w/a zippered closure or an envelope backing.
2 - layer pillow coverings. We use solid color, nicely textured fabrics most of the year; at Christmas, out comes the holiday decor including festive 'wrappings' for the pillows, like organza with a simple monogram or an elegantly embroidered outline of a reindeer. Love that these pillow covers can be washed and folded flat for storage.
I understand the need for a twelve step decorating program. Currently, my friends have put me on nailhead/caster wheels restriction, as I'm drawn to any piece of furniture with either or, be still my heart, both!
I have zero interest in a throw pillow unless it adds to my comfort, otherwise they are just a fussy affectation (in my opinion :) The BEST throw pillows I ever found were in a guest cottage on a Scottish estate. They were small---perhaps 10 inches across---and down-filled. Soft, pretty, and practical. Just right to tuck behind the head, or in the small of the back.
My brother came over the other day, and I noticed he was hovering by the door. I told him to sit down, and he said "where - on top of the cushions?" That was when I knew I'd gone overboard. I got rid of three and admittedly, it is much more comfortable to sit on the sofa now!
Sorry to hijack, but where is the throw rug in the first photo from. I need it!
It seems (to my tiny budget) like throw pillows are WAY too expensive-- especially the pretty ones. All the one's I've seen that I'd really love to have in my apartment are between 25 and 100 dollars. I can't afford so much when I already have some comfortable (but ugly) throw pillows on my couch, so I'm working on knitting new covers for the ones I have. 5$ in yarn and a few hours on a Saturday afternoon is much closer to my budget. But Oh -- how I love Thomas Paul pillows!
I only have two throw pillows in my home - one from Pier One on sale for $3 (!!) and one on sale from Target for $8. I love them both and they help disguise the hand-me-down recliner that my husband loves so much.
I like the idea of only having a few pillow inserts and then rotating the covers.
i use pillow inserts and machine washable covers, which is fantastic for those of us who are clean freaks and tire easily of prints. but my ikea pillow inserts are terrible - mushy, uncomfortable. anyone have a good experience with quality, inexpensive inserts?
I get my down throw pillows for five bucks at ikea. Then it's just a matter of finding (or making) your own covers. :)
I'm with SunnyBlue, I don't have throw pillows unless they serve a purpose. My couch is kind of uncomfortable so I have a few big pillows.
@mlleErica: Making your own pillows is super easy and cheap!
I am so glad I am not the only one with a problem . . . I can't get enough
I'd also love to know where that throw blanket is from. It's beautiful.
I'm so glad to see this post becasue I am crazy addicted to pillows. Its such a good way to change the look of a room on the fly, for relatively little money and effort, that I consider it one of my better addictions :) My new source for pillow splurges - http://www.inmod.com/design-your-own-pillow.html
Hi everyone! Glad to know there are fellow pillow addicts out there... as for the throw blanket, it was a wedding gift and unfortunately I don't remember where it came from. Hopefully my cousin who gave it to us will read this post and weigh in!
- Susie
Off Topic - Proper English 101:
You pick cotton.
You pick out seeds from a watermelon.
Unless pillows are grown on a farm nowadays, You choose pillows...
(...and paint colors, furniture, clothing, cookies, friends, etc.)
While we're off topic, you don't "paint out" something, you just paint it.
You also "change" or "replace" something, rather than "changing it out."
Same throw, or at least pretty close:
at World Market
omg....LOVE the design your own pillow website.... a million thanks!!
My name is Sherry, and I am a pillow addict. But not REALLY a pillow addict, exactly, more a POTENTIAL pillow addict. I flea market and I get brand new pillow forms there, and then I get fabric, including recycled clothing like vintage rayon kimono bathrobes (not wedding kimono!) that "someday" I expect to use to cover the pillows. Throw pillows are a great way to use small amounts of color or really great fabric -- but too often the "really great fabric" is a stand-alone thing, and doesn't have any bearing at all on my decor! (Like the aforementioned mostly red kimono!) I should just make the stupid things to sell!
I also sometimes find exotic pillow covers. I have rooyal blue and metallic gold embroidered tops withi those little round mirrors on them -- unstuffed, the lie flat as "doilies" on my nightstands. Then there are the sari fabric pillows on the guest sofa bed, and the primary color silk satin patchwork from China, and ... well, you see the problem.
The most I have spent for a pillow was about $12 at Home Goods for a blue velvet one heavily embroidered witih antique gold metallic threads, for my new bedroom. That's an aberration. I usually don't go over $5 max, and that is for down. It's all in where and how you shop.
@Bepsf: One OED definition of the phrase "pick out" is "to distinguish from among a group." One can pick out an engagement ring, or a pillow, or a suspect from a lineup.
Dear pillow lovers,
Please check this website out, they offer modern, simple, exotic pillows, all hand-crafted in their New York workshop.
http://www.theredthreads.com/Throw%20Pillow5-p-5.html?osCsid=86706b7b15cb27a0949c48c3dcdd6aac
Can someone tell me who makes the bird pillow pictured? I NEED IT!