As I begin closing my windows earlier each day and pulling out my sweaters at night I'm realizing that the next season is swiftly upon us. I don't know about you, but I have begun thinking about the ritual seasonal changes that are inevitably around the corner.
I grew up with seasons in New York for the first half of my life but then promptly forgot what those were when I moved out West for the second half. I haven't really had "seasons" for the past sixteen years, not in the traditional sense anyway. Living in Las Vegas and California can make you forget pretty quickly what a real winter is.
But that warm weathered ship has sailed, and I will now be heading into my second winter season in the Pacific Northwest. As excited as I am to have seasons back in my life I definitely notice a mental shift that I haven't had in a long time as I prepare for the cold, dark and rainy days ahead.
Being that I got very comfortable in year round sun and outdoor living, jumping back into a real fall/winter as an adult has been a bit of a transition. As I prepare for this shift I have decided that instead of dreading it, like it's easy to do here in Seattle, I want to focus on the exciting rituals and weather specific activities that define winter for me.
Here are a few things on my cold-weather ritual list:
Comfort Foods: It'll be nice to get back into soups, stews and crockpot meals. There's nothing like coming home to the mouthwatering smells of a nice warm meal that has been slow-cooking all day and is ready to just dig into.
Seasonal Fruits and Vegetables: It's time for squashes, gourds, apples and pears to take the stage. I see some delicious homemade pies in my future.
Cozy Down-Time: I don't know about you but when it's bright and sunny out I feel like I always have to be outside and on the go. But when it's colder and grayer I find it easier to take some time out to get all curled up with a hot beverage, a movie or a book and feel less guilty about it. I like how this time of year seems to work at a slower pace.
Winter Clothes: Bringing back winter clothes can feel like I have a new wardrobe. I'm less likely to get sick of things when I only wear them for half the year, and living in Seattle has introduced boots, coats, hats and gloves back into my life.
Winter Sports: It's time to head to the mountains and play in the snow. If skiing or snowboarding is your calling then this time of year is something that you wait for and covet while it lasts.
The Holiday Season: We go through some major Holidays during this time which can lend itself to DIY decorations and gifts.
Sitting By The Fire: If it's at a restaurant, cabin, a friend's house or your own it's nice to get all cuddly by the fire as much as you can when it's chilly outside. Just thinking of the sound of cracking wood makes me long for a cold winters night.
Saunas: During the winter months I love taking time out and going to a spa or sauna to soak up the warmth. I always look forward to it.
Winter Scents: When I think of winter I think of cinnamon, pine and apples. Those are some of the scents that send me into a cozy kinda mood.
Winter Hobbies: Cold weather hits and my yarn comes out to visit. Now I am not an avid knitter at all, but every winter I love to watch movies and make scarves and hats for people. It's just like clockwork and something I only like to do when it's chilly out. I think it's the instant gratification of being able to wear it right away.
What fall/winter rituals do you look forward to?

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While I appreciate the effort in this post, I am still dreading the 4-6 months of winter that will soon be upon us. Thanks for trying though.
Ugh. Winter in Rochester runs from November to freaking April. And the trees don't get their leaves back until the end of May. January-April are the four most miserable months of the year here. Do not look forward to it at all.
Please, please, please tell me where you found the fabric for your drapes and possibly, the name! I purchased my home 5 years ago and one set of curtains made by the previous owner are that exact pattern, except the background is a wheat color. I love those curtains and want to make more but haven't been able to locate the fabric anywhere.
Thanks so much for posting!
Steel Cut Oatmeal for breakfast with LOTS of cinnamon and a drizzle of maple syrup. It's like a hug first thing in the morning.
And, scarves.
Hi SusanTX, I believe the photo is from a previous House Tour (Diane's Cozy Colorado Rockies Cabin Retreat). I don't believe she had listed a source on the living room drapes but maybe posting under that House Tour would help?
Drinking more coffee because the sun is rising later and it's harder and harder to get up in the dark. Uggggh.
Things I'm looking forward to:
Skiing. Half the reason I rollerblade all summer is to keep in shape for ski season. The other half is because it tires my dog out really well.
Knitting stuff other than baby stuff (I guess I am an avid knitter...) which monopolizes my warmer months. And I have a glove/mitten project for kids!
Hockey. I'm a Minnesotan. Hockey is in my blood.
Hot Chocolate. Best thing after shoveling snow EVER.
Oatmeal. I love oatmeal, but I don't like to eat it when it's hot outside.
Baking.
Winter in Southern California means I drive six hours to Mammoth to snowboard. Of course, I can do that in July too (major snow at Mammoth!).
I loathe winter. The only good things are that I can bake more and I can knit bigger items that feel warm while they're resting on me.
i'm so relieved that you're posting from seattle. i live up in the san juans and when i saw this post title, i was about to get all mad thinking someone who'd had a nice, hot summer was getting all excited about cooler weather and snow and such.
as it is, i feel that we had about a month of decent weather this year and if winter is a sucky as it was last year, i might go crazy.
i'm not only not excited about winter; i'm dreading it. loathing it. despising it.
bahhh humbug.
I love the Autumn! Winter, too. It's so wonderful to go to the places that are jam-packed with people during Spring and Summer, and now there's all this blessed space.
I would like to go from Fall to just a couple of cold days around Christmas then Spring could start January 1st. I HATE Winter and all the cold, gray, ugly days that come with winter.
Came to Chicago from Seattle so I have had the best of both worlds!
I am excited too, even those long, dim days waiting for snow are sweet.
I love putting the garden to bed, baking/cooking with squash and pears, knowing the cats won't be so eager to run around outside, sweaters and boots, raking leaves, shoveling snow while soup is on the stove. Hot beverages... look up Warm Margarita - best use of apple cider EVER!
the autumn leaves and then my cashmere hot water bottle...I hate crawling into cold sheets
I have to agree with all those things! Especially winter smells. I've already broken out the pumpkin spice scented candle. Another one of my favorite cold weather scents is Burberry London. It's a floral, but too rich for summer. I spritz a bit on my *ahem* cleavage and a bit on my scarf (another cold weather fav!) and it smells wonderful all day!
And boots! And football! (the American kind)
This time of year makes me think about family, as it's one holiday after the next. Then my birthday is in February which distracts me from the awfulness of *shudder* Valentines Day!
Living in South Texas, where it's summer 11 out of 12 months, I WISH I had winter rituals to look forward to.
Does the sauna thing really work for an oncoming cold? Can anyone else testify about this?
Favorite ritual of seasonal transition: no more ice in my scotch!
Also: firing up the fireplace insert we put in last year
Cashmere!!
ELFay, I live in Rochester too and your description of winter is on the money. If you ever want to go out for coffee or tea as a winter ritual, let me know. I'm always looking for more great people to hang out with in the snowy season.
I like winter, but I do have trouble with seasonal depression; I've finally broken down and paid the money for a special lamp for it and I'm hoping that helps. You brave folks in Seattle have my sympathy--I don't know if I could do a whole winter there.
I love the winter walks I take with my honey along the Columbia River; it's too crowded in the summer, but great in the fall and winter. And we get to use our fireplace!
@STH: We moved to Seattle from San Diego two years ago and also had to invest in a light box. Last winter was BRUTAL on me. I felt literally starved for the sun. The light box saved me. And frequent trips to San Diego. I'm looking forward to skiing, but the endless gray Seattle days can suck it.
Fall and winter are my favorite seasons. @Miss Meaghan and I must be kindred spirits or smth. I, however, keep my WoodWick "Fireside" candle out all year long. I love the Fir smell. Mmmmmm... Also, I'll have to try the Burberry London.
@STH, I too get seasonal depression, though. Especially after the first of the year. I have thought about getting a lamp. I wonder, if anyone here has tried one, would you recommend?
I've spent much of my adult life in non-winter places (TX, KY, and PNW). Now, in the upper midwest, I embrace the long winters--they are much sunnier than the OH winters of my childhood and I love the coziness, quiet of the new snow, soups and stews, downs piled high on the bed of winter. Do they get long--yes of course--but summer is long in other places and since I despise heat while I tolerate cold and snow, I will choose the winters over summer trade off any day--especially since we have really nice summers for the most part.
Winter is my favorite season, second by autumn. I cannot stand the heat. Being in the Bay Area, however, I really don't get much of a winter. Nevertheless, this is still my favorite season mostly because of all the holidays to look forward to. Most of the important people in my life have their birthdays around this time, so a lot of fun gatherings and what not. The winter days a nice and crisp and winter nights are quiet and peaceful. I just love it!
I love winter until March. Or...if I run out of ice melt, whichever comes first.
Then I don't love it anymore. (I live in New England).
But I too am looking forward to cozier clothes, wearing my down sweater around the house, raking leaves, eating soup...
Living in Seattle I always looks forward to fall and winter, until the middle of it all when I wake up to complete darkness and then hey! there it is again...at four in the afternoon.
I'm seeing a lot of evenings at home in front of the fireplace with whisky and kitties in my future :)
These make winter bearable, not enjoyable:
1) Cashmere
2) electric mattress pad
3) flannel sheets
4) Uggs, for warmth
5) pellet stove with thermostat so it goes on automatically before I get up in the morning.
6) winter foods- soups, stews, crumbles etc.
7) cats who suddenly become lap cats and act as little humming heaters.
These make winter enjoyable:
1) snowshoes
2) long walks on the deserted beach
3) picking wild cranberries for Thanksgiving
4) trips to other, warmer, places
5) baking lots of holiday goodies
6) the first good snow storm, but not any of the others.
Flannel sheets, pots of hot tea, steel-cut oats cooked in a crockpot, thick socks, hiking boots, cords and jeans, sweaters, comfort food. I love fall and winter!
"Saunas: During the winter months whenever I start feeling a cold coming on I try to get to a sauna in a gym or a spa as soon as possible to sweat it out. If I'm able to catch it quick enough it works 9 times out of 10."
Please don't do that! If you have a cold coming on, that's exactly how you infect other people (especially people who are trying to stay healthy!).
Beyond concern for others, the "sweating it out" thing doesn't even make medical sense, except as a placebo... I'd apologize for spoiling yours, but it's more important you stay away from confined spaces that are perfect for disease transmission.
Looking forward to winter in Houston with enchiladas and tortilla soup warming up my kitchen, college football weekends, catching up with my neglected Kindle, and excuses to make mulled red wine.
I get my fill of actual winter for our annual Christmas trip to St. Louis, which always proves to be the dreary, dismal, etc. existence y'all describe. 7 days is enough!
Love fall and winter on the Wet Coast where it rains for days....pouring as I speak. It's my liquid sunshine. It's a time for cooking soups and stews. Wearing boots and scarves. Long walks in wet leaves, scotch and red lipstick.
nothing is better than the morning after a snow storm when everything is white and quiet (or muffled) and sky is the purest blue you can have.
and you get a surprise day off from work.
I'm in Austin, Texas, where we've shattered our records for 100+ degree weather this summer. I'm looking forward to winter because I might actually be able to go OUTSIDE!!!
I actually get more outdoorsy in the cool Texas weather, while inside I huddle inside in the AC and knit.
I am looking forward to being able to bake again, though!
Correction, During SUMMER I huddle in the AC and knit.
Ugh. Not looking forward to another 8 month Milwaukee winter. Still can't understand how people do it & I'm on my 7th year here!
I like staying in with the heat on, drinking tea, and sewing. I also love baking. It's too hot to turn on the oven in the summer, but once fall comes, I bake constantly. It helps heat the house, and friends & neighbors get treats all the time. It's a win-win.