
Emily and I had purchased a no-name generic mattress several years back, and it became painfully apparent earlier this year that the quality of our sleep had degraded with the emergence of dips in our poorly constructed nest of slumber. If there is any item in the home to splurge upon, I would say the mattress is an obvious choice. It's where you spend hours sleeping (and more wink-wink), and why cut corners with something that aids in health and comfort on a daily basis?
So when is it time to let go of Saggy McSaggins, your decade old mattress that now has an indentation that perfectly fits and nestles your body? The obvious sign is what your body is telling you. Waking up with sore spots, especially pressure points in locations as the neck, lower back, and hips is an indicator that your mattress is not providing equal body support. Lumps or sags create uneven surface area, and can actually be a precursor for more serious injuries, not to mention less restful sleep. It's time to break the codependency, friend...you've got to let Saggy go.
Also be ready financially. Buying a bed can bring some sticker shock once you enter the realm of quality built sleeping surfaces. When I was 20, I could sleep on a burlap bag stuffed with an nest of angry hornets with nary a problem. Now I need a firm, supportive mattress with better structural integrity and a spring count that nearly matches the price tag in numerals; we're talking about the $1000+ price category (although with the discount noted above, we came well under that figure). A greater spring count with thicker diameter coils and a well constructed box spring/platform bedframe can make the difference in the performance and comfort of a bed.
Seem like a lot of money? Some people will even pay between $5000-$20000 for a mattress, so save up...a good night's sleep pays for itself very quickly. I can speak from experience: upon sleeping on the new mattress, both my girlfriend and I overslept, through our alarms, on consecutive mornings because we both entered the world of Yawny at the Sleepolis and didn't want to return back to consciousness, such was the blissful comforts of a supportive bed. No buyer's remorse here...besides regretting I can't nap as much as I'd like to!
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Save yourselves some $$$!
I too was having problems sleeping and waking up unrested & grumpy with lower back pain. Although my mattress is not lumpy or sagging, it is a bit too firm. I found my (relatively)inexpensive solution at Bed, Bath & Beyond. It is a "memory foam" mattress topper. It is about 3" thick and sits on top of your mattress. Sorry, I do not remember the brand name. It costs approx. $300 (i saved 20% off that price w/ one of their coupons) but i'm telling you it made a tremendously positive difference in the way I sleep. No more toss 'n turn, no more back aches, no more grumpy mornings...no lie!
Just ask Brad Pitt...in a recent interview in Esquire magazine...The Perfect Mattress
"Don't spend a lot of money on a big, giant mattress with double padding on both sides and all that. Just go out and buy a normal firm mattress. Then go buy the three-inch Tempur-Pedic pad, the memory foam, and put it on top. I'm telling you, take my tip. It's the perfect pressure. I take full credit for the discovery. You will sleep in bliss forever more . . . unless you've got a six-week-old. "
Oh yeah, there's more...a couple months later, I found a similar product at Costco for just over half I paid so I bought one for my girlfriend.
mike - I've read here on AT that these memory foam toppers retain a lot of heat. That would be the only reason for me NOT to buy one. Have you noticed that?
We got the W hotel mattress in a fit of desperation...and love it. Pillow tip. Maybe I'm no expert, but I easily sleep an extra hour each night. Memory foam sounds nice too, but personally it feel creepy. The W is, by the way, merely a Simmons Beautyrest with a pillow top. Still, for $800, it fits the bill.
I've had a Tempurpedic mattress topper and used it for 2 years. And honestly, I didn't love it. I wish I had saved the $200 and used it towards the purchase of a new mattress... I'm one of the ones who bought the W mattress (and featherbed) last month during the 20% off promotion. And I have to say that this is the best sleep I've had. Especially with the new feather pillows and nice high thread count pima cotton sheets I got for Christmas this year.
Keep in mind that this current deal is much better than just the 25% off. If you're taking delivery outside of NY state, no sales charge will charged. And the purchase price includes free white glove delivery (transport of mattress and boxspring, set up, plus disposal of your old set). If you factor that all in, this is quite a deal. A bit on the pricey side, but a deal nonetheless.
Them's my thoughts. And I stand by 'em.
Mike: I also had a memory topper prior to the new mattress, and after a couple weeks of use, I knew it wasn't the right solution for me. Preferred sleeping surfaces are different from person to person (my own sister is skipping my advice and getting a Tempur-pedic), and I know I really dislike the heat-capturing feel of the memory foam beds. I got really hot and sweaty sleeping on one, and tossed and turned regardless of advertising. Since moving to a much more firm mattress, I've been sleeping extremely well (as some of the others have noted above). But I'm glad the memory foam is working for you, because that is what ultimately matters.
Using a plain mattress pad with your memory foam topper helps to cut down on the heat. When I first got the foam mattress topper (overstock.com), I was waking up in sweat - really gross. Then I bought a simple cheap mattress pad from Target, and it has made all the difference. Super comfortable, and none of the heat retention.
charlene: that is actually the very same solution I tried in hopes of making the topper work for me. Unfortunately, it was still way too hot. I'm one of those human furnaces...I sleep with just shorts during evenings when my girlfriend is in snowboarding socks, longjohns and possibly a parka.
That could also be the reason I should cave in and buy a Chillow pillow for the upcoming warmer months:
http://www.chillow.com/chillow.html
does anyone have suggestions for cheaper mattresses that aren't awful? i'm still in my early 20's so i don't need something really expensive, but the futon thing just isn't going to work for me.
shauna,
How much are you looking to spend? At Sam's or Costco you can probably get a mattress for 200-300 and they are name brands like Serta or Sealy. I've also seen some good deals at department stores in weekly advertisements.
hi anne, personally, i do not have a problem with the memory foam being too hot. even last summer when you could fry an egg on the sidewalk at 10pm i was in relative comfort (no a/c). but, as gregory stated, it is a personal preference and fortunately for me, it works.
Chin,
Under $500 is perfect-- but is that for a twin, double, or queen? And do you need a membership for Sam's or Costco? (We have BJ's here...I should check out their prices.)
Thanks for the advice!!
the memory foam pad has never worked all that great for me, but i was house-sitting once for someone who had the full on tempur-pedic bed, and i have never had such a nice and deep sleep in my entire life. it was wintertime, so i don't remember much about it being too hot (plus, i always am cold when sleeping.) but i do remember how hard it was to go back to sleeping on my crappy ikea mattress!
There are some very good no-name generic mattresses though! I purchased a no-name generic mattress from a very small mattress company almost 10 years ago. I sort of wandered into the office and they had phased out selling to one person at a time (I guess they sold to companies and hotels or something) but they sold me one. So inexpensive and it was a GREAT mattress. It's now getting a little less firm. It had a 10 year warranty and that's how long it's lasted but it's gotten a lot of abuse over the years from kids jumping on it and the like. It's been fantastic.
Next I got a free mattress off craigslist from a woman who was getting married. This is an awesome mattress--although this was before the bedbug scare so I'm not sure if it's great to go with the free mattress anymore.
I think the free mattress was a rather pricey one but I can't remember the brand. I sleep great.
Just don't make the mistake I did. I bought into the hype and bought a Sleep Number mattress. Worst purchase I ever made. Sure, you can adjust the "firmness" but it's still hard, like sleeping on a balloon. I developed severe pain in my shoulders and neck from the pushback of the air mattress - even with padding. We just spent $260 to ship the POS back. We're getting a new bed later this week. I can't wait until it comes.
Re: the 25% discount for the W Hotel bed - is this only for online purchases? Also, am trying to decide between the plush and the pillow top - any advice?
I got a memory foam from Costco and had the heat problem. I put a sheet over it and then a mattress pad over the sheet and the 2 layers stopped the problem. The mattress pad alone would not do it.