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Apartment Therapy on Preventing Clutter

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My grandmother's thriftiness is the stuff of family legend. While some of the stories seem incredible (like the time she mentioned that she switched her sneakers from one foot to the other to prevent them from wearing out so quickly), they're all true. She would use up or re-purpose everything before she considered throwing it out. And she had a saying that she employed, along with a little shrug of her shoulders, whenever I wanted something...

 
 

"If you don't buy it," she would tell me, "you don't have to clean it or put it away." At the time, I was a kid. I didn't clean and I had help putting stuff away but, now that I'm older, I hear my grandmother's words every time I'm about to plunk down cash for something and it makes me stop and think. Do I love this enough to clean it? Oftentimes the answer is "no" and then back it goes. Funny how much you like something until you have to think about what it's going to cost, in terms of time, money and effort, to keep it up.

Have you ever bought something for your home -- whether it was a white sofa or a rug that shed -- and then regretted it?


[image: Max and Peter's Squeaky Clean Quarters]

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Wow, what a great thing to keep in mind. I have an expensive Calphalon copper saucepan that I desperately wanted because it looks so cool hanging from my pot rack. Is it pretty? Absolutely. Is it delicate and difficult to keep clean? Yes. A stainless steel from ebay would have been cheaper and more practical.

posted by TVsJessica on August 19th 2009 at 1:23pm
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Oooh very good advice. I like that!

@TVsJessica: I'm sure you already know this, but you can quickly and effectively clean your copper with a fresh halved lemon, and for extra scrubbing, use salt with it.

posted by mjr on August 19th 2009 at 1:35pm
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@mjr: I guess I didn't think about that, so thanks :) I admit that I do like the patina on it though.

posted by TVsJessica on August 19th 2009 at 1:56pm
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i didn't buy it, but i accepted a second hand living room suite from my husband's parents.

the furniture has down-filled cusions, which are quite comfortable, but they send feathers flying all over the living room. those little buggers work their way through seams and zippers.

think twice before buying down-filled sofas!

posted by allisonharris on August 19th 2009 at 2:05pm
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Can you talk to my husband for me? I'm (unsuccessfully) getting him to (slooooowly) purge his posessions. I can't even count how many t-shirts and beer memorabilia items he has. (help. help me please.)

posted by keltrue on August 19th 2009 at 2:16pm
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All of those white sofas you see in decorating magazines are a lie. Especially the ones with the adorable dog sitting on the floor next to them.

I learned the hard way.

posted by heatherette on August 19th 2009 at 2:24pm
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Second the white sofa with cute (big, red) dog lying his dusty body alongside the sofa. Taking the covers off to clean is a big project!

posted by jen_g on August 19th 2009 at 2:42pm
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Well, I'm like your grandma, only with homes...we're trying to buy, and my husband wanted a bigger home than me, and i said I'm willing to CLEAN a two bedroom, but not a three...plus the smaller the space the less unnecessary purchases you will make. Thus, we just put a bid in for a quaint two bedroom (which I will happily clean if we get it!)

posted by CKBH on August 19th 2009 at 2:48pm
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Yeah! Can I just say one thing grandmas rock! In my experience the advice given to me from my grandmother regarding cleaning, frugality and need/want were always the most important lessons I ever had.

posted by funstraw on August 19th 2009 at 2:51pm
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Amen to that! I had a white slip-covered sofa once that was so much work because I had to clean it ALL THE TIME. Thanks for that Granny-wisdom.

posted by Tobyacts on August 19th 2009 at 3:51pm
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CKBH--so true! My parents have a semi-large 4BR house and now that we kids have moved out, it's a big pain for my mother to keep clean, even with my father's help. It's best to have a home that fits your life.

posted by slowdown on August 19th 2009 at 4:12pm
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Excellent tip!

Emily

posted by Emily Sneds on August 19th 2009 at 4:54pm
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I bought a lovely black-brown Ikea table top. The issue is that this house is particularly dusty. I end up dusting the table three or four times a week. The birch furniture that went into the room the same day, hasn't shown any dust yet.

posted by ctmagnus on August 19th 2009 at 10:37pm
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Yes, I bought this soft white fur rug and it looked great until it started shedding everywhere. there were fur balls in every corner of the room, under the bed, in the hallway. It spread everywhere. I finally just gave it to a thrift store.

posted by mysuitelife on August 20th 2009 at 11:03am
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THAT is a priceless thought. Thank you. Love your grandma.

posted by Philip_Littell on August 20th 2009 at 12:39pm
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This goes exponential once you have kids!!

posted by heather @ dollarstorecrafts.com on August 20th 2009 at 3:58pm
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My favorite grandma quote that I say often when shopping:
"When in doubt, go without."

posted by Inza on August 23rd 2009 at 11:28am
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