Oftentimes when we think about decluttering and getting rid of things we might get scared that a) we might need that thing one day or b) our home will be an empty joyless place without all this stuff or c) we convince ourselves that we actually can't get rid of any of it. But if you think about what you gain from having less, you'll realize that you actually end up with much, much more:
Our recent foray into Week 2 of the Cure had us cleaning out the kitchen. Our goal was to rid the kitchen of old/expired food, mismatched or broken dishes and in general anything we don't use, love or need. We sort of scoffed at the idea. We only moved into this apartment in February and we let go of a lot back then since our new kitchen was much smaller. So we kind of figured that there was nothing to be done about our packed cupboards, but we started anyhow. And boy were we surprised. Out went the 9 month old open pasta boxes, out (to a shelter) went those 6 cans of garbanzo beans we're just never going to use, out went the take out menus that we were saving for someday. We consolidated half empty tea boxes and in general really took look at what we use and need. Since we did just move in February, it was easy to see what we haven't even touched in 8 months. Out it went! We managed to clear out enough space that now when we look into the cupboards we can see everything on the shelf, instead of things needing to be double and triple deep.
So we made a pumpkin pie to welcome in the Fall. Really.
And here's what that whole Saturday night taught us: When we're willing to do this work for our homes and ourselves and willing to let go of what doesn't work (the stuff and the ideas) we not only get space (without having to move to a bigger place) but we get freedom to make our homes exactly what we want them to be. This freedom isn't anything we can point to, it's the feeling we got from engaging in the process of letting go of what isn't helping us. It shows us that we have choices about the way we live and what we tolerate. And when we know that this freedom is what's on the other side of letting go of clutter, it makes it that much easier.
Imge from Ben's Mid Century Mecca who has this to say about stuff:
"When I moved in, I told myself that I would only allow things in the door that I really liked. If I didn't like it, then I wouldn't have it. So it took me about 3 months till I had my first light and about 3 years to get my first planter. My friends got me a little addicted to "architectural pottery," the pottery originally designed to go along with a lot of the first Case Study Houses."
I did this a while ago too. I realized that less really is more. I gave up the nice loft and moved into a about 300 sq ft single and just love it. I only get what I need and it is amazing how little we really need. I really recommend it. I adopted the idea to "live simply" and I could not be happier. Good for you for giving it a try!
view rconverse's profile
Between stuff inherited from my grandma, things from childhood, and various ideas for any given room, I have acquired soo much stuff and the decor was not looking good. I finally went through it all and saved only things that had real sentimental value. (and even then moved some stuff to the attic). The apt now has a minimalist, simple vibe and looks better than ever.
view redcanna's profile
Yep.
view plain jane's profile
I'm in the process of selling my some of my current furniture and replacing it with more minimal pieces. Like trading my queen size bed for a full size (but treating myself to an actual bedframe and a quality mattress), trading my wide, simple computer desk for a narrow, tall leaning desk.
I have a feeling I'll be doing a lot of the trading this for that in the coming months, but hopefully I'll end up with a tiny studio that feels like a great, big, welcoming HOME. :)
view sparkle's profile
I am trying to learn to be this way. I've challenged myself to get rid of 5 things every week for a year.
http://www.flickr.com/groups/5things/
view Ana's profile
I'm reminded of this every time we go on a backpacking trip. We can carry only the essentials. It makes coming home really luxurious, and it informs how I relate to an item: essential? comfort? superfluous?
view kimg924's profile
Way to go!
view hrhprincessfiona's profile
The best place I ever lived was a tiny studio I camped out in while going through a divorce. I didn't have easy access to all my things, so I only brought what I knew I really wanted, and it was simply heaven.
Now I'm in a new place with all my [hard-won] stuff, and even after a few good purges I feel like I'm drowning in it. Still, it's hard to give it up. The Fall Cure seems to be helping, though--baby steps, I guess!
view rockypondgirl's profile
A topic I'd like to see addressed here is how to live with another person's clutter. I'll readily admit to having a lot of my own, and it's dealing with that that makes the huz's clutter so unbearable sometimes. Thing of it is we're both DIYers and we really do use it. Just not all of it, all the time.
I'm starting to see cycles. I get stuff, figure out what I really use, purge. It's never a process I actually finish.
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But now I want that yellow phone in the pic...
view gryt's profile
I live in a small (350 sq ft) studio. I was thinking about moving into a one bedroom until I realized that I'd have plenty of space if I just got rid of the things I don't need/love/want. I'm doing the Fall Cure and I expect to be bathing in space when I'm done.
view silverivy's profile
Dig that yellow phone. Must have that.
view EasilyAmused's profile
Often many of our possessions are more about a fantasy lifestyle rather than real life. Whenever I have the urge to buy something, I ask myself whether it supports who I really am, or if I'm picturing an idealized future self in my head.
This notion can also affect the way we use the space we have. Larger houses will contain huge kitchens where no one cooks much, and exercise rooms where the machines sit idle.
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i'm all for less is more, but does having a phone that is not actually usable (as it isnt plugged into a jack and is clearly not a wireless phone) really bring that idea to life?
view jaime5's profile
catrombar--i've never heard it put like that: 'future self'. It really describes the motivation behind a lot of purchases and how having a lot of stuff keeps us from being right where we are, and who we are. thanks.
view laure's profile
I've been editing quite a bit for the last year since I moved in. One thing that's traveled from place to place, not that it took up alot of room...popsicle molds. Who knows where I got them, I only used them once or twice in 11 years, always held onto them "just incase". So, finally in May, I tossed them. Then in June, my trainer started me on juicing as a way to get more nutrients into my diet. Now I wish I had those molds back because popsicles are a great quick treat when you're on the go. Sigh...but usually you don't need that thing that you think you're gonna use "someday."
view krpm1 aka Kelly:)'s profile
i always sucker myself into the "just in case" or "i'll use it someday" mentality when it comes to the kitchen. You've just reminded me that it's time to go through everything again!
view susie b's profile
Someday I'm gonna use this article... ~:o)
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We're inching towards a move and recently acquired (yeah, not got rid of ...) two big Ikea bins (we helped a friend move, see ...) and one of them I have been tossing stuff into. It is a little easier than actually getting things out of the house, emotionally, and it lets us be impulsive without accumulating a big pile by the door. Red and grey striped sweatshirt that I picked up at a clothing swap and haven't worn more than twice? Bin. Shell bracelet that I bought in Thailand, wore for most of 2002 and haven't worn once since? Bin.
Bin. Bin. Bin.
Yesterday morning, though, dear husband turns to me, moka pot in hand and says "didn't we used to have an espresso maker?" We did used to. It is with the special thai rice steamer pot. Which is where? With the bamboo steamer and the ... stuff. So much stuff. I actually didn't get rid of these things but I did banish them from the kitchen about six months ago so that we could actually get to the blender.
view amanda bee's profile
I have that phone too and I love it, except for the extremely loud and shrill ring!
http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2287/2199150922_399f1461fd_o.jpg
Re: comment about the unplugged phone, two thoughts:
1) wires are ugly when styling a photo
or
2) the phone is a sculpture and great conversation piece. it really makes the photo - I love that space!
view becky's profile
Organizing and purging isn't something one does once or twice, we need to do it all the time.
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