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AT On: Changing Your Home To Reflect The Changes In You

10709-change.jpgIn The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Benjamin notes, “It’s a funny thing coming home. Nothing changes. Everything looks the same, feels the same, even smells the same. You realize what’s changed, is you."

 
 

When you live in a space day in and day out, you can become immune to it until one day, perhaps after a vacation, you come into your home and suddenly you realize that it no longer fits you. It's a little (or a lot!) more traditional than you are, more conservative and a little stale. Suddenly the yellow walls, instead of feeling sunny, feel aged and dark, the patterned rug is not quite modern, the coffee table a little precarious. This is especially true if you've been living in the same place for a long time. This year we're going to make some changes: read and declutter our piles of books, change up the decor in our living room, swap out a oval or a round Saarien table for the rectangular farmhouse table in our dining room. Take a look around your home. Does it reflect the you you are now or have you grown up while your living space has remained the same?

[image: Wendi's Pioneer Modern]

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I think people mostly fall out of love with trends. Once it's no longer the coolest new thing, they realize they didn't actually love English Country/shabby chic/MCM/trend-du-jour for itself.

posted by Lisa Hunter (Montreal) on January 7th 2009 at 2:31pm
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When I get tired of a place I move- buy a new house, move to a new city or state- my mom says I have gypsy blood (funny thing is that I'm irish!) I think keeping life to static is unhealthy... but then again my folks have also owned 30 homes in 25 yrs themselves so I may come by my nomadic impulses naturally!!

I think when you "fall out of love" with your place you should look at all your options, not just switching out coffe tables (although that does sometimes help).

posted by Platnumblonde on January 7th 2009 at 2:39pm
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My place grows. Going back to my room at my parents' place, however, is weird.

posted by whytephoenix on January 7th 2009 at 2:58pm
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I haven't lived anywhere long enough for it to get old... I really hope I experience it some day ;)

posted by Hollie on January 7th 2009 at 3:10pm
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I agree with Lisa Hunter(Montreal). Trends change and then people don't love their things anymore. This is exactly why I don't believe in trends. I only buy things that I love because they reflect my personal style, no matter who else likes it. This way I'm never in style, nor out of style. My place grows and changes with me. A good way to keep things changing while you do is to stick with the one in- one out rule. When I bring something new into my home, I try to get rid of one thing. Its ever-evolving.

posted by jessimarie33 on January 7th 2009 at 3:25pm
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Funny - I'm just the opposite...

...I've fallen out of love with "MCM/Minimalism" and am moving towards a more mature and opulent "Neo-Regency"

posted by bepsf on January 7th 2009 at 3:28pm
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I think it's a natural human instinct to be on the lookout for "what has changed?" and to really check out your home suspiciously after you've been gone for a while. You would want to notice right away if rabid chipmunks had set up nest in the back of your MCM sofa.

posted by tam-tbag on January 7th 2009 at 5:22pm
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i'm with whytephoenix

posted by formosagirl on January 7th 2009 at 6:02pm
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Funny thing is, I developed a taste for modern back in junior high, essentially MCM, Danish Modern and the later mod modern of the 70's primarily and have not ever left it, but when you look at my place now, it's more of an ecclectic space, but with a definiate modern bent, although looking at it now, not so much modern but it'll get there eventually.

Speaking of changes, have begun to do some of that, replacing stuff that no longer works like the hand-me-down sectional that was bland and a bit too big for a smaller sofa in bright red leather - such a difference it made. There is more to come as well and part of that change is incorporating a "creation station" for doing creative projects that don't require the computer - all of this in a smallish 1 bedroom apartment.

posted by ciddyguy on January 7th 2009 at 7:45pm
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if i feel like the place needs a change, i change it.

i have a problem with commitment when it comes to decor, (i've re-painted my dining room 3 times in less than 2 years) so i purchase really versatile furniture and change up the "accessories" as i feel necessary.

posted by cicuska on January 7th 2009 at 10:21pm
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