Name: Amanda Soule
Location: Western Maine
Online home: SouleMama
Kids: Calvin (10), Ezra (8), Adelaide (5), Harper (2), Annabel (3 months)
You may have seen us feature some projects from SouleMama here and there, like this banging wall or these portrait bookmarks. It was high time we got to know Amanda better, so we chatted her up for our Big Blog Family!
Amanda's site is a testament to her dedication to family, creativity, and nature. Living in Western Maine, her family of seven now runs their own farm, with lots of homegrown produce and livestock. She posts often on the fruits of their labor, adding links to great recipes she's found to use their bounty. As a family who homeschools, or unschools, she often has great ideas and advice for learning at home. And there are plenty of tutorials, recipes, and tips, and every once in a while, a fun perspective from SoulePapa.
Amanda also has three books out that reflect the important topics in her life: The Creative Family: How to Encourage Imagination and Nurture Family Connections, Handmade Home: Simple Ways to Repurpose Old Materials into New Family Treasures, and her most recent publication, just out, The Rhythm of Family: Discovering a Sense of Wonder through the Seasons.

You mention you started blogging in 2005 as a way to join the crafting community. How do you see your blog's growth over that time? How have the purpose and content of your blog changed?
Six and a half years – oh my! The blog content has changed as our family has changed, I suppose, and as I’ve changed too. I started blogging as a young stay at home mama to two toddler boys. Six and a half years later…we have five children, have begun farming, my husband Steve and I are both working at home now, and I’m older (who knows if wiser is true, but I’m certainly happier as I’ve grown into myself).
Yet, the most important things about blogging have remained constant all this time. Blogging still serves as inspiration, encouragement, connection, and a tangible daily reminder to stay on the path I’m on as a Mama. And along the way, things I never could have imagined have come about as a result of blogging – friendships that mean the world to me, books I’ve always wanted to write, and eventually a means by which our family could live, play and work together, too. Blogging is part of my “job” now, and while there are of course, moments when it truly feels like work, it’s the best work I could ever have imagined. I love my job.

You homeschool, or "unschool," your kids. Can you explain a little about why you chose that educational route?
We do homeschool our children. I’m so grateful for the people – both locally and globally – whose work I stumbled on even before having children, and who greatly impacted our decision to unschool. John Holt, Howard Zinn, John Taylor Gatto, as well as family members, all led us to the path we’re on today. We love our days together as a family, and I am continually inspired by watching my children learn and discover the world around them, with a natural and beautiful curiosity. I think the essence of how that works for us comes across in my daily writing on the blog, but I don’t write specifically about our homeschooling, as I think that story really belongs to my children themselves.

With homeschooling, crafting, writing books, taking care of five kids, and keeping up your blog, how do you manage your time? Have you found certain tools indispensable?
There are the essential daily tasks in our lives – farm chores and household duties (everyone must eat, mama must blog, and clean laundry is helpful!). That work acts as the anchors in our days, setting a steady rhythm for us around which everything else in our lives fits in. The things we deem most important - reading, writing, sewing, knitting, photographing, playing, drawing, walking, biking, gardening, and on and on and on. There’s a lot that happens in our days!
We start most mornings as a family with a casual “meeting” at the breakfast table, where we all share what we’re hoping to do for the day, what we might need help with, etc. It’s become a really great way to ensure that everyone’s work/play/projects be treated with equal importance – from Papa building a woodshed, to Adelaide building a birdhouse. The morning meeting inspires a bit of compromise, and a lot of cooperation in the day that follows. And perhaps most importantly, I think, it helps us ‘set intention’ for the things most important to us, both individually and collectively as a family.
As far as ‘tools’ that help along the way, I’d have to say that it is the absence of certain things that help us manage our time best of all. We don’t have a television, and our time spent online (ironically, for someone who works on the internet) is really quite minimal. We rarely “shop”. And we’re mindful about the classes, activities, and ‘extras’ that we add to our days. Spending our days without those things – things that we decided don’t feed or nurture us – gives us more time to do the things we love.

What's your favorite part of living in Maine? Having your own farm, the seasons, being enmeshed in nature?
I love how distinct the seasons are here in the NorthEast. Even within a season, there is so much variation. Every place surely has its own beauty, and of course I’m a little biased here…but the beauty of Maine is home to me. Ocean, mountains, lakes, rivers, and so much “wild” space still. I love it here.
Where do you go on the internet for inspiration?
In the morning, after updating the blog and catching up on emails, there isn’t a lot of time leftover that I like to spend on the computer. I make a few stops by the blogs of friends and family for updates, browse around the beauty that lives on Flickr, and catch up on the chat of Twitter. If I pour myself a second cup of coffee, I might stay long enough to stop at Ravelry to plan my next knitting project, or head on over to Pinterest to poke around and plan my next house project. Then I try my very best to turn the computer off until evening when everyone is asleep and I head back into the studio again to play and work.

What's one great piece of parenting advice you've received?
Just Love Them
Say YES to hand-me-downs
Nurture Yourself
(Oops! That’s three…)
Thanks, Amanda! Readers, be sure to check out all the crafting, farming, and enjoying family and nature on SouleMama.
(Images: Amanda Blake Soule)
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I love the SouleMama blog, and her books. Thanks for doing this feature.
At a baby shower this weekend, someone gave the Mom-to-be 'The Creative Family' book as a gift! I'd never heard of the blog, but this woman said it is her staple gift for friends who are starting a family. That had already peaked my interest - but after this feature, I'll be sure to check it out. Thanks!
Amanda's blog was the first family blog I started to read as a new mom 4 years ago. It still inspires me every day.
Big love to SouleMama! It's the one blog that I visit every day...such beautiful inspiration.
I read Amanda's blog everyday. Love it.
Thank you for the introduction! Although I don't plan to home school, I find the values of homeschoolers interesting as a parent (experiential, fun learning with the world as a child's oyster as opposed to the uninspiring stuff I spent a lot of time doing in school). I'm looking forward to checking out this blog.
Love this!! There have been so many days that I've woken up on the wrong side of the bed and found inspiration and grace on Soulemama's blog. Amanda, thank you so much for sharing you life with others.
I visit her blog every morning for inspiration! She reminds me to cherish my time in the day.
i start my day with amanda and her gang everyday!
Such a great interview- I love to follow Amanda's blog and seasonal adventures.
Amanda's is my favorite blog. I really look forward to reading her everyday and enjoy the inspiration of her words, photos and the reminders to slow down and focus on what's truly important.
MY favorite blog. I'm ahem, probably old enough to be her mother! I gather so much wisdom and knowledge from Amanda. I love her books. My grandchildren have been the lucky recipients of many projects. Amanda's books make great gifts.
She has carried me through my journey as a mother and a blogger. So much inspiration and creativity has come out of reading her blog daily.
I read this blog for awhile, but I remember a photo of a toddler perched on a stool, holding open and "reading" a 200+ page vintage book and it struck me that much of what is projected on the site is contrived (epitomized endless "golden moment" photos). I think it is a very well executed kind of pornography for urban and suburban mothers: a gaggle of children, ever-present partner, lush surroundings, endless crafts... I'd expect five children in a rural area to be a bit more of, well, a slog. And it's the slog-navigation part of a mother's life that makes a really compelling family story (a la Heather Armstrong).
Amanda is living the life I wanted in my early 20's but was not able to pursue. I still ended up in a place of love and goodness. I love her blog, I am now coming full circle in my life as a grandmother and find such peace and inspiration from her blog as it sums up the way I feel about my family. Family is the root of all joy, and by family I mean all types of family. Thank you Amanda for sharing all that you do!
Amanda's blog is the kind of blog that deliberately chooses to spotlight the positive, beautiful and inspiring. However, as a long time reader of her blog, I would say that it is quite clear that, as with any family, sometimes life is less than smooth. It's just that her blog focus is elsewhere.
I for one am very grateful to her for encouraging all her readers to lock the bathroom door and dig into a tub of ice cream when the going gets tough.
I adore Amanda's blog. She says that these are moments that she chooses to focus on. If you have children you know that motherhood is harder than you ever thought, it is not picture perfect, you lack sleep and often you can loose focus on the really important things. I do that all the time. After reading her blog it makes me find that moment in the day that made all the chaos worth it. She ever claimed to be the perfect Mama. I read CYL's comment and maybe I read it wrong but it sounded a bit...well...a bit mean.
Clearly, lack of sleep are why I have so many typos. :)
*Love* SouleMama's Blog. For years now. :)
Oh my, I have to agree with CYL, a slog it definitely would be! And home schooling! I don't envy the Soule lifestyle one little bit.
I have been reading Soulemama since 2005, and struggle too with how "perfect" she presents her life to be. Even in its imperfections, it seems a little forced. Or genuine to the point of being over the top. I'm sure that's partly my own insecurities coming through, and maybe hers too -- I'm sure she's a lovely person.
Still, since she tells us so much about her life and her kids, why does she never mention what her husband does for work? Is it too personal? I guess for those of us whose husbands don't earn enough to allow the charming stay-at-home life she presents, it would be at least instructive to know what industry he's in -- inspiration, let's call it. Or some balanced awareness of what it actually takes to have that lifestyle.