When Sonya and Don moved into their drool-worthy new Washington, DC home this Christmas they were really wiped out. Practicing lawyers with two boisterous young sons, they made a decision: They would resist the urge to plunge into redecorating or furnishing their new home. Instead they decided to just…be. In a city where everything is a project with a deadline; where everyone is in a rush to perfection, this family has chosen to sit back and enjoy their half-empty home.
Let's be clear, though: living in a house like this with minimal furnishings isn't exactly a hardship. This place is simply amazing in its barest state. And big: about three times larger than their previous home Built in the 1970s, the house is all windows and wide open spaces. On the main floor, a massive (we are talking museum-sized!) hallway with sleek marble floors becomes center stage not just a passageway. The house feels so fun, open and light that you almost want to run around like a child just taking in all the space! (And that is pretty much what my kids did when they visited). It is like an evacuated gymnasium!
For the design-oriented, such a house is the stuff of fantasy. Like one big blank white canvas, the space calls out for bold, dramatic artwork and bright, innovative furnishings. Though Don and Sonya get a genuine kick out of decorating and renovating, they have decided to get to know their home before they furnish it. "We are so lucky. And we just want to have fun and appreciate the space. We want to have lots of friends over and not worry about ruining anything," says Sonya. "We want to live simply in a big house."
The largest room is the living room. And this is the last room they plan to fill with furniture. Instead it will function as an indoor playground, replete with tents, tunnels and sporting equipment. The boys play hockey up and down the hallway, with the marble floor serving as the ice rink (Don works for the Washington Capitals so hockey sticks abound). Says Don, "they use full length sticks and a net. And if they mark up the walls, so what? We eventually have to repaint anyway." Sonya bought the kids a bike with plastic wheels so they can ride from hallway to kitchen and dining room and back around again. Don and Sonya plan to screen movies against the massive blank white walls. For their son's next birthday party they are thinking about renting a moon bounce…for inside. With all the glass windows, they are pretty exposed, though the neighborhood is quiet. "I apologized to the neighbor that the living room from the front looks so barren and undecorated," says Don. "She said 'No! I love the tents!'"
Some rooms will require more immediate attention, Sonya says. Their gorgeous kitchen was already renovated but they have added a Saarinen tulip table and 4 molded plastic shell chairs (very kid-friendly and stylish). The family room is a work in progress, functioning in part as a playroom. New shelving and rugs are next on the agenda there. They hope to fix up the mudroom and invest in a new dining room table and sideboard for the dining room, maybe from Home Anthology, which is just outside of Baltimore.
We will be following Don and Sonya as they slowly decorate their enviable new home. What would you do with the space if you had it? Could you take it slow?
Images: Catrin Morris









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I love this. I real family with real time restraints. It is impressive to see people move into their new home and have it magazine worthy in a few weeks, but that's not the real world! Thanks for sharing what i'm sure will be a beautifully furnished home. Eventually ;-)
love this post, it is such a good idea to be able to just hang before you throw things places. cuts out countless rearrangements!
I love what Don and Sonya have done, or not done to their new house. I've never been a fan of unpacking and setting up house immediately when I move into a new house/apt. It may sound strange but I like to "live with my space" for a little while and let my belongings tell where they want to be. A little goofy maybe but it works for me.
My wife and I are in exactly the same position! We moved to the Bay area this past summer, we both have new jobs, and hardly the time to delve into the details of decoration. It is a big white plank - or, in our case, light grey like our walls :) We are recording the pieces we thought we would buy for the various rooms when we moved in, the pieces we are considering in the interim, and the ones we end up buying - or will get in the near future. It's great to see how our feel for the space develops gradually.
Problem is, when you do it piece by piece, you risk losing the overall vision. We got an off-white rug, and suddenly the whole living room was too white! And then we were afraid that our sofa was going to look too dark, so we changed our order to that one. We'll see where this leads...
We did something like this when I was very young (we're talking 3 or 4) at my parents house after my dad built our addition. We had couches and a chair, but no carpet because the carpet they ordered wasn't going to be in for weeks. So they let us go crazy on the floor with markers and crayons and stuff. I still have slight memories of sitting on the floor and coloring on the plywood underneath me.
This looks like a paradise for a kid!
We moved from a 1100 square foot home to a 2800 square foot home, and found quickly that we needed a LOT more stuff to properly fill our home out. We made a list of things we wanted to do and to have- and prioritized the list. It's been about 1.5 years now, and a lot of the major things are done- but not all. We still have about 1/2 of the list. The less visible and less important 1/2, but still a large amount of things left on the list. It is a good excercise in self-discipline. Also, we are able to find GREAT deals when we don't rush to buy everything just because we can.
In my experience one must live in a space for about a year or more before being able to really know what it needs. Until we are familiar with the play of light, the warm spots, cool spots and how the space flows, it is difficult to "get it right on the first try". That said, kudos to this family who are willing to give the house time to tell them what it needs. They will be much happier doing it this way, I'm sure.
Slow design if I ever did see it.......
Beauty is more than a well designed and appointed home, this beauty is lived.
Fortunate and brilliant is what this family is....
i love you Sonya & Don, love!
When we moved in our current house, we let everything untouched for two whole months, just to see how the house felt at different hours. We took the time to think of the new floor plan (when we bought the house, you had to go through two bedrooms to get to the only bathroom, so major changes were necessary).
However, we started planning as soon as we came in, and we placed the furnitures we had. Moving them helps us find what we really want to do with the space.
I really needed this post! We just moved into a rental house, but our only furniture was my twin bed, a plastic table and a dresser! (I've only rented rooms up to this point)
We got a fridge and double bed right away. Over the last 6 months, we got nightstands and a couch. We have 2 empty bedrooms and a sad, empty living room... but I'm enjoying drawing out the decorating process.
It would be a lot easier if my house looked like this one.
Just moved two weeks ago, and this is exactly what I needed to see!
Excellent! When we moved to Richmond, we had more square footage than furniture too. We brought the kids' bikes in & even though they were were only 2 & 4 then, they vividly remember how fun it was to ride round & round & round wuthout hindrances. Our 1932 home needed the floors refinished anyway (still do)! It's filled now but sometimes I wish to go back to sparse. "Stuff" and the keeping of "stuff" does have a way of stealing out lives.
Ha! I've been doing this for 5 years since we moved from a teeny space to a much larger one -- I really don't mind waiting to buy what I *want* instead of hurrying up to buy something just because somebody else thinks the space should be filled or changed. As far as I'm concerned, it is filled -- with play. My son loves having the run around space, and I'm not in a huge rush to change that.
Love it. Slightly off topic but...you can actually buy smaller moonbounces for pretty cheap. Cheaper than renting in some places. (if you don't mind Wal-Mart.) One friend of mine--two now actually--has a Little Tikes one that folds up into a Rubbermaid bin when it's not being used. She sets it up in the basement on dreary winter days.
Sometimes I think that's just what our own basement needs in the middle of the D.C. winter and endless "snow days" or "ice days" when school is cancelled. We do spend time outside but my 2-year-old never lasts too long in deep snow (she's too short to enjoy it yet) and ice is of course slippery.
Kids are kids; let them have fun and get exercise when it's not possible to be outside all day!
Their kids will never forget this time in their life and it will be talked about memorably at every family holiday when they are adults. What fun.
wow....that hallway is bigger than my apartment.
Thanks everyone for validating our pace and to Catrin for the very witty and thoughtful post!
So where did they put all their old furniture?
i like this 'tude