I have a confession to make: I am not a DIY project person. Yes, I manage a site that features a lot of DIY projects, and yes, I am a very enthusiastic proponent of well-done DIY. But if you went into my apartment expecting to hear a slew of stories about how I stripped down that and how I constructed this, you would be sorely disappointed. At one point this fact may have depressed me ("Ugh! I'm such a loser because I can't sew!"), but as I've gotten older I've taken on a new perspective: I actually do have a home filled with handmade items. What? Am I a closet DIY'er? Do I sleepwalk and unknowingly craft lampshades at 3am in the morning? (That would be pretty awesome, actually.) No, friends. I'm not a DIY person. I'm a DIBSHA person.
DIBSHA: "Do It By Supporting Handmade Artists"
I am the first person to cast long admiringly glances in the direction of people who sew their own curtains and pillow covers, who reupholster, repaint, and repair everything from headboards to pipe shelves. If I'm honest, the extent of my DIY endeavors include painting my wood bedside tables (nope, I didn't sand or prime. I literally took a pint of paint and a brush and went to town) and upholstering an ottoman from scratch (which, granted, sounds super impressive, but I took a class and had a significant amount of help from a class assistant assigned to correct all of my mis-staples).
Last November I wrote a post lamenting my black thumb, and through that humbling experience realized my own piddly DIY endeavors might be better served supporting other artists' talents instead. In other words, if I can't do it, I should support someone who can. Not having the skills or time to do it yourself shouldn't be a cause for guilt; it can be an opportunity to support someone else.
I'm always been a 'Buy' rather than 'DIY' girl, but if I can be a 'Buy Handmade' girl, even better! Now THAT is something I know I can do, and do with pleasure!

A few of handmade items I have and use in my home. Clockwise from top left: The Night Before art print, by Fumiko Toda; Skinny Laminx pillows and the Triangle Pillow from Bookhou; a handmade Swedish hand broom, from Brook Farm General Store; Cream Deodorant, from Soapwalla
We've written a lot on the value of buying handmade: it supports small communities and individuals; handmade items are higher quality, unique, and not mass-produced; it creates an appreciation for and desire to support the creator and their trade. As Rikkianne wrote in her new Re-Nest column, Redefine, when you buy handmade "you are playing a part in a type of appreciation for how things are made, where they came from, and actually promoting their use as opposed to just purchasing a quick fix. We live in a fast-paced, throw-away society, but it's the creative process of our indie community and eco handmade world that forces us to slow down a little bit. It invites us to ask ourselves questions about the materials we use, their past life, and their future possible uses."
My favorite items to buy handmade are:
- Textiles: so many beautiful options out there! Favorites include anything made of linen or wool, including curtains, pillow covers, tea towels, napkins, and blankets.
- Artwork: 20x200, Paperwork, The Working Proof... these are only some of the terrific online sources for buying and supporting independent artists.
- Ceramics: Pottery takes handmade back to its original meaning.
- Food: I love food, and thankfully I live in Brooklyn where it seems every week there's a new artisan food maker popping up in some part of the borough. I'll happily support local ingredients and talent wherever I can.
- Jewelry: Fashion isn't something we talk about on Re-Nest, but I'll mention it in this case because I love supporting jewelry makers. Most of my favorite pieces are handmade.
All this month we're focusing on the Handmade Home at Re-Nest, but check out these past posts on all things handmade to get started:
- The Handmade Pledge: Where and How To Do It!
- Buying Handmade: 6 Other Handmade Marketplaces
- New In Marketplace: Handmade Home Stores
- 10 Handmade Tabletop Accessories
- 25 Handmade Gifts for the Home
- 9 Best Handmade Wood Gadget Accessories
- 10 Handmade Planters for Indoor and Outdoor Plants
- 4 Handprinted Fabric Designers
(Images: 1. Leela Cyd Ross | Re-Nest; 2. Cambria Bold, and as linked)


Shaw's Original Fir...
Bless you! I feel like I can come out of the closet--I suck at DIY! I have ideas for projects and great admiration for those who can do it, but I somehow lack the skill and patience to pull it off myself. So I am very happy to support handmade artisans on Etsy and in my local area!
Add me to the non-DIY crowd! I can do a bit of very simple knitting (squares and rectangles only, please) and that's about it for skills. But there are so many folks out there that CAN do stuff, I'm happy to be a patron, instead.
Now, if only I had MONEY to support those craftspeople....
I'm not merely incompetent, I'm actually dangerous. I excel at paying others to do what I can't, and shouldn't even attempt, to do. Everyone comes out happy that way.
Yes!
And that soapwalla deodorant is great....
I'm a DIYer to the max. There's pretty much nothing outside of major repairs I won't jump right in head first on. That said...
Yay for DIBSHA! There's nothing wrong with not having the skill or time to DIY your whole life. If everyone could make everything for themselves then where would we get variety in our homes? Plus, when I finally get my handmade soaps and cleaning products going it's nice to know there are people out there who won't say "I can just make that."
I'm DIBSHA too...I'm actually a great "idea pointperson" but awful with my hands. Most times when I buy something online, it's a "you had me at handmade" moment. On my blog, I do a weekly obsessed with etsy for this very reason, to support the wonderful crafters and upcyclers who do such amazing work.
Look at the picker sisters, awesome eye and great ideas but they have their carpenter dude bring their vision to life.
I was trying to guess what DIBSHA stood for before loading the full post and came up with Do It, But Sorta Half-Assed... I'm a little bit of both DIBSHAs
@urban ruralist, HA! That's also quite good.
OMG! @Urban ruralist- that's hilarious! I was trying to figure out what DIBSHA was also, but came up with "Did It, But Shan't Happen Again." I am a DIYer, but will readily admit when I've met my match, Some projects have turned out fairly awesome, but the amount of cursing, broken finger nails, blobbed glue, tumbles off ladders, smashed thumbs, spilled paint (did I mention the cursing?)....indicate some things just aren't worth it! I can come up with great ideas, but it is sometimes better for all parties concerned to pay someone else to execute my ideas! ("Do It But Sorta Half Assed"- LOL! That seems to be my motto!!!)
@ecuadorianan1, I love all these other DIBSHA meanings! I definitely relate to all of them.
hahaha i'm definitely a dibsha
and the guesses are great
"Did It, But Shan't Happen Again." (ecuadoriana1) is more what I was thinking it would be
I'm a good DIY, but in lack of time also like to DIBSHA
I am your typical jack-of-all-trades and master of none! I have great ideas, even better intentions, but the end results are usually not to my high expectations :(
When it comes to refinishing or hacking furniture, it's a bit difficult for me as I live in a condo and don't have access to a garage or workshop to carry out all my brilliant DIY ideas, not to mention all the cool power tools one needs to pull off many of my ideas!
I love to pass away time knitting or crafting gifts, but sometimes my projects have small flaws so I feel like I've failed...us Virgos are very tough on ourselves, maybe I should lighten up!
Craftspeople were a dying breed up to a few years ago, so I'm glad to see a resurgence and appreciation for arts and crafts.
One of the best articles, I've read! Thank you, Cambria. I loved reading the guesses too :) I am a DIY gal but "Did It, But Shan't Happen Again knocked me off my chair. Love it and admit that it happens all of the time.
Is a relieve to know I'm not alone... I felt a bit guilty sometimes but not anymore !! Thank you !!!
I've refinished and reupholstered furniture on my own, but I can't do everything. Three cheers for skilled craftspeople!
I am not a DIYer either (wish I was) but supporting them is a great idea! LOVE your little blue & white planters! Where are they from?
I'm with DovieAnn in the "DIYer to the MAX" category. I come from a long line of DIYers, and absolutely love to create different things...
But I'm also a bit of a "Jack of all trades" DIYer too. But mostly, I build furniture and knit. Without DIBSHA folks, what would I make?? My little house can only hold so much (and my mom's is filling up fast) of my furniture projects.
Thankfully, since people are always having babies, wanting furniture, or wanting some kind of furniture upcycled, I almost always have a couple projects out there.
So, thank you, DIBSHA folks, without you, I would be both bored and broke!
I do like to do DIY projects, however it is difficult to find the time to start them or complete them. I thinknit is a great idea to local artists through buying their handmade furnishings and accessories.
We are totally DIY family, and it is really nice to see that there are people out there who appreciate and support DIY
Thank you for a wonderful post :-)
My father always says, "There are things you do, and things you throw money at." I recite that saying every time I realize that I am completely out of my element and need to realize that it's OK to admit that I can't do it myself.
The older I get, the better I am at picking and choosing my projects/battles.
I think. Don't quote me on that!!