When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
1 Corinthians 13:11 (NIV)
When I was a child, summer was miraculous, a time outside of time. Though the wait for it was interminable, once arrived, the season seemed endless. From its midpoint, right about now, it was impossible to see the twin horizons of school, May's drone and September's fresh pencils. It was all peach ice cream and Slip N Slides as far as the eye can see.
Or at least that's how I remember it from the vantage point of adulthood, when summer's big bell curve has been flattened into the tiny peaks of weekends, or worse, "working weekends." In memory, the scraped knees are elided, the ice cream never fails to freeze, and Childhood Is the Kingdom Where Nobody Dies.
It's all well and good to put away childish things—my allowance is a lot bigger now, and I haven't been grounded in a good long while—but there's something to be said for digging out and dusting off our childish things every so often.
Which is to say, I've been playing with the tops. E. brought back from El Salvador, and I've discovered something amazing: tops are time machines. We're blessed to live on Cortelyou Road, one of the most diverse places in the city, and when we spin our tops on the sidewalk in front of the library, our neighbors from all over the world stop what they're doing to come play with us. No matter what they call it ("Trompos!" "Tupes!" "Carambola!"), they invariably say the same thing: that they haven't seen a top in so many years, since they were children in their home country, and they probably don't know how to spin one anymore, but would we mind.... And in an instant our careworn neighbors are giggling and showing off, cavorting and rejoicing, restored to the people they were before love or war or money brought them here.
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Thank you for this post -- it is beautiful. Now I REALLY want to move to Brooklyn (as if I didn't before), and play with tops.
Love your friend's artwork, especially the collages.
It's amazing what sparks our memories, isn't it? I recently came across a pair of old Cabbage Patch babies. Not the new ones they have now, but the oldschool ones that were made out of something just a bit stronger than extra-strength pantyhose.
One of the CPBs is a 'newborn', which means it only has a tuft of hair atop its head.
I remember very vividly my mom washing it in the washing machine, and hanging it on the line by that tuft of hair, while our yellow lab ran around in circles barking at it.
*raises a glass*
To childhood memories, and reliving them at every turn.
Thank you for this post.
my cousin and I (she lives in Brooklyn now, and I in Boston), have been very nostalgic lately in our notes to each other, recalling swimming in the tanks out at the ranch in Texas where we'd spend the summer with our grandmother, wear real Mexican hurraches in white leather, get sunburned, sweaty, play in the yard with the dog, and run around terrorizing the small town. Sparklers, fireworks, picnics, feeding the ducks...It was blissful and I want to go back so bad and be a kid again...
Kick the can and wiffleball, and riding bikes to the pond (balancing our fishing poles on the handlebars.) And we never EVER caught any fish, haha..