
My last few weeks have been a bit hectic. I’m taking my business in a new direction and it involves some travel. I’m sitting on an airplane as I write this and thinking about what makes coming home so special — no matter if it is at the end of a long day or at the end of a trip. There is just something about settling back into your own space and sleeping in your own bed that has a restorative effect.
While I feel that this is as much about the intangibles as it is about tucking into a well-made bed, there are things you can do to cultivate an environment that is a pleasure to come home to.
1. Clean before you leave. While it may be the last thing you want to do when preparing to leave for a trip, coming home to a clean, uncluttered environment is well worth the extra effort and will allow you to start unwinding as soon as you come back through the door.
2. Clean out the fridge, take out the trash and do all of the dishes. While it might sound obvious, this one is key. There is nothing worse than opening the door and being overwhelmed by the smell of rotting garbage. It’s also a good idea to throw out any cut flowers if you will be gone for more than a week.
3. Stock up on a few non-perishables for when you get back. Frozen entrées, canned soups and coffee are nice to have on hand. It allows you to put off the grocery run until you’ve had a chance to sleep off a bit of the jet lag.
4. Make sure your plants are taken care of. Whether you have a self-watering system or ask a neighbor to drop by, make sure you have a system in place. This can be easy to forget and it doesn’t take long for plants to dry out.
5. Make the bed up with clean linens. For me sleeping in my own bed is the thing I miss the most. It doesn’t matter how nice the place I’m staying is, coming home and tucking into crisp, clean sheets can’t be beat.
What do you do to prepare before leaving for a trip? Leave your suggestions in the comments below.
Image: Kyle Freeman from Dana & JB's Single Family Home + Studio Gem
Comments (23)
I like to unplug most of my electrical devices, even some clocks. It gives me a little peace of mind.
Other than having a neighbor-friend pick up my mail (if I'm gone for more than a couple of days), you've covered it.
as much as i hate it, there really is nothing like coming back home to a super clean house. if i leave the place a mess before i leave, sometimes it's feels like I never even went anywhere when I get back.
I suck at doing all of these things, as I'm usually a stress elemental before a trip. But aside from all the stuff you nailed (esp. good point with cut flowers), taking care of sorting through any time-sensitive mail is a big help. Nothing worse than coming home and realizing "OH SH*T" if you forgot to pay an important bill or something. And then your entryway pile will be clearer when you walk in.
Your number 5 is my number 1!!! Fresh sheets on the bed when I come home makes me feel like I'm still on vacation and like someone was there before me to make up the room. I also usually try to reschedule my cleaning lady for the day before I get home if it falls on the right week. I love travel but I love coming home more.
I'm so glad other people do this!
Everyone always teases me about cleaning the house before we go anywhere.
Two things I would add to this list are, make sure you have some clean comfy clothes to change into for when you get back (and sorry if this is gross) FLUSH the toilets!! My husband left one toilet "occupied", it was only for the weekend but BBLLLEECHH!
i do all these, but i wish my cat sitter (kid brother or sister) would clean up after themselves to my standard. I hate coming home from a weekend away, finding soda cans all over the place and the bed unmade. That's acceptable where they live, but not where I live. Sucks because they're the only people who can care for my cat, so i have to put up with it :/
One summer I was off to Iraq for an extended reporting trip -- 9 weeks, all over -- and for some reason my cats started peeing on my bed -- with me in it. (It turns out, unbeknownst to me, a raccoon was making nightly raids on their food through an open third floor deck door, and they tried to wake me up to get me to chase it away, and the only way they could succeed was by peeing on me. It took about 3 times for me to figure it out. House has also been inhabited by a baby possum and 2 baby squirrels. I've finally plugged up all the holes.) Anyway, before I solved the problem (by discovering the raccoon, and keeping the door shut... it had been open so the kitties could frolic on the deck at will) I was totally panicked that I'd be coming back to a completely trashed house (or at least bed). My recommendation: if you have pets, also get an impermeable mattress cover. I got one for 100 bucks and it truly does keep the mattress from getting trashed. When you travel for long periods, some pets register their displeasure on the place where you sleep. So, better safe than sorry. For more travel tips (especially to the war-torn areas I tend to find myself in) see: http://tinyurl.com/3qmfdgj
pam h
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You nailed it! And if you're leaving pets in someone else's care, make sure you gather their medical history/ vet records along with your vet's phone number, enough food for while you're gone + some extra "just in case", leashes/toys/treats/etc (pet litter if a cat).
A good list.
Also, I always make sure I have milk I can use for tea/coffee/cereal without having to run to the grocery store.
If I'm leaving the freezer running, I put whatever is left of my milk and bread in the freezer. Milk separates when it freezes, but melts back together just fine. Otherwise I make sure I have some Parmalat - the ultra pasturized milk that comes in boxes.
Also, when I return home, I unpack as soon as I walk in the door. If I didn't, it would take me days to get around to it.
This list is my list. I am sometimes not successful at getting all of these items done before I hit the road, but every single one of them is an important goal.
Instead of having a neighbor hold my mail, I go to usps.gov and complete the online form to have the post office hold my mail until I return. This has been invaluable, and is so easy to do. It's nice having a nice bundle of mail show up the day or day after I return, and I don't have to worry about neighbors being in my house when I'm not there or having my mail pile up letting criminals know I'm not there.
It's been great every time I've done it for the past several years EXCEPT this most recent request when the post office apparently misdelivered my bundle. They are investigating it now.
I have a friend who left his apartment in such chaos before he went on a trip that it took him 2 days to realize he had been robbed after he returned.
This last post is hysterical.
1. Disconnect your water to washing machine, sink, toilets, etc.; and
2. Invest in some good automated interior lights.
Strange that I come home from work to find this timely post open on my computer as a I procrastinate instead of packing for my trip to Hawaii tomorrow! Love the tips -wish I could follow even one of them! I am going to take out the trash & drop my little plant off at my in-laws'.
@nik111 -LMAO!
I certainly think cleaning before you leave is a must. Coming home and having to enter in a cluttered space, would make me feel like I attend to the cleaning rather than resting and taking a small chill pill.
Rashon aka Mr. Goodwill Hunting
My list is similar. I also like to make sure I have clothes ready if I have to get up and go to work the next day.
I remember when I was a kid I used to think my mum was crazy, running around cleaning the house before we left for holidays, since we weren't going to be there anyway. Now I get it. :)
Ha! My house is always cleaner right before I go on a trip. I'll be running around cleaning and my son will come by and ask where I'm going...There is such a great feeling when you walk in the front door after a trip and go "ahhhh" home at last! Love to travel, but no place like home.
Love the painting over the the bed. Who's the artist?
All that plus pet sitter and remembering to have fresh veggies for the rabbit!
Don't forget to get call the cat sitter/friend well in advance so you don't have to rush around at the last minute trying to find someone to drop in on your pets.
Make sure you have friends or family like me! When my family is off visiting, I sneak over the day of their return and stock their fridge with simple essentials. I prepare a slow cooker meal. I turn on the lights and set the table.They walk into their already clean house, complete with a hot meal and no need to leave for the food run. Good end to great vacations.
if it's a longer trip, we ask our friend who picks up the mail and dog sits to open the windows for a bit everyday; helps prevent the space feeling musty