At least I'm not a solo left-leaning black sheep now. My husband-to-be, the professor, is very liberal and opinionated. His mother is also a Republican, but he ribs her if she says anything he finds contentious. Will he continue to abide by my parent's unspoken rule — which I remind him of often — or will he just hold his tongue 'til the ring is firmly on my finger? I wonder.
When my family does get together on big holidays, the conversation is anything but dull. Most of us are pretty darn witty following a glass or two of wine. And it's not like we're a bunch of prudes. Even my mom has been known to crack ribald jokes after pie and port. Sometimes the conversation gets downright raunchy. But I really can't remember ever having a discussion about politics or religion, ire-raising or otherwise. Then again, holidays aren't really known for heavy.
I wish I could eavesdrop on Thanksgiving dinners across the nation this year to hear what people actually talk about — and don't. Asking Apartment Therapy readers is obviously the next best thing. So how about it: Do you have any spoken or unspoken rules of conversation during family gatherings? Do you have any great anecdotes? Please dish!