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Five Lessons From Your Teenage Bedroom

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This grown-up bedroom from an upcoming house tour puts the
best principles of a teenage bedroom to work.

Looking back on the bedroom where you lived in your teenage years, do you feel horror or nostalgia? We're guessing a combination of both. The mess and chaos of our teen rooms might make us cringe now, but there's also no denying that a teenager's bedroom is a sanctuary, a place to relax and recharge, and also a vehicle for free self-expression. And don't we all still want those things for ourselves? Maybe there are a few valuable lessons we can take from our teenage rooms and apply to our bedrooms today...

 
 

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Could this really be a teenager’s room? Well, maybe designer mom Virginia had him clean it up for the photo shoot... but still, we love the way her son Charlie's choices, like the vintage movie poster and the globe, give us an immediate sense of his style and the things he loves.

1 - Let your wall décor reflect what you love. Now, we're not suggesting that you resurrect your Kirk Cameron shrine or your Thriller album cover collection, but there's something to be said for surrounding yourself with reminders of the music, art, and friends that make you happy. If, like the couple who lives in the bedroom in the top photo, you have friends who are artists, hang their work. Frame favorite book covers, or look for vintage music and movie posters.

2 - Experiment with color. A pale room can be serene and lovely, but if you enjoy color, the bedroom’s a great place to use it. Many people shy away from color in the bedroom because of a fear that it will distract from sleep and relaxation, but wise color choices can actually encourage rest. If you’re wary, start small, with artwork and accent pillows.

3 - Give yourself a good place to lounge. Bean bags and papasan chairs might be a thing of the past (we hope!), but it’s wonderful to have a spot in your bedroom for relaxing that isn’t the bed. A little reading nook—chair, ottoman, and side table—is perfect if you've got the space, and if not, consider placing a chair close enough to the bed that you can prop your feet on it.

4 - Try to keep things relaxed. Now of course we aren’t advocating the traditional teenage mounds of clothes and unmade beds, but we get why they’re so common: in the bedroom, we want to relax, not work. Consider making it easy to keep your bedroom clean by simplifying your bedding. Despite the appeal of an elegant, well-dressed bed, if it’s too overwhelmed with throws and pillows and bolsters, you won’t want to lounge on it or make it up in the morning.

5 - Don’t be afraid to make frequent décor changes. Teenagers’ walls and rooms are constantly in flux, with new pictures replacing old, chairs getting shoved around, and so on. This is a good practice to follow for freshening up your own bedroom. Change around your wall art; change the angle of a chair to get different light; mix up your lighting, bringing in lamps from other rooms.

What are some things you loved about your own teenage room? Please share!

Photo: Virginia Armstrong of roddy&ginger, originally featured on BloesemKids

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I would so rock a Kirk Cameron poster right now, haha.

posted by Kimber on April 16th 2009 at 10:12pm
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My teenage bedroom didn't change after I was 12, so I lived in a constant state of light purple walls, horse posters, horse show ribbons, and even more purple. Purple, ponies, and Rosie the Riveter. I like to think that I'm a little more grown up now...

posted by twitteringbirdie on April 16th 2009 at 10:41pm
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in my old bedroom I had painted the walls a pale blue and then used a navy glaze which I "shmooshed" on with saran wrap.... and although my tastes have definitely changed since then, it looked fantastically cool and it was friend central for quite some time. Those were the days...

posted by sholt on April 16th 2009 at 10:41pm
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I painted a life size mural of an Iron Maiden album cover with Eddie rising from the grave on my wall. I liked the art. Didn't even know the music, and was otherwise a well-adjusted young lady. My mom thought it was funny and was proud of my talent so she would bring her friends up to see it. They all thought I was nuts- and my mom nuts-er for letting me do it. Eventually I repainted beige. Me and my mom regretted it. Uch. I hate beige.

posted by teeze on April 16th 2009 at 10:54pm
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I had a hammock strung diagonally across my room and the bed, and always some sort of creative project or two going on. You're right, there is a lot of freedom of expression and comfort in a teenager's bedroom.

posted by emilykristin on April 17th 2009 at 12:18am
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Two words: cable television.

posted by petethecat on April 17th 2009 at 1:27am
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I used an opaque projector to paint Lichtenstein's Drowning Girl on my wall. My teenage heart knew I needed to dial down the class, so I surrounded it with chili lights and pictures of Everclear (the band). There was a mattress on the floor and glow-in-the dark stars... maybe a lava lamp? I'm not sure. I loved it.

posted by RuralJuror on April 17th 2009 at 6:31am
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I love the first point, to let your wall décor reflect what you love. The first time I read it thought, "Well, duh, everyone knows that," but then I stopped and thought about it. Too many people, myself included, have art on their walls that is lovely, well-proportioned, color-coordinated, and goes with the rest of the room, but is absolutely impersonal. Starting today, I'm going to look at each piece I have and consider how it reflects me, and if I really love it or not. Thanks for the inspiration!

posted by Emika on April 17th 2009 at 7:41am
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i think i let that spirit live in my closet. i've always treated my closet like a room (and been lucky enough to have biggish closets). i paint them, tack up museum brochures, photos, magazine clippings. it's a bit more "mature", or perhaps organized is a better word, than my teenage bedroom, but it's my place to let all that just be.

posted by darlingcaro on April 17th 2009 at 9:35am
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This is what I miss most about my teenage room. It's hard when you live with another person in a small space, even if it's someone you love very much, to have the freedom of expression that you would if you were by yourself. If I had my way entirely, I would collect all sorts of pictures that inspire me in some way and stick them all over the walls. However, the wall decor must reflect "us", and not just me. So I miss the ability to decorate spontaneously.

posted by PhoebeArt on April 17th 2009 at 9:39am
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I think that to this day my favorite bedroom of all time is the one I had from 8th grade through my first year of college (though I did not live at home during college). It had china blue walls and my mom painted the wood floors with pink and white stripes. My bed had a pretty floral quilt that we bought in one of our favorite places, Northeast Harbor, ME and I had a rug that my mom brought back from France that was white, red, green, blue, pink and yellow striped (much more cohesive than it sounds, trust me). I had a big bulletin board on the wall where I put up pictures of friends and party invitations, school play programs etc. I even had a light green antique desk (shabby chic but in the real way, not 'I painted something from Target and then chipped away the paint with a hammer') and a white wicker chair in the corner. It sounds very crazy and mismatched but when I think of home, I think of that room. I don't think I will ever be able to recreate it.

posted by lizziepeony on April 17th 2009 at 9:49am
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I had an entire wall devoted to Stevie Nicks. My teenage bedroom was my sanctuary. My parents let me do pretty much what I wanted to with the decor. Honestly, no other place makes me feel as good and comforted as that bedroom made me feel back then.

posted by CupcakeZombie on April 17th 2009 at 11:21am
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I had some transformations.. the one I remember well, was doing "NY skyline" - I sprayed black over yellowish (for windows) and dark blue (for sky) - it was really cool.
After awhile I painted three walls dirty navy blue (effect of my experiments with white paint and blue/black dye) and one on one wall I glued using the same paint pieces of newspapers. I must say, it was damn awesome :D
The newspapers get yellow pretty fast unfortunately.
I also had in one top corner attached three big branches... I still like decorating using branches and roots.

But for sure I am not as brave as I was 15 years ago! and it's not entirely bad ;-)

posted by Offtza on April 17th 2009 at 11:25am
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I had white Christmas lights strung across the low ceiling of my basement bedroom and orange, pink, or blue (depending on when I decided to change them) strung on the headboard of my antique bed and above my antique vanity. I loved the cozy ambiant glow...and would love to be able to re-create that feeling in a "grown up" way in my bedroom now as a married woman.

posted by KiraArts on April 17th 2009 at 12:30pm
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PhoebeArt - that looks VERY familiar!

http://s60.photobucket.com/albums/h18/headrushfiction/house/?action=view&current=inside004.jpg

posted by daniny on April 17th 2009 at 12:30pm
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I painted my own text posters, and did a blow-up of the logo for the movie Pretty in Pink. Ah, the Eighties...

posted by Mlle Kate on April 17th 2009 at 12:45pm
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There is no way that room was designed by a teenager. I refuse to believe it. The table scape on the dresser? Ha ha ha ha. He whipped that up after study hall, did he?

I'm guessing the mom has a bit more input than is being admitted here. "got him to clean up a bit"? Oh AT, sometimes you just make me chuckle.

posted by PDX01 on April 17th 2009 at 4:08pm
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My teenager room consisted of jim morrison, beatles, bob marley, and pink floyd posters. I still have them and I still absolutly love them!

posted by youenjoymyself on April 17th 2009 at 9:34pm
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My teenage bedroom had a bunk bed frame for the bed--I used the upper part for hanging purses and jackets that were in rotation. The walls in one corner were for tacking up comic strips i had cut out of newspapers. The area above my bed and by my door were for movie and book quotes I had done in calligraphy. ("Life is pain. Anyone who says differently is selling something." William Goldman, The Princess Bride.)

I also had an old chair (as someone mentioned above, it was genuine shabby) which I painted over with poster paints in wild colors. I think the seat was red, the outer posts yellow, the inner posts purple, and the legs blue. This was my nightstand. It looked pretty neat because the glossy white paint underneath gave the poster paints an interesting glow.

Instead of shades I would paint pictures on my windows and, now and again, remove them with a paint scraper to change them.

All in all, I would have to say my sense of style was to have a riot all over the walls. It looked like a portfolio full of papers and clipped comics had exploded.

posted by yello.cape.cod on April 21st 2009 at 7:44am
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i used to shuffle my bedroom furniture around all of the time into different configurations

posted by click 4 beds on November 4th 2009 at 7:08am
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