My husband and I are heading off for a weeklong stay in a remote cabin, where we plan to do nothing and see no one. Suffice to say we're pretty excited to stock up on supplies for our cozy nights in, surveying all our friends about which books to read and movies to rent and cocoa to brew. What are your favorite supplies for a relaxing night at home?
Here are a few must-haves, as far as we're concerned:
• Java Logs. We like to use these clean-burning firelogs, though they're more expensive than Duraflames or plain old wood. They don't give off a ton of heat (don't need too much in coastal California), but they're pretty and long-lasting.
• A British mini-series. Some kind of period piece that extends over several hours is required. The BBC's Pride and Prejudice is our old standby.
• Fleece blankets. They're less pricey than cashmere, but just as soft (okay, well maybe not just as soft) and machine-washable. I like the botanical designs from David Fussenegger.
• Hot chocolate. A no-brainer. If you want to get fancy, try Mexican or tea-infused hot chocolate. I prefer to drink mine from a big old bowl, like this lovely recycled glass bowl from Sundance.
• Cribbage board. Cribbage is the perfect game for a long night at home; you can get a little tournament going, and it requires just enough thought and engagement to stay interesting, but not enough to make you drowsy.
Please weigh in below! What are your own favorite things for settling down to a cozy night in?
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White Enamel Four-P...
Gel fuel for my 'fireplace'.
Wine or hot cocoa with whipped cream.
Good movie.
Favorite old scruffy sweater.
Enough space on the sofa to relax (I have to share it with pets - they insist that I do).
Regular old logs chopped from the fallen trees in the woods.
DVD of "Friends" or "The Office" episodes.
Fleece throw from Walmart.
Swiss Miss hot chocolate in handmade studio-pottery mug.
Scrabble game.
Horatio Hornblower is fun too...
Popcorn.
"Couplings" dvd-you have to watch the episode about the prosthetic. Seriously.
Fairy lights - yes I pack them to every hotel room!
"Soft Couer" massage bar from lush.
lemort1- good episode!
Yes, cribbage is great! I love board games in general... Stratego and Boggle are other good ones for 2 people. Instant netflix is great, too - there's a lot of good TV shows and movies and all you need is a laptop and you can curl up in bed and watch something good. Music is good... also where having a laptop (speakers for it optional) is helpful for taking your music with you someplace.
And the other thing I think is a must have: good cooking equipment and ingredients to make your favorite meals. Soups are nice for something hearty to make at a cabin, and leftovers will stick around for a few days if you make a big enough batch.
Oh, and I forgot to mention tea! Never a cozy evening without a nice hot cup of tea. I've never been a fan of hot chocolate, and tea is my drink of choice for anytime. But especially in a cabin, on a cold night, it's a must.
Gotta go with Scrabble. And candles (in case of a power outage, of course). Music--I tend to go with Ella Fitzgerald, Nora Jones, and the soundtrack to Round Midnight.
If you're looking for a period piece, John Adams is fantastic.
Recently discovered, Instant Netflix is indeed awesome.
UNO or Scrabble is usually our board game of choice, though we recently broke out the Monopoly and it was a lot of fun. We're also vidkids, so any old school video game or Zelda (all of them) make for a good night indoors.
Chamomile or mint tea
And lots of blankets and flannel pajamas!
Will there be a bath?
I'm with the suggestions for tea and Scrabble.
Extra pillows.
Red wine, lots of kindling and logs, wine, salmon to grill, more wine, 30 Rock episodes, AbFab episodes, Bombay Saphire Gin, Shweps Tonic and lots of limes...the perfect pillows and supper warm soft blankets and douvets for when the fire finally goes out...and LOTS of ice water to keep the headaches away to start all over the next day!
It's a dream...but with 2 small kids...also a distant dream. 13 more years till the youngest is done high school...whoo hooo!
Oh, the trashy magazines too! So perfect for the cabin. And of course really great novels to read...and shelter mags to revisit from the past 2 years and tear out anything you still love.
done...toothpaste!
Yes, John Adams was great!
Ah yes, Pride and Prejudice.... My husband actually *loves* Pride and Prejudice (on our first date, he claimed it was his favourite book! And he was being honest!). If you have a husband like that, get a copy. But don't get the version with Colin Firth, get the 1979 BBC version (sometimes attributed to 1982) which is much truer to the book:
http://www.amazon.com/Pride-Prejudice-1980-Elizabeth-Garvie/dp/B000244FDW/ref=sr_1_6?ie=UTF8&s=dvd&qid=1264236517&sr=1-6
Or do what we did last year, a Pride and Prejudice marathon, with the 2 BBC versions and the Keira Knightley movie (skip Greer Garson, although it is fun), and decide which you like best!
Apart from Pride and Prejudice though, my husband hates "girl" movies, and so definitely John Adams would be perfect. I have a "thing" for Robson Green, and found that my husband actually liked watching Wire in the Blood.
Other suggestions:
-Homicide: Life on the Street (best series, ever)
-complete Dr.Who (the 10th doctor, David Tenant)
Mulled wine is nice, fondue, tea, and a pile of books -- heavy stuff in addition to some fun paperbacks, and a Boggle game.
Sounds perfect to me. Now if I could only find some friends who know how to play Cribbage (or would be willing to learn...)
My pugs - do those count as supplies? :) Perfect for snuggling. Sweatpants. Candles. Maybe a small crafts project?
Bring some Cointreau for your hot choc... seriously delicious!
I agree with elainathon, a small crafts project like an embroidery kit would be nice. Sublime Stitching has really cute ones.
I am also a P&P fan, but my fave is the Colin Firth mini-series... the lake scene!!
Ginger Tea
Thai Delivery Menu
On Demand Digital Movies
Haagen Dahz Chocolate Ice Cream
Boxed wine and condoms.
(sorry, I couldn't resist).
Books, books, books and a cribbage board.
-DVR
-exhausted, sleeping children
-Moose Tracks ice cream
Ooooh, the lake scene! I wish there were a P&P version out there that contained every line of dialogue between Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy. Some of my favorite lines are always missing.
I soooo agree on the British mini-series. I love "All Creatures Great & Small"! But I have to have popcorn (cooked in oil, with salt and no butter) for a night in; it's a necessity. And a cat or two to curl up with.
Coffee, chocolate, Scrabble, Pandora Radio (makes for great conversation), a roaring fire, my soft velvet wingchair and an snuggly, obese tabby. Needlework, too (though the cat has the tendency to interfere with that).
margaritas
Brideshead Revisited, the original PBS mini-series one with Jeremy Irons, etc.
Flashlights, battery powered lantern, battery powered tea lights or the real thing if allowed.
"Room socks" - thick wool scuff-abouts.
On the way in, pick up the local papers. Especially good if the town is small enough and they have a Sheriff's Log or Police Blotter.
See if you can bring a book/movie that takes place in the area you will be staying.
Bananagrams: a portable, less structured Scrabble-ish game. Also backgammon.
Ditto on Instant Netflix provided you've got wifi.
A playlist tailored to that vacation.
Enjoy!
This makes me wish I had a fireplace. Supplies for a cozy night in? A nice cup of hot tea or cocoa, my man, my pets, a warm blanket, popcorn and a good movie.
--Fire starter so you don't have to struggle with untreated logs--it will get them going without too much work.
--A chunk of good chocolate (I like bittersweet) to shave into pieces and make hot chocolate (so much better than any mix).
--Yes to wine. Lots of it.
--Your coziest blanket (the cabins blankets might be dusty).
--Bubble bath or salts and lots of moisturizer.
--I personally love backgammon. It's a great two person game.
I'm in a winter cabin now, myself. I never want to leave!
The lake scene... see, that is part of the reason I don't like that version. It's not in the book. It's not Austen. It's that damn screenwriter who has done ALL of Austen for the BBC, along with the new version of Brideshead Revisted (which doesn't begin to compare to the transcendentally amazing '80s series), and a whole pile of other stuff... Andrew Davies...
1. Pyjamas; big and comfy.
2. Chenille blanket. Lots of pillows.
3. Soy Chai Latte [or] red wine (Jacob's Creek: carbernet sauvignon).
4. A bar of Lindt dark chocolate (the one with chilies).
5. The cat.
6. Old movies. Black and white old movies. (Think: The Great Dictator, Casablanca, etc...)
I, Claudius (best pbs series ever-great for marathon), jigsaw puzzle, knitting, large pot of homemade soup for serial reheating, crusty bread to go with soup, plenty of wine, good coffee and french press, sketch pad and drawing materials, NY Times crossword puzzle books, "Cloud Atlas"- David Mitchell-perfect vacation book-totally engrossing
I am so very different from everyone here!
I would bring with a pile of super creepy cabin movies, everything from the terribly campy Evil Dead and Eli Roth's Cabin Fever, to Lars Von Trier's Antichrist which is awful and pretentious and amazingly hard to watch. Also, as someone else said box sets, Breaking Bad, The Office (ONLY the UK version with Ricky Gervais), Arrested Development.. And tons of bad candy and popcorn.
Books and magazines, I am not sure my husband would even set foot in a cabin without Monocle and Wallpaper*.
Something like Table Topics for Couples http://www.amazon.com/Table-Topics-Conversation-Cards-Couples/dp/B000FN69PC/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&s=toys-and-games&qid=1264338557&sr=8-10, playing cards, Scrabble.
You could also start filling out a book like this together: http://www.amazon.com/All-About-Us-Philipp-Keel/dp/0767905016/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1264338839&sr=8-1
I would bring with food I don't have to cook, wine, bread, crackers, nice cheese, apples, salami, some things to cook a nice breakfast but mainly just picnic type food.
Sordid lingerie so you can be Little Red Riding Hood and he can be the brave lumberjack..
I think if I suggested to my spouse we go to a cabin he would say "A cabin means the Soho in London, riiiiiiight?"
Have fun, I'm jealous!
Give the movie 'Bride and Prejudice' a go instead. Same story but set in India with a bit of dancing and singing and lovely colours and foods to make you warm inside!
Works for me...enjoy!
-Hot butter rum
-Fondue pot (do a full meal of just fondue — you can cook meat, melt cheese, dip mini pieces of cheesecake and strawberries in chocolate...)
-Episodes of Chuck and the original The Office
-Yes to Pride and Prejudice! I love the Colin Firth version
-Extra blankets and pillows
-Lingerie (!) and massage oils (!!)
-Margaritas for the night you get in the mood to party ;)
My faves:
All the fixins to make Smores in the fireplace: good dark chocolate, graham crackers, marshmallows, sticks. If you put the chocolate on the graham crackers and put them on a plate by the fire for a few minutes 1st, the chocolate gets extra melty.
Ditto to the hot buttered rum.
Borrow an LCD projector and make your own indy movie theater. My ex and I used to have Film Noir marathon weekends in the brutal "don't want to go out" winter months. Film Noir as a genre is great. Chances are you'll both have never seen at least several of them, and their are neither "chick flicks" nor "dude action adventures". Smart, sexy, and thrilling. Also, great design, decor and fashion, usually.
Lambskin rugs to lay on by the fire and some brandy in snifters. It will remind you of a 70s lite rock album cover, but is indeed very cozy (*Kenny Rogers and Annie Murray not included).
Jigsaw puzzles.
Make comfort food that penetrates the house with delicious smells: lamb roasts, stews, cinnamon infused caramel apple tarts and the like.
Red wine
Assorted nuts and cheeses
Popcorn
Peanut butter M&Ms
Macaroni and cheese (homemade)
A deck of cards
Ingredients for chocolate martinis
Candles
Chocolate fondue with Amarula
Oh, this makes me long for a BIG snowstorm. Or even a return to the cabin where I (sort of) learned to ski (badly) just last year. The most romantic night I ever spent!! Fireplaces are MAGICAL.
For movies, I would probably go for a series, like the original three Star Wars movies, The Lord of the Rings, the original Pink Panther movies, or old James Bond movies, and to continue on the Brit-TV theme, Monty Python if your man isn't into the whole Pride and Prejudice thing.
Lots of warm fluffy things.
A deck of cards and instructions for a new game to learn.
Board games like Scrabble or Cranium.
Massage oil.
And like someone mentioned earlier, your favorite alcoholic beverages and condoms ;)
A nice hot beverage (hot cocoa or tea for me, coffee for my husband)
Our huge, cozy white blanket, and wool socks
BBC dramas, Doctor Who, or whatever we find on Netflix Instant
We usually start the night with a good meal (usually a soup or pot roast) and a game of Settlers of Catan.
Scrabble? Dvds? Whatever happened to Champagne and lube?