GOOD QUESTION! ...I have always wanted an old wine bottle melted down into a cheese plate. Super classy!

Bio-degradeable bar soap is always good.

I've wanted this compost tumber since I was like 12. http://www.amazon.com/Lifetime-60058-Compost-Tumbler-80-Gallon/dp/B0030GG2FS/ref=sr_1_11?ie=UTF8&qid=1351784601&sr=8-11&keywords=compost+bin

I'm going to make herbal fire starters for other people but for myself I think I'd like really nice hand soap and tea towels. There are a lot of them out there that are made from recycled fabrics.

Pay for a year of composting that's offered by your town, as part of their trash services. Where I live, it's about $100 p/a and they take anything organic, including organic cat litter and cooked & raw meat, so it's much more comprehensive than what we can do at home. And you get sterilized compost back.

Other towns in other places must offer something similar, because we are not cutting edge.

by 'organic' cat litter, I mean the kinds made with newsprint or corn cobs etc. Not clay.

I guess this counts as "re-used"... I'm asking for vintage drink glasses this year. I'd love an assortment of sizes (tumblers to high ball glasses) in an assortment of orange-colored patterns. (Mismatched means never having to find a replacement.)

Honestly, I would love to get absolutely nothing.

I have almost everything I need. I only want to spend quality time with my friends and family and spend some time away from work!

Seeds from something I've admired in your garden.

One of the best gifts I got last year - because it was so unexpected and something I'd never have bought myself - was a box full of assorted Mrs Myers cleaning products in different scents.

I've so much enjoyed using the products over the year and I think of her every time I use one.

I'd like a small assortment of seeds for my garden. If you really know a person, you can tailor it (to the person and the climate). For example, I'd love some arugula, parsley (flat leaf), and other assorted lettuce seeds.

I got a compost bin for x-mas last year - the gift that keeps on giving.
A CSA share is a nice thing. Or a gift card to my local farmers' market.
One of the farmers makes their own goat milk soap and scrub. They make gift sets which always make great locally made (green) gifts.
Wool blanket made by Rhody Warm (http://www.risheep.org/rhodywarmwoolblankets.htm).
Homemade candles (made out of leftover wax)
Pretty Napkins - they are not green per se, but if you replace paper napkins with pretty cotton ones, you save a bunch of paper.

A maid service once a month would be nice!

But, really, I have more than enough stuff so food or an experience would be ok, nothing at all would be perfectly fine.

I agree that nothing is the most Eco friendly, but some investments create good habits IF you use them. I'd like a better compost bin, train tickets or materials for a raised garden bin. I love gifts friends make from sewing clothing scraps.

Oh, another commenter said reused stuff. Yes! And dry seeds and make a bird seed package for your friends. For friends who live far away, I often donate to very small environmental or urban garden charities specific to their towns.

I'm dying to have a pine drying rack. They make amazing ones here in Maine and sell them at my local sustainable living homegoods store.

Gift card to my favorite coffee shop, or yours. In LA, people don't visit each other's homes that much. We usually meet at coffee shops. Getting gift cards at holiday time makes it more affordable to schedule visits on a tight budget.

Keep Cups. I love all the different color combinations of them.

I love giving this organic hair powder as a gift. It works great and looks great too!

http://alderboutique.bigcartel.com/product/natural-hair-powder-eucalyptus

a pressure cooker