Scent is eminently personal. We attach memories to aromas and associate people with certain smells. It's common to think of perfume or cologne as ineffably evocative of who we are, almost as if it were an expression of personality in olfactory form. But do we think about the scents in our homes in the same way?
Growing up, I was no stranger to home fragrances. My mother always burned scented candles in the living room, and my grandmother always kept sachets in her drawers. At Christmas, my aunt would pull out a spicy bowl of potpourri, and family bathrooms were always outfitted with Plug-Ins or oil warmers or any number of other odor-emitting devices. But, oddly, I don't have any strong associations with these scents. They don't strike me the way that, say, my mother's perfume or the scent of her laundry detergent would. It's as if the distance of the scent from the body makes it less remarkable, less memorable.
In my own home, I tend not to use any fragrances. I allow the odors of daily life to fill my space. The food I cook, the cleaning products I use, the toiletries I select--these are the things that give my apartment its olfactory character. I have never tried to give my home a scent of its own, to perfume it in the same way that I would my body. Could it be that my reluctance to use scented products stems from a perception that my home is personal enough, me enough, without a characteristic scent?
Or perhaps I'm just unconsciously participating in a broader historical phenomenon. Cultural historians tell us that there has been a consistent push towards deodorization in the modern era. This began with some early public health projects in the late eighteenth century, as sewers and ventilation systems were improved as a way of fighting miasma, or "bad air" that contained noxious, disease-causing particles. Over centuries, these same historians tell us, this olfactory vigilance has expanded into a widespread conflation of "no scent" and "good scent." My idea of cleanliness, according to this account, is intimately bound to an idea of odorlessness, hence my desire for an unperfumed space. (For some excellent histories of smell, see Alain Corbin's The Foul and the Fragrant and Aroma: The Cultural History of Smell by Constance Classen, David Howes, and Anthony Synnott.)
For those of you who do use scents, what are you trying to achieve with home fragrance? Do you tend to think about it in the same way that you would think about a scented body product?
And how do you select scents? Do you prefer something strong, light, or deodorizing? Do you choose a scent based on the types of memories it evokes or because it speaks to something about who you are? Or is it something much more basic, something much less meaningful?
MORE SCENTS ON APARTMENT THERAPY:
• Good Question: Home Fragrance?
• The Smell of Home: The Science of Scent
• Scented vs. Unscented Candles
• Love 'Em or Leave 'Em?: Fragrant Candles
• For the Bathroom: Candles, Air Fresheners, Sprays or Nothing?
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What a freakishly timely post (as in I was about to google how to change the scent of your home). I too like the idea of letting the smell of your house evolve naturally. It's true that people do have their own smells, of their house and it gets on their clothes, in their car, etc (sometimes a good thing, sometimes bad).
My house was a fixer-upper...tearing out damp drywall, changing flooring, taking off drapes, replacing molding base cabinets...all helped to significantly help the smell. But I can still smell the previous homeowner on my things. Granted I've only been living there full-time for the last few months and notice a difference because of my daily cleaning and toiletry products, I still smell that smell when I come home. Now I've become obsessed of changing the houses' scent DNA. I've painted, and repainted, and anytime I am home I hope doors and windows, change the air filters frequently and use the non-allergenic type (they remove finer particles).
Now I'm resorting to artifiicially changing the smells. I use tealight oil warmers (with both artificial and essential oils) in nearly every room, incense, anything at this point...though I stay clear of scented candles. I dont want to continue using them daily, but I'm just hoping I can bully my home into smelling more how I want it to. It may be stupid and unfounded but I'm hoping that it will just permanently absorb all the crap I'm doing to it. I've started setting out bowls of vinegar at night and rubbing the baseboards with van van oil....I'm turning into an alchemistic madwoman.
The next thing planned is to seal the windows better and replace the wood floor and foam underlayer in the livingroom. HELP!
**please excuse all of my typos above. For ex *hope should be "open".
I've decided that I would like my new apartment to smell like vanilla. There's something so warm and comforting about it. It makes me feel like I'm back in my grandmother's kitchen baking cakes. I now only buy vanilla scented candles and I'll boil a pot of water with a teaspoon of vanilla in it while I'm cleaning up. It just makes me feel good about coming home
What a great post. I open the windows and turn on the fans. Nature is the best freshener. I also use Dr. Bronner's Peppermint soap to clean everything. Fresh.
Littlemisssunshine -
If you haven't already - have your ducts professionally cleaned.
I am in the no faux scents camp. It just smells like the strong, fake scent and whatever you were trying to cover up. (Now it smells like fish and roses!)
Opening windows. Brewing coffee. Making dinner. Cutting fresh fruit (pineapple especially.) Vacuuming. These are the best ways to make our house smell good.
Our smells are either from the salmon we cook or a girls night with too much smoking inside. Either way I hate too much fakey-perfumery stuff so my go-to is the Blue Capri/Volcano candles at Anthro. Smells just like fresh cut oranges and is DIVINE. That's the only reason I ever step inside Anthro ever. I lied. I go for the Mr. Smiths Rose Bud Salve too. :)
Oh, and simmering cloves and cinnamon. That is a wonderful smell.
Since I live in an rental apartment, there aren't many ways I can make it smell like me (and my bf). It does smell like us a bit now, but I still like my place to smell a little more like something comforting. Like woodfire.
That being said, I am ADDICTED to the candle named Fireside by Slatkins sold at Bath & Body Works. It smells so good, I always say it smells like seating on an old leather couch, by the fireplace, burning cedar logs ... It's just THAT comforting and relaxing.
Lavender is my opium, good thing they are very light and airy in scent. I have two small containers of lavender, one at the entry way and another in my room. I don't have any childhood memories associated with lavender, I just like it and want my home to reminisce an English country lavender garden, if there is such a thing.
Thanks to AT, I make clementine candles in winter and add a few drops of lavender oil to the olive oil candle and my place smells lovely!
Everyday I try to open the windows and turn on the fan to get the "good air" in to freshen up the place. Nature is still the best air freshener.
I like really fresh smells with a fruity touch. I'm a home fragrance product freak so I always stock up with my favorite fragrances from Bath & Body Works. I use their candles, wallflowers, oils, and scentportables. They have great smells for a really good price. Currently I'm addicted to Tiki beach (vanilla, coconut & orchids) it smells amazing!
I love both! The scent of a natural home and the scent of light and lovely candles that exemplify scents that my husband and I love are perfect! I only use soy candles, though. No need to inhale excess petroleum! I have a giveaway on my blog right now for a lovely violet candle that I just got that smells divine!
http://munchtalk.blogspot.com/2012/01/spiffy-business-linneas-lights-candle.html
I love lavender because it can just puts you in a clean and relaxed state. I'll usually add some drops of essential lavender oil to cotton balls and hide them around the house as a way to add fragrance to my home without using commercial air fresheners. In the kitchen, I use essential lemon oil and hide the cotton balls in the cabinets. The only candle scent I buy is vanilla bean, so I'll light that at night sometimes.
My desire to scent my apartment goes in waves. Mainly, waves of 'do i have the money to spend on these products, or don't I?'
I've been using Scentsy warmers (and their cheaper generic counterparts) for about a year, and I love them. I can change up the scent whenever I want to and there's so many choices. We mainly go for light and clean, or some type of fruity. I've never been a big fan of musky smells or anything that smells like food but isn't (birthday cake scent, i'm talking to you!). But I also have 3 cats, a gym rat husband and live in an old building with many sketchy tenants, so I would rather 'choose' the scent of my home than have it naturally chosen for me.
The first thing that I do when I get home from work is light a couple sticks of incense (which I will continue to burn sporadically through out the night - I go through phases on the different scents). It's sort of a ritual, and it immediately puts the work day behind me.
@Carolyn: "It's as if the distance of the scent from the body makes it less remarkable, less memorable."
I love this line in your article.
During the spring and summer I tend to always open the windows as I like fresh air. But, with the kitty box room I also always have one of those plug in air fresheners. For those, I choose seasonal scents. Despite cleaning the box every day or every other day and despite having the best litter "Feline Fresh" ...still need the air freshener.
I think deodorizing and scenting homes is mainly garbage. I guess as someone who doesn't have cats or anything, the smell of my home is just the smell of my accumulated life and I feel like it being special and unique to me is important. I guess it would be one thing if I moved into an apartment that a smoker lived in for 20 years, or if I just left the garbage in for a bit too long or burnt something on the stove, but in the long term I am definitely anti-smell elimination/changing.
I still have trouble describing the feeling of walking into the one other home I've ever found that smells like my grandma's house used to when I was a child, it was just too eerie and wonderful, disconcerting and comforting at the same time. If her house just smelled like a glade plugin, it would just lose so much and be so much less special to me somehow.
I was just in a very long-distance relationship for two and a half years, and I at one point my boyfriend flew out to visit me at new apartment after I had been living there for about a month, and he walked in and said "yep, it still smells like your home," and I realized when I go to visit him, I have the same feeling. When I reentered his apartment biannually, the smell just reinforced that I was reentering his life in a physical way and proved to my body and brain that it was real.
I guess if you have a lot of guests over, maybe it is nice for them to come in and feel like they're walking through a field of fake flowers, but to me smells are just too special and become too big a part of memory for me to want to get rid of them or cover them up with something fake and generic. I understand why people might strive for it, but I find it disappointing.
I get a severe headache with strong-smelling scents, as a result, I don't wear perfumes and I don't use perfumed items in my home, including cleaning products. All that said, I love to open up windows when the weather is nice.
Very, very good writer. This post could have been meaningless parroting but it has a soul somehow. Well done.
I've been thinking about just this issue lately!
I live in an older apartment with lots of charm, but every so often I notice when I walk through the door that it smells like a mouse died within the walls. It'll smell like this for a week or so, then drift away for many weeks, then return. I have no idea why I have sourced the smell to dead mouse: it's really just a made-up idea to explain the source.
At some point I'll stop in the doorway and just won't be able to take it. Then I'll go into a frenzy of laundering, vacuuming, dusting, using Trader Joe's household cleaner on everything, simmer aromatics in water on the stove: the works. Doesn't really work though!
I once put one of those wallflower things from Bath and Body in my bathroom; it was an orange-scented one and it attracted ants! So no more of those. I like scented handsoaps; I think that's enough a scent in the bathroom; orange and verbena are my favorites. And I do have some scented candles. I don't burn them very often, but I have them set out and every once in a while I walk by and catch a whiff of them and enjoy it. I like the verbena scent from L'Occitane, and the Frasier Fir scent from Thyme, and the orange scent from Anthropologie.
Can't stand home frangrances and most scented candles are just not my thing. I swear by papier d'armenie. It is a deordorizing incense paper that smells lovely and smoky but never lingers too long. Otherwise, I love woodless Japanese incense, very delicate.
I normally like to let my home just smell like life (so to speak), but every time my boyfriend goes for a workout he comes back and stinks up the whole house! His shoes stink, the workout clothes stink, the socks stink! Even sticking them in a closet doesn't help. So I succumb and light a candle scented like plants and herbs (pine scent, basil, sandalwood, cotton, etc.)
If you keep away from perfume smells (flowers, cotton candy, etc.) you usually can't even tell it's an artificial scent.
When it's warm enough, I have most of the windows open as much as possible. I like the fresh air. I don't like it when the house smells like food. Every now and then I'll light a candle for the ambience, but as likely as not, it'll be an unscented candle. I also own a scentbug that migrates between the laundry room (where the litter box is), my daughter's bedroom (she's a preschooler), and the bathroom.
I cook a LOT. Our home always smells like whatever meal I most recently made. I never apologize for it, whether it be a nose full of garlic, or curry, or anything in between.
I think this is due to the fact that I grew up in New Orleans. I am used to going into homes that are perfumed with the smell of catfish... crawfish... jambalaya... gumbo. And I don't have any vivid memories of any of my friends mothers trying to mask these aromas all that often. My own mother did. She used to take Jean Nate body splash, and pour it into a spray bottle. Then she would squeeze the trigger in every room, and I hated it. It always made me gag. She still does this even now, but I prefer the way it happened to be in my other friend's houses. It just made it smell... like... well... home, to me.
(Although in our bathroom and our son's nursery next to his diaper bin, we keep a little bottle of Mrs. Meyer's deodorizing spray. Usually either in Basil, Geranium, or Lavender. Because... well... sometimes nature calls, and when it does, Mrs. Meyers picks up the phone is is most kind to offer to assist). ;)
I am nuts about having the scent of Lavender in the house. Lavender pillows, cushions, wardrobes full of lavender bags. It keep everything smelling fresh and the Lavender keep me calm
I love to burn candles in my bedroom. I find it very relaxing. My current scents of choice: vanilla, lavender, and pineapple.
hate the artificial chemicals scents of most candles and room sprays.. Natural scents are the best. Use pure essential oils, boil an orange peel alone or with some peppermint, or use dried vetiver ball around the house, fresh lilies , lavender or tuberoses...Yummm!
To get rid of bad smells from cooking boil cloves or eucalyptus leaves.
Walking by Yankee Candle stores in the mall, I have to hold my breath. I go unscented all the way. Air fresheners, especially the kind you plug-in, emit a mist of oil -- which you then breathe into your lungs and which coats surfaces. OK, the amounts are minute, but I still don't want that.
If things are clean, there is usually no odor. I have cats, but we use good clumping litter and scoop daily -- most people are unaware of any odor (except, maybe, if they are present exactly WHEN the cat uses the litter!)
I do enjoy citrus fruit scents and some other momentary food aromas when they arise, but I do't want them around long term...
I grew up in a house where scents and candles were a no-no. I was so excited when I could move out and use my own scents. The last three places a lived, scents were also pretty off-limits. One roommate got a headache from them, and in the other it was her house and I was just renting so I didn't want to take over.
I now use a lot of earthy scents. I'm especially into pine. I've loved incense since I was a teenager (I used to put it on when my parents weren't around, but of course they'd know) and I'm excited to use that again.
I do have a cat and my apartment is very small, so if I miss scooping for a day I can't handle my whole apartment smelling like cat litter until it fades away.
This is the first time in awhile I feel like my house smells the way I want it to, in a way that represents me (besides when it smells like cat, of course). Using scents makes me feel at home.
i burn my signature candle of mine...dark chocolate and peppermint!! its sexy fresh masculine and sweet all at the same time-when friends come in they all say it smells like my place looks. italian modern/70.s vintage...sexy!
I use a reed diffuser which smells like citrus and pomergranite - snifff aahhh!