
You’ve planned the menu, made the playlist and pressed your tails - but don’t forget the lighting! Because proper lighting can often be one of the most overlooked elements in the formula to an evening’s ambience, let’s shed a little light on how to keep your party aglow.
Soft lighting brings people closer, creates cozier affairs and can even make small spaces seem bigger. Variations in lighting can change the mood from room to room and keep your guests circulating. Because good lighting is so important to the success of a party, and because it’s often one of the last things considered before the doorbell rings, you might want to keep some of these simple tips in mind while you run around pulling up those stockings or straightening that bow-tie.
Keep the Lighting Low
- • Replace those 100 watt bulbs with bulbs of 40 watts or lower.
• Use dimming cords to temporarily adjust your current lighting.
• Consider paper lanterns as an easy and temporary solution for subtle lighting. They can be purchased at a reasonable cost and look great when configured into decorative clusters.
Indirect Lighting
- • Have light coming from many different sources and try bouncing it off walls and ceilings by redirecting tracks and spotlights.
• Opaque lampshades are also clever in that they keep the light out of people’s faces by directing it only upwards and downwards.
• Try focusing low-watt task lamps directly against the wall to offset the light.
If You Got It, Flaunt It
- • Accentuate interesting elements in your space through lighting.
• Place uplights behind plants and furniture to create drama, cast interesting shadows and create focal points out of existing elements like bookcases and artwork.
• If you have high ceilings, consider low pools of light. The effect can actually raise the height of your room even further by creating a vastness above your head.
• Highlight interesting moldings, beams or fabulous ceilings with rope lights or Christmas lights hidden above cabinetry.
• Remember that strings of Christmas lights can be used in many versatile and beautiful ways indoors. Create an illuminated canopy above the party or separate different areas of one space with a many strings acting as curtain of light.
Candles
- • Line ledges, mantles, shelves, and/or window sills with votives and consider placement of mirrors to help reflect the flickering light.
Mood Swings
- • Consider your lighting design and how it will change throughout the evening. As the night progresses, the lights should get dimmer. Set the mood by blowing out candles and dimming lights throughout the evening.
What to Avoid
- • Keep in mind any accidental lighting that may spill in from other rooms. This is especially important in small spaces when the constant opening and closing of the bathroom door can continually interrupt the evening’s ambience. I have a friend who actually disables certain lights with the circuit breaker, opting for only candlelight in the bathroom.
• Remove the overhead lighting! Light shining from above casts unwanted shadows down on people's faces. Blemish be gone! Keep the lighting low and indirect.
• Avoid colored lighting. Yes, colored lights can add a festive flare to your party, but consider what certain colors will do to one’s complexion. For instance, green lighting is often used in theatre and film to make people appear older - great for Halloween...not so great when everyone is dressed to the nines.
Experiment!
- • Give your space a trial run the night before the party, moving around your different light sources and finding the best fit for the different “stations” of the evening. If there is space for a dance floor, keep that area the darkest. Create conversation corners with pools of light and attract people to the buffet and bar with twinkling party lights.
Safety
- • When decorating with candles, use sturdy bases and keep them away from areas where people may be walking or swinging their elbows.
• Keep cords safely out of the way of traffic patterns so nobody trips on them.
• Keep lamps and cords away from sinks.
For more tips on lighting, check out these previous AT posts:
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Hmm posts like these just make me realize that I'm a substandard host. I never think about going through all the trouble to think about doing complicated lighting. I just make sure the light bill is paid and light a few candles. Now I'm thinking I better go ahead and hire a lighting designer.
The bit about disabling lights with a circuit breaker so there is only candlelight in the loo seems a bit much to me. What about the ladies at these fabulously lit parties who retreat there to touch up their makeup? I guess it doesn't matter what with the no overhead lighting.
I like to turn off overheads and add lots of low light and candles, but the circuit breaker thing sounds a bit control freak to me. I also have a no-shoes house, but at parties I am not going to stand by the door and be the shoe police. Sometimes being a good host can include chilling out a little, too.
I just turn on the table lamps and not the overheads, mostly. Candles and lanterns leave soot on the ceiling (at least when positioned where the cats won't burn themselves) so I don't bother with them any more. No ambience at all, I guess...
Not unwanted shadows on my face! Sorry, I had to say that. I can't see my own face so who cares?
I just turn on our normal lights. The only time I consider changing my lights is when the birthdaycake and candle comes out. Its a dream to host a fancy dinner party with a wall of oversized light bulbs though....
Lighting is so important - especially during the Holiday season. Candles are great to create a festive look, but they're also great gifts for your guests.
Tom
What's the need to be so harsh about some interesting suggestions? Just yesterday I hosted my fifth annual pre-holiday dinner party, the second in my current apartment which is full of dimmer switches. Adjusting the lighting really does make people feel cozy, relaxed, and a little bit sexy. If I had all of my overhead lights on I don't think it would've ruined anyone's time, but I do think that spending a few minutes thinking about it made a lot of people feel better.