After discovering the correlation between making the bed every day and happiness, I wondered if there were other equally simple things I could do around my house to make me happy. Turns out there are!
Discovering what these things were was at the heart of the Westweek panel, The Art of Making a Home Happy. Alexandria Abramian-Mott of Angeleno Interiors moderated a lively conversation between graduate student-in-psychology Katie Nelson, designers Bruce Bolander, Jamie Bush and Sebastian Knorr and declutter maestro Peter Walsh. Here's what we learned:
Keep Your Home Clean and Declutter it Frequently: Most people are happiest in their homes right after the maid leaves. If you can't afford a maid (or even if you can), find a simple cleaning routine you can do and do it consistently so it's always just a few moments away from being clean. Toss the stuff that doesn't support your life and the things you love to do. A home that's clean and decluttered will make you feel good. And if you feel good about your clean, "company ready" home, it's likely that you'll want to have people over more often.
Have People Over Often: It turns out that having strong relationships is the one of the biggest indicators of a happy life. Getting together with friends just twice a month in your home has a greater effect on your happiness than doubling your income. While you may not want or be the type to have a big bash every month (or even every few months), knowing that you can invite someone over for a meal or even just invite them in for a moment and not apologize for the state of your house, goes a long way towards feeling happy.
Change It Up: Variety, surprise and novelty are components of the third key to happiness. While most of us can't afford to redo our homes every time we get bored or grumpy, little changes are just as effective as big ones. So, move your sofas around, bring in a new pillow, roll up your rugs for the summer or just bring in some colorful flowers!
Image: Laure Joliet

Comments (25)
I'm with you on this! So true.
where is that chair from? looooove it! ^__^
@tigressa, the picture is from Emily Henderson's show (or perhaps from her blog), Secrets of a Stylist on HGTV. The home belongs to Joy of the eponymously named blog Oh Joy! (and the wallpaper is her design).
And with this, I have proven to myself that I spend entirely too much time on design blogs *sigh*
My biggest one is leaving the sink and counters in my kitchen shiny and clean every night before bed. Doesn't matter what other kind of mess is going on in my place, if I am greeted by a clean kitchen in the morning, I start the day happy!
@ tigressa: the chair is vintage Milo baughman. Looks like it was recently reupholstered.
Having people over often is the reason my house stays clean and uncluttered, even with two kids! It's a great "clean-up" motivator.
Taking two minutes to put something away after you use it or 10 minutes to clean up the kitchen after dinner makes a world of difference to my happiness at home.
I agree with all of these! Although sometimes the key to my happy home is as simple going to a friends' place and then coming home to my house.
Love This Look! I am inspired to re arrange my room.I really love the mix of metallics. This is how its done!!
@wookiedoodle and @laurenfromchicago.... thanks.. i was able to track it down.. but alas.. it was a revival.. sooo awesome <3
As a chemist, I roll my eyes when I see chemical glassware displayed in people's homes. It's like wearing glasses with 20/20 vision...very poser. Also, for safety reasons, people should never buy chemical glassware at flea markets. Trust me, you have no idea the kind of danger that could pose. But I LOVE the LOVE pillow. My eye was drawn to it right away!
Does anyone know where that rug is from? I've looked at Emily's blog at HGTV's as well with no luck...I want it :)
Never mind...I found it (clearly I didnt look hard enough the first time! :)
Great article! Does anyone know where I could buy a similar chair? It is exactly what I'm looking for!
Having people over is key. It's the only way I can convince my lazy butt to clean up!
@wookiedoodle just read your comment. no need to sigh we are all design nerds, hence why we are commenting on AT :-)
Hi KylieD, can you tell me where is the rug from? I don't feel like looking hard enough right now... it's 1 am in Berlin and I should be sleeping, but instead here I am drooling over beautifully designed spaces...
I definitely agree, having people over is a great motivator, it's been the best/only one for me for a while, but now I am trying to keep my flat pretty just for me (and my son)
ps. i guess I'm on my way to happiness right now then (well, perhaps tomorrow morning after I get some rest) because these are the three principles I am applying to my life and home (which definitely mirrors my "inner home" in every way)...
for keeping your place decluttered I swear on the flylady system. i don't really "follow" it but rather draw inspiration from it, and it is a very no-nonsense approach that really really works for creative/chaotic individuals (like myself)
"Getting together with friends just twice a month in your home has a greater effect on your happiness than doubling your income."
The scientist in me wants you to cite your sources on that - fact or opinion? ;)
Regardless, I agree that a clean home is a happy home. I have yet to see a joyful hoarder...
Amen.....
I loved this article! I can't wait to put these philosophies into practice!
Great article. I love when AT correlates mental health and aesthetically-pleasing spaces. I strongly believe that a clean, organized and visually pleasing home has a refreshing effect on the psyche. No scientific evidence to back that up, though :-)
Where can I get that pillow?
I love having people over, but hate tidying and cleaning. Sometimes I invite house guests in the hope they might help me sort stuff out.
Maid Day is a holiday in my house! If only it came more often...
You can always spruce up your furniture and give it a makeover. We don't realize how poorly our furniture looks sometimes, because we just get used to it and we see it every day. It's not until we do some refinishing that we realize how bad it actually was!
I'm a professional furniture restorer and I also teach refinishing online through our website. I love seeing people succeed with such projects.
Rod Keyser
www.furniturerefinishingstudio.com