As I sit in my hotel room at 4:43 a.m. and contemplate moving into my new apartment in Germany in the morning, I find myself missing a few key items and cursing the gods of forgetfulness (and also jet lag). In case you ever find yourself moving abroad, here's a short list of things I wish I had right now:
• A towel — After all the times I read The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, I cannot believe I did not bring a towel. Towels are easily acquired around the world, of course, but I should have packed one in my luggage to tide me over before the first Ikea trip.
• A functional cell phone — A cheap prepaid local cell phone would certainly make things like arranging meetings with the landlord much easier. If you don't speak the local language, they're essential. When I moved to Beijing a few years ago, I didn't speak a word of Mandarin at first. My husband greeted me at the airport with a phone with his own cell number already listed as a contact, which turned out to be utterly essential for getting around for the first few days. It can take a while to get a smart phone hooked up; a local prepaid can tide you over until you get a contract set up.
• Snacks — It's an annoying few hours when you're up at 5:00 a.m. and the bakeries, coffee shops, and grocery stores don't open until 8. I find myself eyeing the boxes of chocolates we brought as souvenirs for my husband's new bosses and wondering if he'd believe that hotel mice ate all of them.
• Knife, fork, and spoon — With all our silverware in a shipping container somewhere, the idea of bringing along a bonus knife and fork did not occur to me, but even a plastic set would do to stave off the need to spread jam with the end of a toothbrush.
• Better-packed suitcases — Even though I knew we'd be living out of suitcases for two or three days before we would be able to move into our new apartment, at some point back in the U.S. I thought it was a good idea to pack all my normal clothes first and all my formal shoes last. I can't find a pair of jeans or socks to save my life, but if I suddenly grow three more pairs of legs and have to go to a fashion show, I'll be set.
• Landlord's phone number — E-mail is all well and good until you can't get in touch with the landlord. Trust me on this one: Wandering through the streets of Germany calling, "Helloooooooo? Landlord? Helloooooo?" is not effective. Write down the landlord's phone number before you get on the plane.
What have I missed? Share your tips and experiences in the comments.
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Such great timing for this article, as I'll be moving abroad tomorrow!
At the moment, having my folder with essential documents, contact info, etc. ready, is giving me peace of mind.
I agree about the towel. In addition, I always bring along a set of clean underwear, socks and t-shirt and a small bar of soap in my carry-on luggage.
I must say though, the preparation for the move is giving me much more stress than I expect the arrival will.
Things I realized I should have brought when I moved abroad. A US powerstrip. Adapters are easy to find, but US powerstrips are not. Powerstrips are also smallish and pack well. Power converters, at least good ones, can be had at an electronics store and are a bit bulky to travel with.
I would also recommend moving with the A-Lite Monarch chair. It is comfortable sitting in airports in this chair, and light enough, you can shove it in a pocket in your backpack and hardly notice it.
http://www.alitedesigns.com/monarch-chair.html
This is hilarious! Thanks for the laugh.
Bring an extension cord! Electrical outlets are often few and far apart.
Three things I'm grateful I packed for my year-long overseas sojourns:
1) Some bedding from home. Yes, bedding is easily acquired at the nearest department store, but for me, using my favorite pillowcase and duvet cover was like having a little bit of home with me. When everything is new and foreign, having something familiar is very comforting.
2) My best knives. I loved having my paring knife and chef's knife with me, and they took up hardly any room in my suitcase. Rental apartments, if furnished at all, invariably come with terrible knives, and a good knife makes cooking a pleasure. If cooking isn't your thing, is there something else you can bring that would make your new digs feel more like home?
3) Some art. I have a few prints that have rattled around with me since I was in college. They travel unframed at the bottom of my suitcase; when I arrive at my new home, one of my first tasks is to find frames for them. It gives me a lot of pleasure to have a few familiar images around.
I imagine there will be folks that say that packing bedding and art is wasteful -- that suitcase space could be used for practical things, like shoes! -- but in all my travels, I've never felt short on clothing. In the few situations where I found myself without the appropriate attire, I was always able to find what I needed locally. On the other hand, momentos can't be duplicated, and are an amazingly potent way to make a new place feel like home.
Toilet paper, for your new place or in case your airport stall is out, and a shower liner and hooks, unless you are %110 sure you'll have a stall instead.
I always pack my favorite cold/flu gel caps (day and night versions). After all the stress of moving plus exposure to tons of germs in transport, I often feel a bit beat if not totally sick shortly after arriving. From experience, it really sucks to feel awful, have to leave wherever you're staying, and then explain to the pharmacist what you're looking for in another language.
I took a little bundle of essential/ favorite kitchen stuff like my best knife, my fav. vegetable peeler, my fav. silicone scrapers, meat thermometer, whisk etc. It was all available, but I needed it right away and I didn't want to waste time looking for them.
Other than that, I took a shopping list developed over several weeks (at the Ikea online site) and we spent the first day driving to Ikea and shopping. So we knew ahead of time what we could get and what we couldn't get right away.
We also brought unlocked phones and bought sim cards and a myfi usb hub to tide us over till the internet was installed. And we brought plug adaptors from home. Almost everything, especially technology, is cheaper in the US than elsewhere.
American-sized measuring spoons & measuring cups. When you're a bit homesick & need a batch of chocolate chip cookies, you don't feel like converting your ingredients into grams and milliliters! The adjustable one are cheap, light & take up no space ;)
Towel = YES. Although we rented a furnished apartment, we had a frantic search for a store that sold towels and pillows for the first night there.
Also, when you travel with all your important documents (@ATLIZ), make sure they are in your carry-on not your checked luggage. I carry a small expanding file with passports, a copy of our marriage certificate, and copies of my kids' birth certificates and tuck it into an inside pocket of my purse or carry-on. When we were living overseas I also kept photocopies of our visas in there. So far the only immigration office that has asked to see them is USA Homeland Security :)
this is a good list. having moved abroad a bit, i think adding bedding-especially a pillowcase (which can double for a towel if you forget one). Tea tree oil is very helpful for cuts, but is not always available. a small screwdriver and some good duct tape come in handy (and you would be surprised at how good duct tape is difficult to find sometimes). i always carry with me (moving or not) some plastic cutlery (the knife doest make it sometimes through security), handy wipes, tissues, rubber bands (is it obvious that i grew up watching macgyver?) oh and a permanent marker!
Half the fun of living abroad is trying new things, but I find that there are just certain things I need to have with me (see above) in order to feel free to enjoy trying all the wonderful new things I discover.
Heh heh, this is a good list. Nicely paired down. You've obv. been doing this for a while :)
I agree, good list!
One thing I always carry is going to sound funny. It's Nupercainal. That's an anesthetic lotion sold for hemorrhoids. Which I don't have. But it works on anything that hurts; actually anesthetizes it! So for any kind of scratch, insect bite, cold sore, fever blister, hangnail, splinter, ANYTHING that HURTS and can really break your spirit in an already stressful situation, it is incredibly helpful.
Note, other hemorrhoid ointments (the cortisone ones) are simply anti-itch and don't have the same pain-deadening effect at all.
Pack your pj's in your suitcase last... makes it easier when you get to the other side and just want to go to bed...
I agree a power strip is vital. We have one that actually accepts US, UK & most Continental (and maybe more - bit not Switzerland) that goes everywhere with us, even on holiday! This is handy since having lived in several countries, we're a multi-outlet family. We also bought special light bulbs in NYC before we left that allow us to use our American lamps in Europe's 220V environment. These are amazing and each one lasts a long time. I had some lamps I really couldn't part with. I also second the bedding. If you're planning on bringing U.S.-sized beds or a baby cot, good luck finding sheets abroad. Especially for those deep mattresses - and forget about the things that hide the box spring. We ultimately gave up on our U.S. beds and went native wherever we happened to be living.
I moved to Germany a while ago. I took a lot of food and toiletries with me, terrified of being without my necessities. These days so much more is available, all you really need are an updated smartphone/iPad with all your necessary info, your favorite cold meds, sleep/wake aids and pain killers (laws in Germany make the strong stuff hard to get)...and a bottle opener.
Good luck with the transition - learn some of the language, it makes life much easier. The bottle opener helps with this too ;-)
Having done this a few times, myself, I've realized a few things regarding clothing: you always need less than you think. Pack a few pairs of very nice jeans to dress up or down with footwear and accessories and you can look very chic. Bring a few pairs of fancy underwear because stuff like tends to be very expensive and in funny sizes in other countries, and sometimes it's just nice to go to bed wearing something that doesn't feel like... well, utilitarian. A starter kit of toiletries is helpful, too- make-up and nail polish, especially because you never know what you'll find or how much more expensive it will be in a different country.
I always look forward to and embrace the food situation in other countries, but I take lots of cinnamon chewing gum with me as an ice breaker for new friends- it tends to be a big hit.
And make sure your iPod is well stock with days and days of music/podcasts/books in case something goes wrong with the technology and that's all you have to listen for a while.
Good luck!!
PACK A MAP! Circle where you live and mark down any an all places you'll need to go for everyday errands/shopping (ie laundromat, post office, grocery store, library...). This will help you feel confident roaming around your new neighborhood before you get a smartphone. It will also help in asking for directions in a country where there might be a language barrier.
I will be moving aboard in December, so this is good to know ahead of time. Thank You.
When I moved to England for a year, I arrived, took a shower (without a towel or shower curtain!!!!), and then realized that I had forgotten to pack my makeup kit. I hadn't totally forgotten it, but in the packing and re-packing frenzy the night before, it got left out. So after my horrible shower, I had to wander the town in search of the nearest shop to replace my entire kit. VERY frustrating. So don't forget to re-pack all those little pieces you use the morning of your travels.
I didn't bring bedding with me either, and I actually took the airplane blanket with me in my bag when we landed so I wouldn't freeze my first night there. So at least bring a set of sheets, or a light travel blanket with you. I don't advocate stealing airline blankets as soon as you enter a new country!
Other than that, make sure you have the address of your new place, or hotel, for when you go through customs. They'll need to know where you're staying and might not stamp your passport if you don't have a valid address.
yay, here is my list (moving from europe to north america) of things I would take apart from basics as clothing/books/make-up/medication
vegetable peeler (also cuts cheese!), favourite mug/s, european power bar, cash for the first couple of days,water bottle, set of towels/bedding/duvet/blanket, cutlery,pocket knife, travel size of soap etc.
I don't bother with any cleaners/hand wipes etc. because soap and water is better anyway.
I know I'll bring strong medication with me when I move back, your pain killers here rock!
I actually don't think a power strip is necessary, unless you're bringing appliances with you, which I hope you're not doing (too heavy and they take up space). The good news is that most cellphone chargers, tablets and laptops (at least mine did) work well whether you're in a 110V environment or a 220V. All you really need is a plug adapter, preferably a universal one.
Oh, my other essential is a first aid kit. You never know what can happen.
AGREE with towel... but not just any towel, go and get one of those quick dry towels, in the larger size (u can wrap ur self, but it's not like those huge bath sheets mind you...). They are brilliant. Don't take up much space, obvs dry really quick and hold up well after much abuse, You can find them in more like outdoorsy/sports stores. I lived abroad for a couple years and that thing came with me in the carry on, every time! And it's still good after 5 missions in 3 continents. Ford Perfect and Arthur Dent would
be proud!
These days I always pack an envelope filled with photos and postcards to display once I move in to my new place. It's so easy to feel immediately disconnected from everything in your life before you international move. Having some sentimental items, especially small, lightweight ones, always makes me feel at home and comfortable right from the beginning.
As far as practical items, I bring a duvet cover and a pillow case whenever I move abroad. They don't take up much space, and you can use them for anything - blanket, tablecloth, towel, sleep sack, pillow. Then when you are a little more settled, you have another little something from home (or in my case, homes) to make the new stuff feel less new.
Definitely agree with the need for a towel. But I have found that a sarong makes a great substitute. It dries quickly, takes minimal space, weighs very little, and has many other purposes.
I moved to Sydney for a while last year and I think my packing strategy worked nicely. Australia has nearly everything I you can buy in the States, and our monetary conversion rate is damn close to 1:1 dollar, but the cost of living in Sydney is so high compared to in the US, especially the very middle of the city where I lived (literally skyscrapers and Darling Harbour out my window, maybe a 20 minute walk or about two train stops to get to the Opera House). My rent was $350 a week in the city for a bedroom and a bathroom in a suite shared with 5 other girls, while my boyfriend at home paid $400 a MONTH for an entire floor of a townhouse shared with two guys.
So before I left, I knew a few things:
1) I could only bring 100 lbs of luggage.
2) I would be pretty poor for a while.
3) I really really wanted to do quite a bit of shopping for souvenirs and clothing during my trip.
So I got two large suitcases and packed them up so that one of them was almost entirely things I would immediately need and would want to bring back home with me... some clothes, bed sheets (I could have bought new ones, but it'd be more expensive to buy a bed set there than at Walmart), things like that. The 2nd suitcase was nearly entirely filled with things that could be used up and tossed. Mostly toiletries. I did one trip to Sam's Club and bought a family size shampoo and conditioner with the pump that lasted the entire 5-month trip, my favorite skin and makeup products, some Hershey's chocolates, notebooks for school, all things that could easily be purchased abroad, but would cost just enough more, and were nice reminders of home.
As predicted, I bought a LOT of stuff on my trip... but when I was packing to go home, all my disposables were used up, I actually ended up leaving my (washed) bed sheets in a shopping bag beside a blanketless sleeping homeless man (of which there were plenty), and I had an entire suitcase available for all my new, Australian things to come home with me in! Definitely helped me pack what I really needed more thoughtfully (as the disposables used up space on the way there), save money abroad where bulk-size items are less common, and allow for lots and lots of new goodies without having to spend hundreds to ship things home!
My move abroad was just study abroad, so I didn't have to worry about household items.
I was glad, though, that the day before my flight, I'd gone out for some "mini adventures" with my mom to take pictures of some of my favorite things around my hometown. It was good for reminiscing and for sharing with new friends (and in my case, host family).
@meganellen
Having just moved to Germany, I totally agree with everything you said, except fot the bottle opener.
without one, you can get a German to teach you to open bottles with a lighter (or table, or other bottle, or a stern look)! Even better conversation starter :)
I always travel with a picture of my family on me. It's a universal, great for connecting with people. Helps with the homesickness too. Also a favorite book (currently: Calvino's "Invisible Cities;" my first time abroad it was "On the Road")....
Oh I totally agree with the power strip, as wrong as it sounds. Laptop charger, his & hers phone chargers, silly little things add up fast. When I first arrive, it means I only need one socket adaptor to restore sanity. And when I'm staying long-term, I find a native strip and switch the cables over. It'll always come in handy when friends visit.
While I arrived in the UK with all my belongings in one bag, and was met by the then boyfriend, my biggest mistake was during a staged move to the Denver area.
If your box of food includes cans, pack a can opener.
I arrived in a town of 600 at 2:30 am. Starving. In the only place without a truck stop.
Too exhausted to safely drive into Denver, almost an hour away, I simply slept in my car.
Whoops. Make that slept in my car in the parking lot of my new employer.
I second the snacks! With an overnight flight, we had HOURS of hunger before anything was open at our destination. And now that I have kids, we also pack our PJs in one easily identifiable bag (usually a gallon ziplock). Otherwise, I agree with everybody above that you don't need as many clothes as you think you do, but since washing facilities differ widely, make sure at least a few items can be sink washed and worn without ironing.
I just moved from the U.S. to Japan, and had to smile at this. For me a shower curtain was really nice, as it's summer here and I wanted to shower after moving all of my stuff from the hotel to the apartment.
Also- printed out (or saved on e-device) directions to places you'll initially have appointments with. I had no internet for a while after arriving here, and couldn't map anything out as there's essentially no free public wifi in Tokyo. I needed those print outs.
I brought both night time tea bags and instant coffee for my hotel room, as I knew there'd be a hot water kettle but only 1-2 token tea bags, and I'd be there for a week. I hate instant coffee, but in a pinch...
Pre-download (since you might not have 'net connection), a translation app/dictionary/something suited to your language skill level.
I also appreciated having: reusable shopping bags, my travel mug and water bottle, a street atlas (no net connection=no GPS), power strip (not many plugs in my hotel/new apartment). Most of what I needed I quickly acquired here though.
If you're going to a country where things are a lot more expensive it doesn't hurt to bring bed linens and your favorite toiletries.
I also grabbed a public transit map right away here.
I also brought peanut butter. Because I love it, and it's so expensive in Japan.
For me the most important thing is taking my favourite food items, headache meds, everyday underwear. Moving to the US from the UK, I pick up good tea, my fave brand of ibuprofen and M&S plain knickers every time I'm back. When I've moved away from the US I've taken a big supply of my daily supplements. Contact lenses, when I wore them, were important. Everything else I found I could pick up wherever I was.
I LOVE finding new toiletries, linens and such when I get to new places...
A list of things to see to occupy the time you have in between house inspections, job interviews and why-did-i-move-again- moments! a good book saved onto your phone or tablet also helps. moved down under 16 months ago and had 6 hours to kill at the airport at midnight! I couldn't risk falling asleep for fear of having my luggage of essential items being stolen and I read an entire book of my phone.
Extra phone chargers with the plug converters are also always handy!
@Joan of snark - you beat me to it; I was just about to say this!
And my two cents: although it sucks to have to spend a night without sheets or having to let yourself air dry after your first shower, the only things I ever worry about packing are my passport and plane tickets. Everything else is most likely readily available, especially in places like Germany. I even discovered that places like Karstadt and Galeria Kaufhof have lots of American comfort foods in the basement, meaning my mother doesn't have to send me packages of Hershey's chocolate and peanut butter anymore!
Sign up for a VPN so that you can watch hulu, netflix, and check your bank accounts safely.
And make sure you have scanned all important documents you may need for visas when you arrive - marriage license, passport, medical records, school records, etc.
This seems like a stupid lesson to have to have learned, especially with all the moving that I've done in the past, but do not leave one country without cash in the currency of wherever you're going. After travelling all to various countries with my debit cards and experiencing no problems I moved to England a few months ago and figured I'd just hit up an atm at the airport when I landed instead of exchanging money. Except then my debit cards didn't work. Luckily I was renting a room in a house and the girls I live with were kind enough to lend me some money and feed me until I sorted out the problem. I would have been screwed if I'd rented an apartment alone.