With the arrival of Spring, we fling open the windows, start scrubbing and vow to be organized and clear out all that junk that somehow accumulated since the last time we were Spring Cleaning. But sometimes it's hard to part with things in one fell swoop and that's why we love using our Outbox.
The outbox is a concept that Maxwell came up with and that we use in The Cure. It's basically a holding ground for items that we haven't decided about yet. It's a place for them to stay while we continue making our space beautiful. Then, when we're ready, we can revisit the box and make some decisions. This is especially useful when dealing with items that have sentimental or emotional attachments. When you put something in the outbox, it doesn't mean you're getting rid of it, you're just taking it out of the equation while you work on other things. Then you can see your space without the piano/rug/chair/art/pillow before making a decision.
For us, it's easy to purge old clothes or bric a brac that's just gathering dust, it's harder to commit to pieces of furniture that we planned to paint/upholster/fix. Sometimes it's the stuff that was a deal that's hard for us to let go of (what if we need it again and then it's expensive? what if we can't find it again because it was just luck that we found it the first time?).
The Outbox is also a great idea because it saves us from throwing the baby out with the bathwater when we get into a tossing frenzy and want nothing left at home. We've all to often lamented that we threw something away in the heat of the moment. The outbox gives us a chance to reflect and make solid, thoughtful decisions about what we keep in the house and what we let go. It's helpful to ask of each item:
Do I love it? Do I use it? Does my home need it?
Here's what's been in our outbox and we're ready to part with:
• An old Herman Miller Chair that's missing a foot and is faded. We have others and have never spruced this one up--to craigslist it will go.
• We love kitschy old paintings, but this one of a bouquet of flowers has never really fit anywhere in the house so we're saying goodbye.
• Old clothes (something has to be easy)
• A steelcase chair that we bought on a lark (it was a pretty good deal) and have decided it doesn't actually fit (size wise) in the house and we don't love the color.
• An antique Mirror that has never made it onto a wall. We got it at the flea market and thought it would be perfect above the sink, but it's just too narrow.
If you have a pile of stuff in your outbox that you're ready to get rid of, make some cash selling it on Craigslist (one man's trash...) or check out these ideas for recycling and donating it.
(Image: Laure Joliet)
Comments (19)
I have knickknacks in my outbox. I keep buying cute little things (all under 6") with the subconscious idea that they will make my house look nice because I don't know how to choose larger items!
I just had an offer accepted on a 535 sqft condo, coming from a 2040 sqft house, so you can imagine there are lots of things in my outbox, including; silver-color bookshelves that are too modern in the 1928 building we're moving too, a giant dresser and some extra smaller dressers that will no longer fit, barstools (no more bar), 4 extra chairs (and maybe all 6 of them will go in favor of fold up chairs), many many clothes, a giant bin of heirloom dishes and an heirloom 20's chest (back to mom), at least one of the lamps (still deciding), along with a huge assortment of things we would keep in a big house - just in case, for later - but that will not fit in our new place. Office supplies, extra art supplies, extra fix-it supplies, yard and garden surplus.
funkisockmunki-
you still have those bookshelves, I may want to take them off your hands!!! Are you in LA?
My outbox has photos of my ex & I (hard to let go of, but equally difficult to keep), and a pair of tub chairs from my grandmother's house. They match in style, but ones a baby blue, and the other is dusty rose. They're in fantastic condition considering how long she's had them, but the colour are so very awful. Slipcovers will bandaid that, but then I don't really have the space for them. Love 'em/hate 'em. I'm torn!
Can I have that white lamp?
oh boy, i have a pile of stuff:
garbage bag full of fabric remnants, notions and other crafty stuff, old lamp, old toaster, posters from my college days, books, old frames, off-cuts of wood...the list goes on.
not sure how i accumulated all of it, but it's going out the door!
ModestAlmond, if you're in LA then yes, make me an offer ;)
Holy spam.
I would also like that white lamp, modestalmond.
Please, let's not fight over it.
All of our books from graduate school that we have not thought about since we got our degree. We'll keep a few that we're fond of, but I decided there is no need to show off the fact that we read.
Our bookcases will no longer be overwhelmed.
I think I need that white lamp too. How much?
I want in on the bidding war for white lamp!
I just had Vietnam Vets yesterday pick up 3/4ths of my outbox which included a trash bag of clothes, a trash bag of extra christmas items that we didnt use this year (or received and know we wont use), a rug, two old patio chairs, 10 video tapes, and some home decorating items that have been replaced or removed. Now the list for craigslist is even bigger...
Old clothing.
Sun-faded Navy Velvet curtains from the bedroom (Next time, I'll get lined draperies)
3 24" Art/Plate rails from WestElm - New in Box, Never opened.
Excess towels and bedding (the local thrift shop wouldn't take them!)
Two long ottoman/benches that I was using as a banquette in the corner of the living room.
Two wicker chairs from the balcony that are faded and need replacing.
More Magazines!
I never labeled it, but I suppose I do have an 'outbox' in my office right now--more like a family of 'outboxes.' Currently, the most significant item in this group is a brand new, never used, fully functional and beautiful large 70s style pendant lamp, wired and ready to hang. The hubs and I picked it up years ago at our local Room and Board when they were going out of business, along with another pendant, which is hanging in my office. The 70s tube one, however, has made it through 4 house-moves, and never hung. It just never fit anywhere. I plan on putting it on Etsy or CL, but don't want to regret it...
foot spa
old breadmaker that we haven't used in ages
picture frames
possibly selling our microwave (just never use it enough, and could definitely use the counterspace it would free up)
60s dining room table with 4 chairs and 2 leaves (much too large for our 600sf apartment that we downsized into)
old curtains/sheets/blankets...our new queen-sized bed is extra tall so most of our sheets don't fit anymore (so sad, my vintage flower prints don't fit anymore)
laundry baskets/hampers (i'm opting to make my own laundry bag)
oh...and i can't even remember what else...but it feels great!
@laure; damn. I'm up in Montreal, QC. Ah wells.
At the moment I don't have an outbox, not even a donate box as I got rid of a bunch of stuff recently and no time to accumulate anything else as yet. :-)
Most everything in my place I like and works but ya never know what I will decide to part with in the future though as I only have 600SqFt of apartment to work with.
There are several things going and only a few things coming this spring for once - needing to get rid of a end table or two, maybe a coffee table, and two lamps I never ever use. Since the lamps are new, I'll probably gift them to someone. Do need to bring in a new end table.
abs99 - I'm in Seattle. My inbox is going to be emptied at thrift over the next couple weeks and in a big garage sale the week we move into our new place - the week of June 5th. You can watch Craig'sList and The Stranger that week for the garage sale notice.
Hmm, I just started having an outbox and, from memory, it currently has in it:
Pair of crutches
Pink cowboy hat
Set of three chrome spotlights
Unused carpet cleaner and wood polish
Few books I don't want to read again
Dictionaries - Spanish, French, English
Two mugs
One pint glass
Set of odour-reducing candles
And a whole load more clutter. I need to get onto FreeCycle and get rid of some of it, and then donate or recycle the rest.