You set up an Evite for a birthday party weeks in advance and need to figure out how much food and drink to buy - it's three days before the party and 1/5th of the people have responded yes or no. You can even see when they looked at the evite, they just aren't bothering to respond! So why don't people respond to our inquiries, no matter the method? Do you share in our frustration with lack of communication in a supposedly hyper-connected world.
Before modern communication, if someone came calling, you took the time to receive them properly. But if you weren't home, tough luck to the visitor.
Telegraphs were expensive and resulted in a shorthand that humorously enough has come back with modern character limits on text messages and tweets. As with modern technology, who knew if the recipient got it and when they were going to reply.
Telephones allowed instant connection from distances, but the person had to be there on the other end until the invention of answering machines, to which return calls were always a curiosity of when.
Then the internet and e-mail came along which allowed us to not only easily and quickly send along messages but include and ask for a wealth of information previously difficult to communicate back and forth.
Cell phones and text messaging suddenly created an instant line of communication with anyone anywhere, as they carried their communication devices with them everywhere they went!
Suddenly we were bombarded with a huge influx of communication requests. A hyper-connected always on society that could communicate easily with anyone anywhere. But along with this connectivity the desire to respond in a timely fashion (or even at all) seems to have fallen by the wayside. For messages we were hesitant for whatever reason to respond to in the first place we suddenly were loathe to have access to 24x7, and a huge pushback started to occur.
What's your own policy on returning messages? Do you generally respond immediately? Hours or days later? When you're good and ready? Do your own expectations for others to respond sync up to your own responses to others?