Do I really need twenty t-shirts, a dozen towels, three teapots? I need multiples of certain things, yes, but at some point, a few turns into too many. Check your mulitiplication on the following items that seem to accumulate.
Sheets: Unless you have kids who wet the bed and need to have their bed linens changed nightly, you don't really need more than two or three sets of sheets for each bed (Two, if you're good about doing laundry, three if you're a slacker). Concentrate, instead, on quality — linen sheets, maybe, or mix and match. Donate old sheets to animal shelters or rip them up for rags.
Glasses: Wine glasses, juice glasses, martini glasses. Do you really need a different glass for every beverage that you drink? Wine aficionados may disagree, but the trend towards stemless wine glasses can streamline your cupboards. Many of us are even starting to use the same items for everyday and company.
Tupperware: I love leftovers, but I feel pretty sure I'm in the minority. Most people I know pack up the extras with every intention of using them, and, weeks later, discover the science projects grown from their odds and ends. Go through your stash and put any containers without tops in the recycling bin. Better yet, eliminate plastic alltogether and get ceramic or Pyrex dishes that can go from oven to table to fridge (making it more likely that you'll use up their contents). Or eliminate the need for special leftover containers with stretch-to-fit covers. Resembling shower caps, they can turn any bowl or plate into a container.
Towels: As with sheets, so it is with towels. Is it necessary to use a new towel after every bath or shower? Consider using a hair towel, bath towel and hand towel for an entire week. Like sheets, donate old towels to animal shelters. Put aside a few generously sized ones that are still in good condition to use at the beach. To free up real estate in your closet, hang them on the back of a bathroom door.
Cleaning/Grooming Products: Whether it's hair products, nail products, cleaning products, hair baubles or something else, we've all got a weakness. Don't worry, we've all been suckered in by the product that promised to transform out hair or clean our bathroom. Time to eliminate. Streamline your routine, whether it's hair care or cleaning, to weed out products you don't use. For cleaning, an all-purpose cleanser, scrub, and window cleaning product can probably get you through most chores.
Makeup: I'm guilty of this one; though I wear minimal makeup, I've got enough colors for the next decade of Halloweens. Makeup, especially lipsticks (remember the funny texture and smell of the lipstick Gramma always wore?), mascaras, liquid liners and foundations, can go off. Toss anything you haven't worn in the past year. Not only is it probably bacteria-laden, chances are you'll never use it. Then treat yourself. Consider consulting with a makeup artist (try the makeup counter in a department store) to hone a look that works for day and one that works for night.
Books: Your favorite books, your favorite children's books, first editions, yes, but the summer beach read, caked with sand, or the book for your book club you only read because you had to? Many of us have a mental block against getting rid of books, but if you're not using them, they're just collecting dust. Cull your collection and donate books to your local library, a hospital or nursing home, or send books to friends. If you haven't already done so, consider making the switch to reading books on your Kindle, IPad or IPhone (the type's the same size as a standard paperback). Only save hard copies of books you are sure you want to keep.
Office supplies: What is it about a new notebook or a new pen that holds so much promise? Is it a holdover from when new supplies meant a new grade at school with its promise of a shiny, bright future? Do you really need and use all those notepads? If you've got it, use it: write a letter, send out that card you thought was funny, reuse that old file folder. Make a concious decision to use less paper. Ask yourself before you automatically print stuff out. Make lists on your smartphone instead (try an app like Teux Deux or UYHGold).
Hotel size items: Yes, they're cute, but when you take them home, they just become clutter. Use them up: store small sizes with your weekender or gym bag and use them up when you're heading to places where you might need pint-sized bath products. Or combine like with like to create one big bottle for your shower or bath. You can also combine small soaps: melt them down to form one big bar or wrap them in a washcloth tied up like a hobo bag. And if you find tiny toiletries accumulating, next time, leave them behind.
Frilly soaps, bath stuff and scented candles: If you have them, use them — don't just collect them, thinking you're saving them for a special occassion. In the meantime, tuck scented soaps into your sock drawer to scent your toes. Same with candles; use them or give them to someone that will get pleasure from them.
Vases: If you've ever received flowers, chances are they've come in a glass vase. If you don't use them, recycle them. Keep the ones you might actually use (medium sized cylinders or bowls, small box-shaped vessels) and recycle the rest. Keep the ones you have filled with flowers, use them to plant terrariums, or try some of these ideas.
Hangers: A mix of wood, plastic and wire hangers are often jumbled together in closets, ruining your clothes and making things look messy. Uniform hangers, like the slim velvety ones, make your closet look neat and keep your clothes looking better longer. Is your closet stuffed full of cardboard and wire hangers from the dry cleaners? Many cleaners will accept old hangers for re-using.
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guilty: beauty products, notebooks, and tupperware. As for vases, many florists will gladly take back vases and reuse them!
I was quessing socks! I have plenty of socks.
I agree with most of this, but completely disagree with the glasses! I may be the wine snob you were referring to, but I would never put anything but wine in a wine glass! Martinis in a wine glass, wine in a water glass?! You're not even supposed to wash your wine glasses with soap! Just hot hot hot hot water. The residing dish soap alters the taste, yuck! And steamless gasses warm the wine from your body heat, also no good. There is a science to wine glasses to enhance your experience!
For those of us who live in terribly cold winter climates, I would allow an extra set of sheets--the winter flannels. Everything else is spot on; I've been working so hard on decluttering this Spring! I'm having a very hard time parting with books, but being able to give them to the local library helps mitigate my feelings about seeing them go.
Great article. I do most of this already, but need to work on the mix of hangers in my closet and switch over to all velvety ones - they take up less space and my clothes don't end up on the floor. Another great idea for your old paperbacks and hotel sized amenities: send them to our soldiers. They LOVE them. www.BooksforSoldiers.com is a great site for finding out what individual soldiers are interested in, or you can box up a bunch and ship them to an APO or FPO for distribution. Hygiene products (and your pile of socks or towels) are also very much appreciated by those men & women serving our country overseas.
"Consider using a hair towel, bath towel and hand towel for an entire week."? Who DOESN'T do that? If I think about this too long I may become depressed...
I am beaming with pride right now. After several years of ruthless purging, I can safely say that I do not have too many of any of these things. Two sets of sheets for each bed, glass food storage containers (many of which are just recycled jars), the barest minimum of grooming and makeup products...all of it, has been pared down in my home. And you know what? I feel so much more free, without all the stuff. This is the reward I get for living through a couple of years of being flat broke. I do not take anything for granted and I enjoy the things that I do have so much more.
I went through a few weeks using all the travel sized shampoo and conditioner in the bathroom closet. Kind of exciting to get to try a new shampoo each week. My problem is travel size lotion. I always forget that I've taken it out of the hotel room and end up with tons that I hardly ever use. I like the idea of combining it into one big bottle.
I have to share my other use for old towels - they make great drop cloths for house painting! My mom suggested this and I can't recommend it enough. If used over a plastic drop cloth the weight holds down the plastic AND you can see the paint drops so that you don't step on and track.
I am with the_asp. One thing good thing about the crappy economy, realized how much crap I was collecting. I have managed to purge our family down to about 50% of what we had three years ago and I haven't missed anything I've given away. I only buy what I need. I serve dinner to friends on mismatched plates, in the wrong glasses and no one seems to care. I do, however, wash my towels more often because our bathroom is so tiny, we can't hang up four towels to dry.
Over the past few years, I have gotten a lot more ruthless about what stays in my home. From this list, I think that cleaning products are my biggest problem, but I like to be prepared. Oh, and books. But I will not get rid of my books; you will have to pry them out of my cold, dead hands.
I'm in the process of packing up my apartment and this is just the post I needed to read! It's time for some ruthless purging :)
Right on. This is a handy list for people putting their homes on the market. Get rid of the extras, folks!
Re: tupperware, another handy idea is to use your everyday dishes and put a plate on top of it as a lid. You can see a photo here: http://green.yourway.net/7-ways-to-avoid-using-plastic-wrap/
I picked up this tip from the book Super Baby Food and find that a) the dishes stack so nicely in my cupboard when not in use, b) the dishes containing leftovers stack nicely in my fridge when in use [again, see photo in the link], and c) it avoids using plastic such as those shower cap things that, while reusable for awhile, eventually wear out.
Homeless shelters are in constant need of travel size toiletries. My mom's church collects them and sends them to their sister church in Africa, where a tiny bottle of shampoo could be a HUGE luxury to someone.
Pinterest has a million pins for upcycling florist vases. Go get inspired!
Now, who has a cure for my obsessive need to collect crafting supplies? ;-D
Those little hotel sets are much need at (homeless) shelters as well as towels. Towels are also good for housekeeping. Cut them up, dampen with just little plain water use them for dusting and on glass / mirrors too. We are now working on getting rid of all those travel mugs....
Oh yeah, this is spot on. Except for the fact that there are even more things that I have too many of.
i totally disagree about getting rid of books. and trying to convince us to switch to an ereader! blasphemy!
Give the hotel toiletries to your local homeless shelter, they truly appreciate them.
I'm not sure I could ever admit that ANY amount of books is "too many." I love books and will sacrifice a lot of other belongings in order to keep mine. Books aren't towels or shampoo bottles. They are knowledge.
Great post and great suggestions in the comments. Decluttering is the most freeing thing you can do for yourself and your family!
Old towels, covered with nice fabric, make dandy new potholders. Old towels are great for reusable cleaning 'rags'. This list is for the average reader. Anyone else might keep many of their books. But the average person moves every 3-5 years so I can see not hoarding anything as a big advantage. Give overflow to local charity shop like Goodwill, and help your community.
Regarding books you're done with: sell them back to Amazon! They take lots of titles and even provide free printable shipping labels. They don't take any book, though, you have to enter each title to see if they'll buy it. Amounts vary depending on the condition of your books but you'd be surprised at how $$ adds up!!
A couple of years ago I would have also called your comments about book blasphemy. But I have now realized that I cannot find the books I love or truly want to reread because some I do not care to ever read again are cluttering my bookshelves. I will always be a person with a lot of books, but I'm slowly making room for more by getting rid of some I can live without. Recently I returned from an MFA residency where I'd ordered three craft (writing) books from Amazon. They were in the stack of mail my house sitters had gathered. I went to my bookshelves and pulled off enough old books (and some cassette tapes about writing) to make room. Some of my "beginner" books need to go to someone who will appreciate them more at this point in his/her life. When I finish my MFA program, I will do a major book clearing. But I'm not ready for an e-reader.
In addition to homeless shelters, ones for battered women also need small size toiletries.
I think I will buy flowers and put them in the vases I want to get out of my house and give those to friends.
I love the idea of storing soaps in drawers (with socks and undies).
I've done a lot of the other things. When I bought new glasses, two sizes of tumblers, a few years ago, I got rid of all the old ones. When I bought new glass storage containers I got rid of the plastic and was careful to not overbuy on the new ones. I am down to three sets of sheets, mostly because I love all three and cannot figure out which to get rid of. In a couple of years I am upgrading to a Queen mattress set and I plan to have only two sets of sheets. My office supplies are still a bit over-the-top, but better. I've given away a lot and am not buying except the pens I love and use all the way to empty. Otherwise I'm just trying to use up sticky notes and such.
This was a very helpful article.
Happily, I don't own too many of any of the above items. What I do have too much of is paper; too many old magazines, old bills (I love looking at my old credit card bills from when I couldn't pay the full amount due, comparing them to new ones in which I have paid the full amount), other paper items.
Another use for travel/hotel size -- many rape crisis centers, like the one I work for, collect travel/sample/hotel size toiletries to provide to victims of sexual assaults. Survivors oftentimes want to shower after the forensic exam so we have toiletries available for them. Just another thought!
Thanks to moving from a decent sized 1 bedroom to a much smaller studio, I got rid of a lot of multiples. Down to 3 sets of sheets, 4 sets of towels, dinner set for 4. But I do have a problem with wine glasses & shot glasses. I have way too many, but because I tend to break wine glasses, I'm ok with it.
Olderworker, paper is a problem I will be dealing with later this year when I am on break from school. I just went through old mags and gave them away to friends...one takes the fashion and shelter ones to a University where students can have access to them. I have downsized my subscriptions and now get one fashion, one shelter, one entertainment/culture, and one inspirational/all-purpose (and a couple of writing but I consider that to be professional). This fall I plan to get rid of old credit card statements, old bank statements, old tax returns, and just a lot of paper clutter I've let accumulate for many, many years. There will be a lot of shredding, but I am ready to reclaim my space. (Actually in two years I want to move to a smaller space and all this clutter clearing now will help a lot then.)
Great ideas! Another idea for recycling florist vases is to take them back to a florist. They are usually happy to reuse them and I usually get a free bouquet of flowers for my trouble!
The next post will be on really cool libraries. Bet on it. :)
Perhaps my palette just isn't that sensetive, but after many, many, many, many, many tasting efforts, I can't define a difference between wine out of a wine glass, or out of the juice glasses we prefer in our house. And trust me, loads of bottles went into this conclusion.
I am genuinely offended at the notion someone could have too many books. There are never too many books.
I have read so much about decluttering I feel like putting all my belongings out in the yard and post a sign saying Gerage Sale or come and get it it is free. I would probably have to pay them to haul it off.
I purge constantly so I do not accumulate. However I disagree with the towels..I use a fresh one ever other day.
I only have 1 set of sheets which are washed and put right back on the bed.
When I purge, especially clothes, I go to the streets in SF that are know to have homeless and I leave shoes, clothes on the corner. Within a hour, it's gone.
@Babbling -
HA! I've made that same test, many, many bottles of wine drunk out of everything from jelly jars to Reidl - I can't taste a difference.
If it's important to you to have pretty glasses and you use them, that's great for you. But people who swear that wine is polluted by using the wrong glass? W I N E S N O B!
I'm scanning my books to e-books, have digitized most of my vinyl, and keep the office electronic. I have no fondness for plastic or Tupperware, believe that butter and other product bowls belong at the recyclers, and use Mason jars for leftovers. I eventually want a set of collapsible BPA-free bowls, collapsible funnel, and a folding colander when I can find one made of something besides plastic.
Now, budding fashion merchandisers and designers, can we please have convertible wrap day dresses made of something besides thin and unflattering jersey, in a variety of colors, and at a working-class clerical's price point, and GoreTex long underwear which will keep us warm without taking up much space?
Love this post. Living with less is truly freeing.
One good thing about my apartment having almost no storage space is that I've been forced to get rid of multiple anythings. Nearly everything I own is in use!
But re some of the other comments, I don't get this obsession with owning books - unless, of course, they're being read! Otherwise, they just seem like a waste of space. I don't think there's some intrinsic virtue to having books adorning one's house, or whatever.
I try to only buy things to replace what's almost totally used up. I have so much less junk in my shower now. I used to have one of those rods with the shelves and the thing that hangs from the shower head and bother were full (I live alone). No I just have the rod and it's not even full. It feels good having less clutter.
Thing I'm bad with: art supplies and makeup. What can I say? I like lots of color.
Mind your own business ;-)
Please donate your extras! All the items listed in this post could be used by clients of domestic violence agencies, homeless housing programs, youth shelters, and more. Toiletries, books, household supplies and kitchen gear -- please lighten your load and help someone rebuild their lives at the same time.
I don't have too much of any of this stuff, truly, but I still feel my life is too cluttered. Paper is a huge problem. I've gotten on all those "do not mail" lists but am still overrun and I hate dealing with it. Gah!
Proud to say I am not guilty of any of these, but I live full-time in an RV. I love to live simply!
Way to many cooking utensils, I use about 4 or 5 and own 2 dozen. Face palm.
Why do I do this to myself!
Couldn't agree more...and I'm a book lover. But I gave all but my most favorites to the local library...and if I miss them, I go visit them there.
Guilty on almost all counts, except for the towels. Who uses a new towel every time they shower? What a pain and waste. But I am a complete sucker for makeup, having to resist the urge to buy essentially the same lipgloss I already have 6 of pretty much every time I step into Sephora. It pains me to get rid of books, especially those from graduate school. It's like a reminder of how hard I worked. But one of the things that I love in my apartment building is the book exchange in our inner lobby. Leave a book, take a book. Doesn't necessarily cut down on the number of books, but it's a great way to at least know old ones are going somewhere useful.
Old towels are often needed at animal shelters, and of course hotel toiletries are always welcomed at homeless shelters.
I'm in agreement with TellaGraham:
Growing up in an 1st Generation Italian home, my parents and Nonni drank wine out of small juice glasses (say it isn't so). They didn't own any fancy wine glasses. Far as I can tell, the wine tasted fine, irrespective of the vessel they drank it from. :-/
I have a lot of old towels that work hard because I'm the head of a six-chihuahua household. Rescues can get up to a lot of mischief. For myself, I only wash the towel more than once a week if it's that time of the month and it's hard not to make a mess.
We had over 20 mismatched mugs that had all been given to us as gifts over time. They sat in the basement collecting dust until we finally got rid of them.
If you buy nice quality white china, you can use it every day and for special occasions if you dress up the table, so no need for a set of china that you use only once a year.
I love this post So true. I recently moved and tried to downsize across all of these items. I tossed a bunch of old sheets and towels and they are already less of a headache to store. I travel frequently for business and pleasure and keep Container Store media boxes full of travel size toiletries, which are labeled 'hair," body," "face," etc. I also have way too many printed photos in books and albums and am thinking of sending them all to a service to scan.
Can't speak to the makeup issue. Other than that, this was the most accurate and complete thing I've ever read on AT.
But gad, the book fetishists, "genuinely offended at the notion someone could have too many books." Please. People have a finite amount of space. If they never sell or donate books, the books clog the home and cause an unhappy, messy, cluttered life. What's wrong with getting rid of books you didn't like, or books you can check out from the library if you need to reread them someday? There are so many worthwhile books out there that no home could contain them all, and therefore everyone must draw a line. Drawing the line such that you have a tidy, uncluttered house doesn't mean you hate "knowledge." Sheesh.
I'm an avid reader and still like to slim down my books once in awhile. A few years back I heard of the "revolving bookshelf" theory. Meaning there aren't any books on your shelf that you wouldn't read or reread again. There are a lot of books that are not for me, and I'm so happy to donate these to people who will appreciate them more. If I've had a book for a few years and have not read it yet, I probably will not be reading it anytime soon.
However, I do believe in keeping extras of your favorite books. I love to buy cheap paperback copies of my favorites and hand them out to friends.
One thing I would add to the list: perfumes. There's a million little gift perfumes taking up space in my bathroom that I've never used.
I own too many clothes. Growing up, I was teased a lot because I only owned maybe 8-9 shirts at any given time and only 2-3 pairs of pants, all from Wall-Mart or K-Mart. When I started making my own money I went overboard constantly, buying a lot of inexpensive stuff from Old Navy and Gap. I feel like now I have a lot of clothes, but they're not high quality. I know I should just take a leap and invest in nicer things (you know, the whole quality over quantity idea) but I have this residual, lingering thought that somewhere, somehow I will be judged for only having a few outfits. It's a tricky thing.
I'm pretty good about purging, and honestly could use more towels and sheets. The only thing right now that I have too much of are fancy bars of soap. I use liquid soap, and somehow this last Christmas pretty and nicely wrapped bars of soap seemed to be the gift of choice. I may either re-gift or donate some of them. Or I guess I could try to become a convert...
I collect office supplies, like sketchbooks and Lamy Pens. I like seeing them in my neatly arranged closet. I have the space and encouragement from my partner, so I'm not giving them up. I think people should keep whatever makes them happy. I used to be a super decluttering Discardia person and now I just find people like that incredibly annoying. I don't WANT JUST ONE TOWEL. I want ALL THE TOWELS. It's my house and goddamnit I'll used three towels a day if I feel like it. Decluttering and all that jazz is a personal choice not a moral virtue.
Good starter list for getting things manageable.
Reading some of the posts one gets the impression that suggesting to get rid of some or all of your books is tantamount to Bradbury's Fahrenheit 451 solution! Not so!
I've amassed a boatload of books over the decades and every couple of years I purge and take them down to the local retirement home. They are so grateful for them it's unbelievable. Of course, there are a few which I simply won't get rid of but the majority of them only serve to take up space. If I want to re-read those particular books they are waiting for me at the local library.
I think some people view their book collection as a source of pride and relish the idea of having guests Oohh and Aahh at their collection and implied wisdom and intellect. If that's your cup of tea, fine, enjoy, it's harmless enough. Honestly though, how many times have you walked into someone's home, marveled at the wall of books and thought to yourself "Have they really read every single one of these books, cover to cover?" And if you did, does it matter? My books are strictly for my enjoyment, what you may think about that is of no importance to me.
As for ebooks, I agree that there is something special about holding an actual book in your hands as opposed to holding an electronic tablet, but, the ebook is perfectly fine for the quickie commute/beach/travel read and you can carry quite a bit with you.
Also, think about videos/movies: They take up space as well. Yes, some movies like books you want to keep but think about the cost of buying movies. They cost around $25/movie, let's say you actually watch that movie twice a year for the next five years. That's a cost of $2.5/viewing. At the moment Redbox will rent you that same movie for $1.30/viewing. After ten viewings you'll have spent $13! And, if after five years you really want to have a copy of that movie in your collection you'll find it in the bargain bin by that time for a lot less than $25!
As for old paperwork: Scan and save then recycle! It's actually easier to find that particular piece of information digitally than searching through a box of papers.
De-cluttering is a very simple and effective way of reducing stress that you don't realize you carry until you let it go. And it can have an impact on your budget!
Also:
Shelters (i worked for several) do not take trial sizes from individuals, only companies who made the actual product. We didn't because of quality control issues, and also because it's really freaking gross.
Books: my librarian friends cringe whenever someone suggests, "donate books to a library". Unless they're running a continuous book sale, they don't need your old copies of The Divinci Code.
Hangers: my dry cleaners has a big old sign that says "WE DO NOT TAKE BACK OLD HANGERS" so there you go.
Some of the lids from my cooking pots fit nicely over some of my mixing bowls. Beats a plate any day and if the fit is right it won't slide off as easily. My son and his family don't hang up their towels properly after use so they end up with a lot more laundry than necessary. I'd love to say something but as a good MIL I keep my lips zipped. Mustn't start a diplomatic incident. My worst "too many" offence is table linens. The local thrift shop has too many opportunities to add to the collection.
^ numerous libraries in our not-big city take book donations for bi-yearly/yearly book sales.
local shelters also take travel-sized toiletries from individuals. in fact I ran a "so fresh and so clean clean drive" for just that purpose when I was back in college :)
I purged about 15 glass (not nice) vases recently. amazing how fast they accumulate!
we only have 2 sets of sheets and only had 1 before getting a flannel set. I thought it was good for the mattress to air out some when washing the sheets.
Like GG_MS, I know that in my local suburbs, the pantries and shelters WILL take travel sized toiletries.
Same with the library, they do an annual book sale and will gladly accept donations for that. Anyway, there are more places to donate books other than just the library. There are actually donation bins around the area specifically to collect book donations.
Mel_Bell - Lipstick, lip gloss, and lip balm do not come off glasses in just hot water. No matter how hot the water is and no matter how long you soak, you still need some sort of detergent to completely remove all traces. I'm sure the soap does affect the taste of the wine but I assume that the traces of lipstick do, too. So I think that soap is the lesser of two evils.
Before anyone suggests it, I consider neither giving up lip goo nor giving up wine to be a tenable solution.
I'm pretty good on most of these counts; I keep longing to buy new sheets and reminding myself that, with five sets, I'm overloaded as it is. The one thing that ever REALLY hung me up was old clothes. My closets and drawers used to just get jammed with stuff -- not the nice stuff, which you tend to keep track of, but the "oh, hanging out at the house on a rainy day" stuff. Before I moved, I did a clothing purge and figured out I owned about 30 black T-shirts. Did I think someday humanity would stop making them?
As for books, glasses, etc. -- you know, if you have a lot of something because you genuinely love that something and make it a part of your life, I say, have at it. That's not clutter. That's a core element of who you are, and what is style if it's not a statement of your identity? Me, I'm a book lover. In my new house I have built-ins enough to hold them all, and it fills me with delight.* My house without books ... well, that's not MY house. Anything you truly adore and take the time and care to store/present properly will enhance, rather than detract from, your home's style. Clutter is the stuff you don't care about, the stuff you've told yourself you'll need or value but you actually don't. Quantity on its own is not the enemy; clutter is.
* That said, I do a book purge every couple of years. Inevitably I end up with a few that aren't keepers. But I only get rid of them to make room for more new ones! And I have an e-reader as well -- it's not either/or! But real books allow for casual browsing and impulse reading in a way e-readers just don't.
I store leftovers in regular ceramic dishware bowls. I just invert a dessert plate over the top of the bowl as a lid and, voila! Instant glass storage that takes up zero extra space.
For myself, I only wash the towel more than once a week if it's that time of the month and it's hard not to make a mess.
TMI TMI TMI !!!
Babbling, I plan to do a similar study - all in the name of science, of course. It will probably take a decade or two. I do want to be thorough.
Yeah, Sunspot, but if she writes a book about her stained towels, we all have to display it in our living rooms because, you know, "never enough books."
Great list!
Agree with @BeeforBrian about the book fetishes. People just need to understand that some people aren't obsessed with books and prefer not to own or display them in their homes. My BF owns too many books, and so when we moved to our small house, I told him that until he finds a suitable way to store/display them, they will remain in their original moving boxes under the bed. They have been there for 9 months and neither of us miss them.
The towel thing is me, but I have two dogs so we actually go through most of them (cleaning paws, baths, crate bedding, cleaning up messes, etc). Like the alien in Hitchhiker's Guide: towels are SO useful!
Still though, who uses a fresh towel every day??
I do pretty well on most of these: One set of good sheets that go back on immediately after laundering (one set of old spare sheets in case I get sick or something); two sets of towels; one set of makeup (mascara, blush, powder, brow pencil -- that's all I use); one normal size bottle of shampoo and one of body wash (no bars of soap); all my hangers are plastic or wood; no hotel samples (except one set in my travel kit); almost no tupperware; only a small assortment of glasses; no frilly soaps or scented stuff (I don't use scented products)...
But Books. I'm a librarian, and I have a home library with about 108 linear feet of shelving -- mostly full of books (and some office supplies and knick-knacks.) I periodically purge topics I no longer think I will want to refer to, buy more on topics of interest even if I won't get around to reading them any time soon, and paperback junk reading which I read then donate back to my library. I don't have books to impress anyone else, just to support my interests and make me happy. When they stop doing that, they are free to go away. (The hard part is noticing that they have reached that point!)
Donating books. The Library where I work collects books year round. We screen them for addition to the collection (things we don't have and can use, things to replace worn out or lost items, etc.) and the rest go to the book sale run by Friends of the Library, the proceeds of which pay for museum passes and programs. Other libraries have different setups.) Things neither the library nor the Friends can use include Reader's Digest condensed books, National Geographic magazines, encyclopedias, text books, moldy or mildewed or otherwise damaged items, etc. These get recycled (for which we have to pay a service.)
In our area, 1-800-GotBooks also runs stores and places "dumpsters" for donations and they kind of have to accept whatever people put in there. Plus at least three nearby thrift shops take books. Plus used book stores will take clean paperbacks in as credit toward other ones they have to sell. So there should be many places to offload books you don't want.
Vases. This one is kind of a problem. I love vases. Pretty vases. Japanese vases, art glass vases, moss green ceramic vases in interesting shapes, sets of various sized bottle vases (always in threes, it seems), geometric vases, delicate antique bud vases, heavy clear glass cylinders... I rarely have cut flowers in the house, but I could support a florist with my vases. They are sculpture to me. Hard to part with. (The boring clear glass florist vases are nothing to me -- those go straight to Goodwill -- and if I happen to get flowers in one, I move them to one of my nice vases...)
So much self-righteousness and in your midst, a heretic, a SINNER! (Gasp) Yes, several sets of sheets here, various quilts, 3 duvet covers, multiple plastic and glass food storage dishes, curly hair products, straight hair products, facial care products, wide variety of cleaning products, books ... et al. I feel a visit to Garnet Hill or Amazon coming on.
I will not recant.
I have a lot of things I don't use but think.."oh yes, I'll put that on ebay"...but haven't. One of these days I will just snap and give it all to Goodwill and be done thinking about the money I didn't make selling it.
Lol To all of my book loving commrades:: I did it!! Purged almost 200 books from my home and gave them to charity. All hard covers; a few paperbacks. After living in the same home for 20 years we downsized to an apartment half the size of our home. GULP. I sorted through those books and simply gave them away. I lived. I kept about 100 of them with the rule "Buy One; Give one away"
I also bought a Sapien bookcase because they hold so many books in a very small space. (book tower) lol or so I thought. It is 5 feet tall and holds approx 25-50 books Still not working. This week as hard as it will be; I am giving away another 50-75 books; just not enough room. I have an e-reader from B&N with a backlight so you can read iin bed. I love it!! The books are cheaper and I can keep approx 1500 books at a time. I am going to sell my books back to Amazon. I would have bought their e-reader; but they do not offer an e-book with a back light. So for those who are hesitant; they work perfectly and I don't miss the "real" books at all..although saving some for my grandchildren. Using the Sapien bookshelf for our DVD's which are also being purged!!
PS: My husband uses 2 towels and 2 washcloths everyday. LOL he is not OCD; but refuses to "reuse a dirty towel" lol
As a grad student in Paris 30+ years ago, I learned to drink wine out of the little recycled "mustard" glasses favored by inexpensive prix fixe cafes -- nothing beats them as far as I'm concerned. (The closest I've found state-side, and that not recently, are the Kraft Old English cheese spread jars.)
Not too long ago I whittled down the 14 sets of sheets for the two beds in my house. Then I got a new (and chewing) puppy and discovered I should have kept a few more of them!
Can't say I have too many of any of these things. Sheets? Two sets for the summer and one flannel set for the winter. Vases? I have one. Tupperware? Enough to keep the cut veggies and opened canned food in. Office Supplies? I can never find a pen in the house. Frilly soap? None at all...
Gah, kitchenware. My boyfriend's previous roommate worked as a chef, and there is a ton of stuff leftover from him and other roommates. I made it through college with 1 giant mug, a water bottle, a fork, and a spoon, so it is incredibly hard for me to look at a kitchen full of crap I'm not allowed to get rid of. Waffle-maker that hasn't been used in years? Stacks of chipped, patterned china that have never been used? 10 water bottles? Dozens of cheap plastic containers? Got em all.
I found a used book store that will do a 2-for-1 trade for my books, so at least I can start cutting down on that pile.
I'm slowly whittling down my "too many things." I'm using up toiletries and making regular trips to the thrift store these days. It feels good.
I'm another who doesn't understand the obsession with books. To anyone who believes that the mere possession of books produces knowledge, I advise you to go read Petunia, a children's book by Roger Duvoisin. Petunia the goose finds a book and decides that carrying it around makes her wise. Only after she hurts several of her friends does she realize: "Now I understand. It was not enough to carry wisdom under my wing. I must put it in my mind and in my heart." Gosh, how I love that book. I've committed that line to memory.
You need not possess a book to carry its wisdom in your mind and your heart. And in this incredible digital age, should you feel the need to revisit that knowledge firsthand, take comfort in knowing that it's never further away than Google or your local library.
It's helpful to consider these items in order to avoid accumulating more in the future.
Although I send my Mom bouquets of flowers a few times a year, I always opt out of the vase. Come on- you know your Wife, Mother, Grandmother, whomever, owns her own vases, which she probably enjoys more than those cheap ones that flower businesses try to sell you for 8 or 9 dollars- just skip the vase.
Obviously this doesn't apply when sending flowers to someone in the hospital, etc., but if you are sending them to someone's home, they will probably appreciate if you don't send a piece of junk vase that will just end up becoming clutter.
The other thing I would add to Cleaning/Grooming Products, specifically, is SUNSCREEN. It stops working after a year or so, right? Why bother using an old product that is probably not going to help protect you from the sun's harmful rays- you might as well use nothing at all! If you have leftovers from last summer or longer ago, it's probably best to get rid of it.
Oh, I was doing so well at first ...
Two sheets, one duvet.
Two wineglasses, two tumblers.(There are two of us).
Plenty of tupperware, 99% in use.
Four towels, one bathrobe.
Small tray of products.
Makeup - all in one small cosmetic bag.
Books - quite a few. Mostly reference, used often.
Office supplies. Almost zero.
Hotel items. One.
Candles. Only supplies for emergencies.
Hangers - all wood.
Am I smug or what?
Ah, vases. Fourteen in 420 square feet....
Twenty Tshirts is excessive? If I get rid of 15 and am left with 5, how is it going to help the environment if I have to do laundry every 3 days?
I must admit to having too many glasses but we use most of them at one time or another. I currently have too many cloth napkins. It started with a couple of cute napkins here and there and then a set of 6 because our table seats 6. Then our friends moved across the country and left us 3 dozen white napkins among other things. I don't think we could fit 3 dozen people in our house even if they were all standing up. My cute little bench seat with storage is now overflowing with napkins. I might just keep a few and give the rest away since I can't imagine us serving food for that many people at once.
Oh, I'd forgotten to count the vases in the kitchen ... another four :(
Those of us who are voracious readers quickly pile up the paperback books. If your budget is tight or tightening, you can rid yourself of the clutter AND allow yourself to get your next reading matter at a huge discount. Check out:
http://www.paperbackswap.com/index.php
It's very well run, organized, and reasonably private. You list the books (or audio books) you are willing to part with just by keying in their ISBNs. People who want them will request them via an E-mail that comes to you from the club. Then you print the mailing label they provide and ship off the book. When it is received by the requester, you get a credit to select a book of your choice from the 5 million+ current selections. You get two free credits just by signing up and listing 10 books. The club also runs trading for hardbacks, CDs, and DVDs.
I haven't bought a book for two years. I just read and recycle.
I'm certainly guilty regarding some of the items mentioned. Another category I don't think has been listed is "throw" pillows for beds. I think there is a tendency to go overboard with the pillows.
Another problem that I have is that way too much of my stuff serves no practical purpose...it's just nice to look at. It's fine to have some useless, pretty things but it should be kept to a minimum. I do take brief spells of de-cluttering but have a long way to go.
I have to politely disagree on the tupperware and any food storage containers. I make a lot of meals in bulk and then freeze them in tupperware for family and work lunches to thaw later on. To me I am always running out!
But the book thing - we donated 75% of our book collection to the local library. That was a great idea because we only kept the ones that we really loved or had meaning.
i swear, i do not have too much of any of those things.
family of 4, live a reasonable life. i probably don't have enough of 2 of those things!
And once I've purged the items mentioned above, which I've already been doing, the idea is not to go out and buy more!!!
I found a bunch of sheets in my linen closet never used and all in the gray tone, which I've been crocheting into a big groovy rag rug. Towels can also be re-purposed into woven mats and rugs.
Re: the books.
I don't keep books I don't love. Then again, I don't *buy* books I don't love, in the first place. In Australia, (good) books are very expensive; if I purchase one, it's because I'm familiar with the author and/or I've read reviews, and I'm pretty sure I'm going to love it.
So, yes, I re-read books all the time. Not necessarily the entire book, but I grab a few out of the shelves before bed, and re-read my favourite bits. And I lend them out to friends, and leave some in the guest room when visitors stay. I can't do any of those things if they're sitting in the library.
Telling people to give away books they've read, is like telling people to give away CD's they've listened to.
I am ok on the listed items but I have a huge reusable shopping bag problem. Most people have a few I have an Ikea bag stuffed full of them. We call it "the bag bag" but I just keep getting more. Can not resist a new design at Whole Foods or Trader Joe. I use to have a Gap t-shirt that I got on sale problem but I think I have overcome that addiction. I guess that means there is hope for my current bag addiction.
Rage Daily is spot on about the revolving library - keeping only those books that you will reread in the future. Cookbooks had been my downfall, but then I realized I regularly used only a few and that the others were rarely or never consulted. I gave (foisted, really) these never consulted cookbooks to friends still smitten by the never-too-many-recipes foodies. And then I turned my eyes to my batterie de cuisine...
I've gotta agree with Girl & Lamp. And no one has suggested the following:
Books: For the ones I can part with, I came up with bi-annual book swaps with girlfriends - one for beach reads in the summer and another for winter hibernation. Addresses clutter and doesn't impose it on your local library - they don't want your old S*&^%!!
Sheets/Duvets (not towels): Craigslist - besides homeless shelters which cater to only those they serve/most destitute, there is a growing working class in cities especially (I live in DC) that may be steps up from being in a shelter, but still need help - think single moms, spouses incarcerated etc. I have put listings for my washed, folded clean sheets on CL free to those who need them and I literally got 30 responses in the first day, some almost begging for my clean cast offs. You wouldn't think people would want them but there are plenty of folks in need that are just a step up from getting govt/city subsidized help. They also retain their pride in knowing that the pick up is anonymous and direct, not a hand out.
Great ideas! I have way too many mugs--people find out you are a tea drinker, and that is what you get for every gift giving occasion. As for the book pile-ups, Better World Books is another great site that takes book donations. Books that are donated to the public library are often passed on to a library friends group and then sold at book sales, which can be surprising to people who think their books will end up on the shelves. But these book sales are wonderful fundraisers for the library--so don't dismay and go ahead and donate with gusto!
Both my mom and my husband's mom are practically hoarders, so we try to make do with as little as possible. Whenever I get calls or flyers from local charities asking for donations, I always say yes. It's easy to find things you no longer need or use to give away, and where I live, they come to my house to pick it up. Too easy.
I also too disagree about getting rid of books!
I share Trisho's reuseable shopping bag problem. Just this last weekend I tossed dozens of shopping bags I'd saved up from Banana Republic, Gap, H&M, Sur La Table, Nordstrom, and about a half dozen other shops.
They're typically made out of such high-quality paper it almost hurts to get rid of 'em, but the truth is I almost NEVER reuse the things. They just sit in a pile somewhere until the paper is old, brittle and dusty, and then get discarded. I've been trying to learn to save only the very best of 'em, but clearly that hasn't worked particularly well.
I have way too many mugs
They can make nice pots for small plants, like those little succulents (just be careful not to overwater - you might want to drill a hole in the bottom for drainage). A collection of mugs with small plants inside of each can make for a visually arresting display, too (set them on little blocks of wood or some other material in order to vary their height).
If having a lot of books in your house is making you unhappy, get rid of some of them.
If having a lot of books in your house is making your happy, keep them.
Seriously, your home should make you happy. Who cares what someone on the internet thinks? It is your house - make it your home however you wish.
It seems that there are a lot of people getting quite defensive. If you actually reread the books, then they aren't clutter. If you make leftovers and store them, not clutter. etc etc. I think it's about collecting and owning more than you need and actually use.
Wait! Don't toss all of those old beauty products - remember that when you have old and/or broken eye shadows, blushes, etc, you can mix the pigments with clear nail polish for custom colors. I do it all the time, and it gives you wonderful variety in color and also, it's (sort of) recycling.
I hate people who insist on never getting rid of books. I realize there are the classics you may want to re read once or twice, but seriously? You have to hang on to ALL of them until you're dead? Is it a contest to show everyone who comes over how intellectual you are? Come on... Let go!
I've really been working on getting rid of stuff we have too much of, and I completely agree with the glasses. When my husband and I first moved out together, everyone decided we needed a million types of glasses, about 6 types of lowballs, martini, about 4 types of wine glasses with stems, one stemless, and 3 sets of champagne flutes. Really! I cringe at the Crown Royal gift pack with the 2 glasses included. No thanks.
I feel bad because my husbands grandmother is constantly trying to pass things on to us, usually things someone else has passed on to her like kitchen items, old towels, nick nacks, and I have to decline about 75% of the time and explain we just don't have the space for. And trust me, I've tried taking things and passing them along myself to others, but she always ends up asking us about it later! One thing she managed to force on us was a decorative Obama plate, now we like Obama alright, but seriously, what are we going to do with a decorative Obama plate? It's still sitting in the closet, waiting for a white elephant party to attend.
Please consider giving your unwanted, clean towels to your local animal shelter! They make soft beds for the critters. :)
Good grief, Lafferteezy: No, keeping books is not 'a contest to show everyone who comes over how intellectual you are'. None of my friends is quite that impressionable.
For 'books' substitute 'clothes/liquor glasses/sports geat/cooking equipment'. If you still use it and like having it around, you can keep whatever you want in your own living space.
I try to purge every year or so most of the books I know I'll never reread or don't have any intention on passing down to my kids (if I ever have any). I look at my bookcase right now and it puts a smile on my face seeing all those novels by Bradbury (RIP), P.K. Dick, Orwell, Vonnegut, Tolkien, and so on and so on. Hopefully my future generations will appreciate my dusty hardcovers. If not, oh well! I'll be an 80 year old man with the entire Harry Potter collection on his bookcase :) haha.
I generally agree with the post about having too much stuff - but I part company with what to do with some of it.
If you bought your makeup at Rite-Aid, I think you can return it if you've used it just once. If you've used it more than that, you can pass it on through Freecycle and keep it out of the landfill or it can be used for a volunteer makeup session at a retirement home.
For books, if you don't want to sell through Amazon, you can use a paperback swap organization.
Used towels, sheets and other bedding are good to donate to animal shelters; they're always looking for more. Or if you don't have an animal shelter in your area, keep some of your old items on hand to protect furniture during painting/remodeling work or to clean up afterward. I also use old, ratty T-shirts and other such things to stuff pillows or poufs.
I mentioned Freecycle above. Actually, you can pass on just about everything imaginable on Freecycle, with the exception of plants (due to pest/contamination risks) and copied media, such as old VCR tapes of shows (for legal reasons).
Good post overall. (Oh, and I hoard my travel sizes of shampoo, conditioner and soap. I'm always happy to have them the next time I travel, in case my hotel room is lacking something at an odd hour or in case I'm going somewhere where you don't get complimentary toiletries.)
Oh, I forgot to mention: some bookstores in your area may have Freebie boxes of cast-off books. Green Apple bookstore in San Francisco's Richmond District does this, typically for books that someone brings in to sell but that the store doesn't want, but perhaps you can put unwanted books there, too? (It's actually been about 5 yrs since I've been to that store, since I moved, but they used to keep the freebie box under one of their outdoor tables.) It'd be great if other bookstores in the U.S. did that, too.
We have lots of towels, and we reuse them. It's not unusual for us to have 10-15 people in our house, and laundry would be unmanageable if we didn't reuse bath and beach towels. I used to favour all white towels, but have found that colourful and patterned ones are much more practical when there are so many people in the house.
I declutter on a regular basis but this article has made me want to go on another round! I'm pretty sure I have too many towels, and those old sheets at the bottom of the linen closet that I keep "just in case"? I've never needed them in 5 years! My big problem is getting rid of clothes that I love but that just don't look good on me. Specially if I feel I could get good money for them: I just can't be bothered to take a picture of them and write a description...
I sell my unwanted books to a bookshop near Notre Dame (Paris) though and usually leave with up to €50, definitely worth it!
kitchen supplies and craft supplies are my weakness. I just started buying scrapbook paper for "someday". It's a sickness - I can't stop! Toiletries from motels - that's me! Saving my kids' sport t-shirts - yep, I'm going to make them quilts "someday". I am good with unloading books and magazines after I read to the honor rack at the library. My daughter just filled a bag for goodwill of all my duplicate kitchen items - I didn't even look - that's progress. I can't throw up - but the donating seems to be working for me. Wish me luck!
Hotel mini bottles of soaps and lotions are great for donating to women's shelters.
Am I the only person who owns one set of sheets? I wash them during the day or evening and remake the before i go to sleep. Why do I need a 2nd set?
It amazes me how many people have apparently never heard of the concept of "out of print." No, you can't always rebuy your favorite book whenever you want to reread it. No, not even on Amazon. Books are ephemera -- even today. And the vast majority aren't digitized.
And libraries -- have you been in one lately? Mine is good for Dan Brown, Tom Clancy, YA and picture books, and mass-market romance and mystery novels. Their digital selection is, if possible, worse.
I'm all for getting rid of momentary diversions that you forget as soon as you close the cover. Those go straight to my office (to be given away) or to the Strand (to sell for a pittance). I can't imagine keeping those. But books that you love, books you'll want to reread, old printings? Why would you get rid of those just so you can have the approval of someone on the internet?
CASEYINTO : Well, maybe because you have the space to - and feel it is eco-friendly to - dry your washing in the air, not in a machine.
I thought the pictures at the top were of water bottles and was surprised when it wasn't listed. I took a second look and now see that it is lotions, but my family definitely has too many re-useable water bottles and thermoses! I mean really, how many do you need? I'd say one hot and one cold for each member of the family. I should do some paring down this weekend!
I have shed a lot of unwanted extras in the following ways...
vases - local convalescent home and seniors' residences (often people get flowers without vases)
towels and sheets - local vet's clinic
the dreaded 'bag of bags' - when full, the bag goes to the local Sally Ann or charity shop... they are especially happy to get sturdy bags with handles, either paper or plastic
winter woolies (and big pieces of fleece for which I have no plan - cut the fleece into generous scarves or shawls and bag them up with the woolies (thick socks, hats, mitts and gloves) and give them (in winter) to the director of one of our local inner city community centres which serves a lot of poor, near-homeless and homeless folk who often turn up very inadequately dressed in our brutal winters... they're happy to have something to grab and give and treat it as recycling 'lost' items to save face
magazines in good shape - hospital volunteer auxiliary
teen magazines - local mental health outpatient clinic waiting room
unwanted furniture - local community email newsletter - lots of great recycling
I really like SueDC's idea of recycling sheets and domestic supplies on CL... more purging to be done in that department and I'll likely do that...
who doesn't use towels for a week? Even in hotels I try to keep the room service from switching my towels every day, it's such a huge waste.
I'm one of the people who eats leftovers because I hate throwing food away. Everyone who talks about bad economy but throws food away doesn't deserve any better.
I went back and reread the section on books. The suggestion was to "Cull your collection." Nothing was said about not having any books. If a person cannot get rid of any, so be it. I used to be one of those people, but I now want to "cull" some of my collection so I can find the books I truly love. Hopefully in the process, no matter the means I use to get rid of the books I no longer want (trade, sell, give away), they will bless someone else's intellect as they have mine. I'm going for balance on this, too, and suspect because I used to have a big barrier against getting rid of books, this is an area I need to reflect on a lot. I am not ready for an e-reader yet, however, and there are some books I will keep for many years to come. In the long run (if two or so years is the long run), I want to move to a smaller place and I do not want that space cluttered so I will be culling my book collection, judiciously and with great care for my book-loving soul.
I just had an enormous yard sale and it was amazing! I know not everyone has a driveway, but if you do have a place or can horn in on a street sale somewhere else, it is very freeing. It is a lot of work, but a fun way to spend a morning, and the best part is your stuff walks away on its own steam - no hauling carloads of junk to Salvation Army or the dump. The resellers will also cart crap furniture out of your place directly, for free, like my old Billy bookcases that were dismantled and had seen better days.
I had a big "FREE" box with all my interior dec magazines with pages torn out and other odds and ends (unused lightbulbs, etc) and that all went too...a good way to get rid of hotel toiletries without flushing them.
Your mindset has to be that "it all must go" though ... you can't get ebay prices, you have to be willing to let your stuff walk away for a couple of bucks. In the end I cleared about $300 AND only had one carload of stuff to haul away. Perfect day.
We live in a small building of ten condos. Only three are lived in full-time - the rest are used a vacation apartments. This topic has inspired me to put a box or something in the communal laundry saying "please help yourself'. If people are on vacation, things like paperbacks would probably be welcome.
Good post. I too have far more bottles of perfume/cologne than I could ever use up.
Am I the only person who owns one set of sheets? I wash them during the day or evening and remake the before i go to sleep. Why do I need a 2nd set?
Clearly you don't have pets. Or children. And you don't have to wait for machines to open up at a laundromat. And you have a dryer.
@caseyinto, not just you, I have one set of sheets for my queen size bed. Though if you want to get technical I actually have two set of sheets, the second set is for my full size bed in the guest room.
@helanother o, how much space are you referring to? I have 750 sq feet space and will hang my laundered sheets on a drying rack in the morning and then throw the still slightly damp sheets into the dryer in the evening when I return from work.
@sunspot42, I have pets and I admit a second set of sheets would have been very nice when they threw up/peed on my bed at 2 am. Fortunately these unfortunate incidents are rare, though mainly because nothing wakes me up faster from dead of sleep than the sound of a heaving cat with enough time to put them on the floor right before they upchuck.
Instead of buying new mini toiletry bottles for travelling, save the free ones you received and fill them from your big bottles at home before you leave.
Instead of recycling the lidless tupperware, use it to organize junk drawers. Reuse is always better than recycling, which is still a rather wasteful process.
For books, think of it this way: if you're not going to read it again, letting it sit on your shelf is preventing someone else from reading it or causing them to go out and buy another copy, creating more waste. Honestly, will the trendy book of the moment mean that much to you in a year? Sell it to a used bookstore quickly and you'll get a better price for an in-demand item, or give it to a colleague and gain a conversation topic.
For anything else that you're hesitating to get rid of: pack it away in a box and set a time limit (1 month, 6 moths, 1 year depending on the type of item). If you don't go looking for it before that time limit is up then you *know* you don't actually need it.
Amaranta: One vase per every 23 square feet? I declare you the winner.
I have too many pajamas. I don't know how that even happens. (And, yes, I have an office job to which I do not wear pajamas.)
I've seen several comments about lack of space to hang towels. We've found if you ditch the towel rods and go with Shaker Pegs or hooks, you can fit a LOT more towelage in a limited space and it will still dry. Well, as long as you don't live is a super humid location and as long as the bathroom is reasonably well ventilated. In the space of one towel bar you can get at least 4-5 well spaced hooks. I always make sure I have the hooks on a board or base plaque so that I can be sure it's well attached to a stud or several wall anchors. Usually the screw holes that the towel bar was using work just fine and you don't have new holes to deal with patching later.
And as an added bonus, it's a lot easier to get kids and/or partners to hang a towel on a hook rather than stuff/drape it over a bar.
Wait...there are actually people who use a new towel every day? Like, outside of hotels? Why?
I know people who get a new towel every single day. I have no idea why...one didn't even have a single towel bar in their bathroom. They had very expensive towels that wouldn't last very long, because of all the washing.
Regarding books: there's nothing like a good (real) book, but there is such a thing as "book clutter." If you're not going to ever look at a particular book again, why keep it? Perhaps I've watched too many episodes of Hoarders, but it seems like a better idea to pass things on if they don't add beauty, enjoyment, etc. to life. To me, already-read books on the shelf do not equal knowledge; the knowledge is in my head.
For flower vases: Donate to churches or hospitals since they often give homebound flowers
For hotel soaps,shampoo: Donate to food banks, since food stamps don't buy soAp of any kind.
For books: GoodWill receives so many books in FL they have special bookstores. The perfect place to shop for a beach read!
I have been known to clutter my space, but I have been overcoming it thanks, in part, to watching a few episodes of hoarders. My main takeaway is that, unless you have pretty severe financial problems, most of the things you own but never use you can probably afford to get rid of now and then just replace anything ACTUALLY wanted as the need arises. It may seem wasteful, but to me it is more than worth the extra money I may spend on replacing a notebook it turned out I wanted, than to live in a house full of junk (even if it is awesome junk). And since I donate just about everything, SOMEONE is going to be using it, so everybody wins.
One other thing I've started doing to avoid collecting junk is just use my phone's camera. I love thrift stores asian stationary shops, but if I see some really awesome sheets that don't match anything else I have, or a mug that won't fit in my already completely mug-saturated home, or a sheet of Japanese stickers of dog butts, I just take a picture instead of buying it. That way, it sort of feels like I acquired it, but without spending the money or cluttering up my home. It is a lot cheaper and cleaner to keep my collection of insanely awesome thrift store finds and goofy/cute Japanese stuff on my G+ photo album than in my apartment.
Other than that, I toss toiletries, donate almost everything else to Goodwill, and give the hand towels to the local bird sanctuary (when avian vets examine birds, they use towels with velcro straps sewn onto them to subdue the birds just like little straight jackets. it is ADORABLE).
I DO NOT LIKE READING ON MY KINDLE. I just don't. Hmmmph
Also, who the heck uses a new towel for after every shower?!?!?!?! I have never known anyone who does this....!
@Lizae: I find that having white towels seems to encourage guests and family to only use towels once - must be the hotel associations, and also people can't be bothered to keep track of their own towel if it's not easily distinguishable. Easier to grab a clean one each time.
"I hate people who insist on never getting rid of books." Really? Makes me wonder whom I hate. Uh...nobody. Hate: now, that's real clutter.
Good suggestions. I recently purged quite a bit just by asking myself when was the last time I used something, what is the likelihood that I will use it anytime soon, and was it worth the space it occupied. Getting rid of the clutter has definitely made my home feel more open and inviting.
Also, I love my books too, but if you are unlikely to ever reread (or even read) a book, watch a DVD, or listen to a CD, donate it to the library. Then you can check it out whenever you want and regain some of your space.
RE: books
You don't loan out books you have enjoyed? It is a pleasure to have shelves of books read and unread. Those that I don't get around to reading again can be lent to those who share my interests. I find it rewarding to lend books to friends who would likewise find them informative or funny or well-written or whatever it is that recommends them.
RE: having not more than one glass per person around (very efficient!). Consider that we eat not only with our mouths and tongues but with our eyes. And a well-set table invites us to enjoy -- even or especially if it's set for just one or two.
@THE_ASP: Well put. What an inspiration you are. I'm striving to be that self disciplined.
Good article! I really need to do a purge of my kitchen gadgets, but I'm dreading it.
Just as far as the makeup part goes, though...
You really don't want to consult with a makeup person at the counter in a department store. Most of the people selling in a department store want to sell you the absolute maximum amount of product they can get you to leave with. For anyone who already might be lacking in their knowledge about makeup products, they're likely to get taken advantage of. You'd be much better off to read some minimal makeup guides online, and then go into a store with a list of what you're looking for and stick to the list.
Everyone is different, but most people who want to be fully prepared, but still keep their makeup collection small can get away with owning just a foundation, a light powder (or concealer), a mascara, a dual eyeshadow or small eyeshadow kit, and a lip gloss.
The part about throwing the older stuff away is SO IMPORTANT, so thanks for including that!
living in the city, we put anything we dont want on the stoop with a 'free' sign. almost always gone by end of day. we try to purge regularly, but still have more stuff than I'd like.
besides homeless shelters & food pantries for most of your donation needs, old sheets, towels & blankets are much wanted at animal rescue places.
To do list for this weekend:
Replace all tupperware with one set of pyrex. Donate all paper books that are duplicated on Ibook library. Purge mismatched coffee mugs (why do 2 people, 1 who doesnt even drink coffee, need 22 mugs?). Combine all body lotions, body washes, and hair product samples into larger bottles. Donate towels and sheets to animal shelter.
Check! Thanks for condensing this list for me!
I often look at my bookshelves after reading this site and wonder what an interior decorator would say about the two 6 foot tall bookshelves that dominate our living area and are filled with mostly paperbacks. They would probably want me to get rid of them or turn them around or color coordinate them, because they aren't that visually appealing. But when I'm bored and looking for something to read, I want to go to my sci-fi shelf or my classics shelf, or my children's book shelf and find what I feel like. Books are my entertainment, my friends and companions. I have read some of the paperbacks on my shelves at least a dozen times (and the living room isn't alone, we have books in every room in the house), and I will read them again and again, because books are for reading, not for looking nice or impressing people. Books are what my husband and I love. There are a million things I have too much of, things I need to purge, and certainly a few unloved books here and there, but as far as I am concerned, I have too few books, certainly not too many.
Thank you for this wonderful topic. This weekend I will be purging vases, perfumes, cosmetics, linens, kitchen extras, books... All will go to animal or homeless shelters. For those of you that have thought about selling your discards but haven't, please think about donating them to charity. You can claim them on your income taxes and benefit nicely from it. Maybe even better than what you could make at a yard sale, without all of the time and effort.
There certainly has been some negative comments here about books, glasses, linens...
If you're happy having those things, keep them. This article is meant for peeps that are trying to get rid of clutter. It's not a rule of thumb on what people should own and what to get rid of. It has wonderful suggestions to spark the minds of some of us that need to purge.
Two sets of towels, two sets of sheets, one duvet cover.
I use a bath towel for a few days, and I dry on a rack.
However, I am insistent about fresh kitchen towels.
I clean with cloth rags.
Books in control but always watched.
Glasses, I surrendered to my partner who has collections of shot glasses, coffee mugs and what not. I did get them out of the main cabinet. A small victory.
Vases, I have one, that I want to give away to someone who appreciates pinks, so I can get a different one - from a thrift shop.
I am clearing closets now, and am looking for something more interesting than a duvet cover for some beloved Tshirts.
Luckily, I have a friend who loves my clothes and loves my purges.
Let some of it go if you know you can replace it at the dollar or discount store.
I'm terrible about books -- I try to get rid of them, but always buy more. and I have a couple of stuffed kindles that I love to travel with ... Lots of sheet sets ...but not many fancy glasses -- when we lived in France we learned from locals with vineyards not to care much about the glass, but about the wine itself, so I never had to worry and fret over having the "Correct " glass. I looked at my linen cupboard and donated the older towels to the animal shelter --my vet suggested it.
I think books will always be a problem for me, tho.
A lot of good suggestions and comments here . I reuse my fancy shopping bags by packing them with clothes for Goodwill. I try to keep my clothes to a certain minimum, but again, love to buy new togs, so donating keeps me in balance. I also swap clothes with friends.
I enjoyed this very much. I'm someone who has always been a hoarder, misplacing sentimentality on inanimate objects, although recognising it isn't the same as dealing with it. I feel relief when something breaks and needs to be binned!
Our council does a cleanup of large items twice a year, although most items are taken before council gets there. I've put out bags of coathangers with this knowing that although council won't take them, someone else will.
I bought a kobo a couple of years ago and am slowly replacing the paper books with the ebooks. *I recognise that I love the words or the story*, and don't need the paper. I'm down from 3 full bookcases to 1, with about 400 ebooks. The only books I won't replace are ones where pictures matter - for me, they are cookbooks and crafts.
Oh, and I think the comment about DVD's is also about right - also CD's. I've put most of my music on my Ipod, and stored the CD's (without the cases) to hide the clutter. I still need to work though my very old casettes - my plan is to pick out the favourite tunes on each tape and replace via itunes.
Using our wedding china and silver for everyday is the only way we could possibly fit everything into our teeny kitchen. And frankly, I'd never go back to using "everyday" dishes. Things don't break so often that you're going to run out of "the good stuff." Use it! Yes, just for yourself!
@ BKHOMEBODY I just found that I have two more!
Am I the only bibliophile that hates owning books? In my BK (Before Kindle) days I mostly read books in the bookstore. On the few occasions I purchased one, since I just couldn't wait to finish it, I turned right around and left it at a tea shop or on the Metro within a day or two. There are a few titles I'd feel sad not to own, like Alice in Wonderland or copies of books whose authors I know, but the physical object of a book always seemed more like a burden than a pleasure.
Even now, I wish there was a way I could "cross off" books on the Kindle that I've already read.
As a bachelor who will be forced to downsize from a one bedroom to a studio, I already only have one set of sheets, three towels, 2 glasses and I use glad storage bowels to serve my meals out of (usually no leftovers...) I need a bottle of hair and body soap for the gym - and I usually buy the same size and type bottle for home and just pour more in when my gym bottle is running low. I have started breaking out in acne at 53, so I am indulging in some wash with Salicylic Acid in it. Vases I don't have. Books I will purge. I have turned to Mog.Com and YouTube for some of my music. But downsizing my music collection (as a composer) is problematic - you need the liner notes and performer listings for classical music, not to mention original cast recordings.
When I'm writing I still need a gel pen. I recommend a Pilot B2P (bottle 2 pen) brand where you can replace the empties and reuse the clear shell. I'm even getting rid of my 3 piece sectional sofa to make room for a studio size piano...PRIORITIES people!
I have 4 towels and a TON of glasses. And two tons of sample sized beauty products that I'll likely never use up. Fun to see everyone's hoarding tendencies.
Who needs glasses for wine? I drink wine straight from the bottle! No need to wash a glass AND the empty bottle does double duty as a candle holder (for using up all these stinky candles!) AND as a flower vase! LOL! Just kidding!
But seriously, all great ideas and totally true. I helped a friend move recently and he had 8 staplers, over 20 almost new rolls of scotch tape, countless note pads never used (or had only one or two pages written on), 6 pocket calculators, a billion paper clips... ADDICTED to office supplies. At firsat it was funny. Then I felt a bit queasy!!! LOL!
Animal shelters and vets love the donation of old towels.
Thank you so much you mentioned hangers. I replaced a couple of months all my hangers with thick black wire ones and the closet looks fantastic. My friends thought i was crazy. You just justified my action.
Books can be sent to forces overseas - paperbacks, things you think the lads and lasses will want to read and pass around. They like paperbacks they can put in their pockets. They share them around.
sorry - must draw the line on books. never too many books (as long as you have a place for them) :-)
To all the sheets and towels minimalists out there: whilst I agree that there is no need for cupboards stuffed full of linen, I think you are missing the fact that people *don't own a dryer*. Try that with one set of sheets and 2 towels, and see how you go.
For donating books to troops, check out: http://www.operationpaperback.org/
Nail polish and conditioner. Good lord- I am a sucker.
oh no... ive never really been diagnosed but... i think im ocd! i dont have any of those 12 things in huge stores, only whatever i need... i am an ocd, oh no...
but living five-adults-under-one-roof in a 92sq metres govenment designated housing does mean less good living standard, less quality, less choices. i shall feel normal about not having stash of whatever the 12 items are, only those i need to use from time to time... sigh.. is not my choice i am a sardine.
Old shampoo and lotion bottles can be used to help cut down on paper product usage. Take the lid off, clean them out and just add a drop or two of liquid soap inside them, fill them with water, and wash your tush with them after using the restroom. Who needs fancy toilet attachments to have a clean bottom? Pat dry with a hand towel. If you washed your bottom in the shower you would do the same! Say NO to toilet paper!
This is so helpful for me! I was married just last year and after combining two households, we have been trying to go through so much crap to figure out what we really need to have. Having two dining rooms sets, 20 towels, double double double everything! Thanks a bunch for this post :)
As an author, I love books. My idea of heaven is going to a bookshop and immersing myself for hours. BUT I've come to culling my book collection, particularly on novels. There are of course, some books that you just know you need to keep. Having reduced my collection by 50% I'll sit with that for a while and see how it goes. Then in 6 months, revisit the collection again and see if there's more than can go.
Clutter I'm glad I have 'hoarded' over the years:
Vintage clothes that belonged to myself or other family members that my kids enjoy wearing
Antique linens that I use every day, and wash beautifully
Linn Sondek turntable and my vinyl collection, even compilation tapes (again, of interest to my kids now)
Pokemon cards that will be ebayed soon - the early ones are now quite collectable
Children's school work and art work (selected pieces, of course). I recently looked through one of my son's old school books with him - it was a great reminder of happy events and friends from his childhood.
Antique books that are lovely objects
Old kitchen tools/equipment/glass - lovely, well-designed things like the zig-zag corkscrew and champagne coupes that I no longer see in the shops
Corks that have marked birthdays and other special occasions - they sit in a giant wine glass in my kitchen, and remind me of happy times
A post on how people organise their sentimental clutter would be more useful for me!
Thoughts -
-Thrift stores & consignment shops are often very glad to receive your old hangers.
-Those of us in humid environments find that our towels may smell mustier faster than we like, but still not every day!
If you enjoy entertaining you will need more of some items and less of others. When I make coffee for just myself and my hubby I use a French. I use the machine for the guests we entertain. Likewise, we have a set of Ikea dinnerware for ourselves and a set for when we entertain. Actually, everything is doubled in function if not in quanity because we enjoy entertaining. I have been using glass for storage for years simply because it is free. After the pickles are gone or the jams or little bottles of saffron it is easy enough to wash them and use them for storage. I store leftovers in a bowl with the lid being a saucer or salad plate or even a large plate. I don't own a microwave because I use a steamer. I love pyrex. I have my mother's pyrex measuring cup and I remember learning to measure flour with it when I was less than 10 years old; I am 62 now.
I once lived for a year in an unfurnished apartment. Then I had one sautee pan, one 1-quart pot, 1 mug, one plate, one fork, one steak knife, one spoon. I had no hangers, but I did have a blanket and a comforter that served as my bed. At first it was disconcerting but soon I realized I was really comfortable. Since that time I buy only what I need when I need it.
By the way, if you have vases you don't want to keep, take them to the florist and have the vase filled with flowers. Then you will want them. I have kept 6 vases of various sizes. I cart them over to the florist about 5 days before we entertain, with my order and then pick up my order on the day of the evening we will entertain again. Likewise the butcher and dry cleaner. I support individually owned businesses. The result is that a few very well made things that were expensive initially end up being the same few very well made things that manage years if not decades of service. That brings the cost down significantly. For example, the hand crocheted table cloth my mother made in 1968-69 still is used and still is beautiful.
My advice: buy the best you can afford and treat it as if it is one of a kind. Replace the wood shelves in your linen closet with glass and use acid free paper to wrap seldom used things with.
People own more than one sheet set??? Seriously?!
OK, I joke ... but, I've never seen the need to have more than ONE -- unless you want to switch off summer cotton for winter flannel (Canadian ...)
For my entire life, I've only ever owned three sheet sets TOTAL ... one up to age 10, one for 11 to 17, and one from 18 to now. The sheets are washed, dried, and returned to bed within the span of 1.5 hours -- designated wash days. ... Having anything more is excess.
@enialedam : Are you serious? There ARE people who prefer to air dry their laundry (it's eco-friendly and makes for fresher laundry) so two sets per bed is the minimum. Okay, on a sunny summer day you could wash in the morning, hang them outside (if you have a garden) and put back in the bed in the evening. But realistically, I could not live with just one set per bed for a long period of time. And I pretty much have the bare necessities only.
I think people who try to convince others that books aren't important enough to keep don't really appreciate books. For book lovers it's an unimaginable thing to consider.
Voracious reader here - but nearly everything I read I get from the public library. I am extremely fortunate to have access to unlimited interlibrary loan, and nearly every book I request (online, of course) is available within 2-3 days, as fast as I would get it from Amazon. Some requests, for very new/popular titles, might take as much as a week to ten days, but I have no shortage of books to read in the meantime.
I would conservatively estimate that I save the equivalent of a car payment each month by not buying every book I read. I do own some books, but they are nearly all non-fiction books that I reference frequently. I used to have a huge (100+?) cookbook collection, but now that I get most of my recipes online, I only have Mark Bittman's, the French Laundry (too pretty to give up), and a couple bread machine books (they were gifts from my husband, or I would have ditched them by now).
Radical answer: Cars. If you live in a reasonably metropolitan area with decent transit service and you trade in one car for a bike to supplement transit, you'll give yourself an annual raise of over $9,000 (AAA figure for annual cost of operating a typical sedan). Since few of us are getting $9K raises in this economy, it's something to consider seriously if the main purpose of your car is to move you from one location where you store it at night to another where you pay to store the vehicle all day before it moves you home again.
On a smaller scale:
Candlesticks.
Underwear that would shame your mother if you were in a car wreck and went to the emergency room.
Gift bags/wrapping paper.
Try looking at your things as if you're about to pack and move and getting rid of everything you wouldn't bother to take to a new place. That will purge some stuff!
There was another apartment therapy article that said you can send too many old books to 1dollarscan and they will scan your books so you don't have to donate them. You keep your space still and the books that way.
And I hate those small size item things as suggested, they just clutter everything and never get used all the way.
I own a decent-sized quality wardrobe, have over a hundred movies, over a hundred cds, but the buck stops there and even then I purge often. I own one set of high-quality Egyptian cotton sheets, seven nice-quality cotton bath towels and just enough nice-quality cookware. Some people have lots of stuff, some, like me, don't. The problem comes in when a person starts to hoard (meaning they collect and collect and never use what they collect), and they don't know when to stop, and the house is uninhabitable. That, my friends, is not a healthy way to live. The point is, we are all different, but as long as it doesn't venture into unhealthy hoarding, it's o.k.
@mizlandry, my master bathroom doesn't have a door, and the towel rod is broken (i rent), so I just put an 'over the door' towel rack on the inside of one of the bedroom doors.
i disagree about the books - and i ESPECIALLY disagree about switching to an e-reader. everything else i could toss.
There is no such thing as too many books.
We have a tower of towels: it is kind of a feature of our bathroom.
We have a son and lot of friends with children and dogs coming over. There is always need for an extra towel or two. Next to that, when I've showered and soaped up and rinsed, the last of my BO goes into my towel. I am clean, but the towel isn't reusable anymore after that. So that is why I have to use a fresh towel every day.
Plus we do not have the room for a dryer since we live small and wash every other day because we air dry and otherwise have no room for the next wash on our balcony.
Books? Really? Don't you reread books? Sure, there are things that I'll toss onto my Kindle, but how do you deal with footnotes unless it's a dead tree book? And what about cookbooks? Books is where you lost me... (And I think I may sin by having more than 2 sets of sheets for each bed. Navy blue sheets are impossible to look at during a Southern summer...)
I agree about the books!!!
Books are great, however I cannot understand why you would read a book that is out in film format.. Books v Films? Films win
and possibly nappy cakes