So I decided to go back through this beloved book, as an adult, and see if there were any gems of organizing wisdom that would be applicable to us grown-up, non-bear types. Here's what I found.
1. "You really can't have fun or relax in a room that's such a terrible mess."
All is not well in the treehouse on the sunny dirt road deep in Bear Country. Brother and Sister Bear's refusal to take responsibility for the escalating mess in their room causes a bit of an altercation when Mama Bear, fed up with always picking up after her messy kids, threatens to throw everything away. In the midst of the storm, in comes Papa bear with these words of wisdom. Are you guilty? I'm guilty of living in an increasingly messy house, endlessly rationalizing. "I'm really busy right now." "This is just the way I live." But cleaning your room (or your house) really will make you more relaxed and happy. Papa Bear knows.
2. Sometimes, it's good to get rid of things.
While Mama Bear doesn't end up throwing away all of the cubs' things, there are a few items that make the throwaway box. You probably don't have any crumbling, falling-apart bird's nests, but you might still be hanging on to a few things you could stand to get rid of.
3. A place for everything…
…and everything in its place. You know the drill. Nothing illustrates this more dramatically than the before and after of Brother and Sister Bear's fictional room. Just look at it — puppets and sporting goods on the pegboard, art hung neatly on the wall, dinosaurs on their own special dinosaur shelf. Genius.
4. Make it pretty.
I'm not gonna lie — my very favorite part of this book was the lovely, pastel-colored boxes that seemed to nest perfectly into the cubs' closet. Years later, I still get a trace of that same satisfaction when I go to Ikea or the Container Store and see all their beautiful storage solutions. Sometimes I feel it when I look at my own closet. You probably like pretty things, too, or you wouldn't be reading a design site. So go the extra mile, maybe spend a little extra money to make your storage systems lovely to look at. Cleaning up will be that much more satisfying.
5. Label everything.
It doesn't really help if all your stuff is neatly nested into boxes in the closet if you can't figure out which one your favorite sweater is in and have to open all 52 of them. I credit this book with my near-fanatical need to label every piece of storage in my house. It's a huge help.
6. Pegboards are totally boss.
Papa hangs one in the cubs' room. I was jealous of that pegboard for years. Fortunately, pegboards have plenty of grown-up applications, like in the kitchen and home office. Here's a step-by-step DIY for installing one.
7. Have a 'stuff' box.
I find that the hardest things to put away are the little things, the random things that don't seem to fit anywhere. It makes me miss the days when my sisters and I would 'clean up' by dumping everything into the cabinets in our toy kitchen (the sink lifted off to allow for top-loading, a convenience I could really use in my adult kitchen). Papa Bear, who, it would seem, is some kind of organizational guru, has the same idea — besides all the carefully labeled boxes, there's also a huge one that just says 'toys'. If you find yourself constantly struggling with where to put the random, left-out things, a junk drawer or 'stuff' box can be a real life-saver. Whatever it is, toss it in the box — instant clean. If you find that things aren't getting used and are in perpetual limbo in the junk drawer — well, see #2.
8. "A little organization, and a few rules."
Papa Bear doesn't have a monopoly on room-cleaning wisdom. This gem comes from Mama Bear, who recognizes that even if you make a mighty effort to organize your house, you'll still have to do something to maintain it or everything will just revert back to chaos. While you've still got that post-organizing glow, think about developing a few cleaning routines that will keep your space looking spic and span.
And then, sit back, open up a beer, and enjoy your newly decluttered space. Papa and Mama Bear would be proud.
(Images: Stan and Jan Berenstain in The Berenstain Bears and the Messy Room)






Howard Butcher Bloc...
I LOVED this book as a kid. Right up there with The Berenstain Bears and Too Much Junk Food. Used to own several of the books and wish I still had them. Thank you so much for the memories.
Nancy, this post just brought back a FLOOD of memories. My younger brother and I definitely had this book as children, and I loved how neat and tidy everything looked, and the collection of boxes. Wonderful post with wise words that are still totally relevant. :)
OH, I used to read and re-read this all the time when I was a kid. Seeing it again is like stepping into a time machine! Thank you for the post, and the relevant commentary on a classic.
Wow, i loved this book as a kid. Great memories and some very smart lessons even for adults. I'm one of those hyper organized people, even as a child, and I loved that last page where everything is in labelled boxes. Yes I am weird and my sister is the exact opposite (she's a total slob) so I have no idea where I get it from.
We read this book all the time! My kids love the B bears!
Love this!!!
I <3 that book! Granted, I did not use it as inspiration to clean as a child--I merely felt superior that my room had not reached that level of mess. But it might be worth a revisit!
Too cute! Great post!
-Trish
YES!!! I have always loved to clean and organize, but I have to be in the mood. I would always flip through this book for inspiration. Worked every time.
Oh, I used to LOVE that book! I too, felt similarly about their adorably organized new room. Plus, I loved that picture with Brother Bear enjoying a book, cookies, and a glass of milk with his feet up. That's good living. :)
I remember wanting to label a bunch of boxes after reading this book!!
Great memories of that book!
Love that the top two boxes in the orderly closet are called "Storage". Perhaps those are the junk drawers of the closet.
This is inspiring me to install a peg board in the garage.
I love this book and remember very vividly the illustration of Mama Bear stepping in some glue.
I didn't have this book when I was growing up, but a story similar. The boy in the story refused to clean his room; it got so bad his door couldn't be opened and his mom had to give him food through the window on the end of a garden rake. The morning he woke up with Lego imprints on his face, he decided to do something about it.
Sharing a room with two siblings definitely taught us the advantages of a clean room!
We try to use this book to inspire our kids (ages 7 and 3) -- probably works about as well as it did for JulieKohler's parents, but hey....
By the by, I hope you got copyright permission to reprint such a huge chunk of that book.
@pbsteele - Mrs. Piggle-Wiggle! I LOVED those books. messy room eh - the best was the girl who didn't want to shower, so her parents planted RADISH SEEDS in the dirt on her skin.
pbsteele - I think that is one of the Mrs. Piggle Wiggle stories!
I loved that B Bears book when I was young! Will have to look for it @ the library for my kids!
Oh my goodness...this book is genius, this post is genius--my sister and I were both inspired by the B. Bears from a young age as well! It was a joy to read this; think I need to go find a copy of this book!
Seeing these images reminded me why I loved these books - and even what I remember thinking when I was a kid - if you look closely at the illustrations, you'll notice that it's the same toys in the messy room and in the clean one. They didn't just draw any old toy, no, they drew the exact same dinos, paintings, puppets... Incredible attention to detail.
But I was a weird kid, too, who noticed (and I guess appreciated) little things like that.
Personally, I'm more inspired by The Berenstain Bears Clean House ;)
I loved Berenstain bears books but they always always make me think of the dentists office. Ours always had a big stack of them so while I liked to read them, bad juju associated with them for me :)
This may be one of my favorite posts ever on AP! So much good stuff here and bonus points for bringing me down memory lane. The BB books were staples in my house growing up, and I love that many of the lessons contained within still apply today. The author should be commended for using a recognizable kid favorite to convey her point. Well done!
Whenever we have "too much" of anything, it gets recast as "Berenstain bears and too much...." Stuff is a common word to replace those ellipses.
We read that book around here a lot! :-)
Great post!! We've been reading the BB non-stop around here lately but have not got to the Messy Room yet!
Love this post!
I used to have the movie version of this and I totally loved it! I've often used it as organizational inspiration. I wish I still had that old VHS... And a VCR.
You know, THIS is the awesome kind of post I want to see more of on AT. (And less about putting water on your cell phone camera lens, etc.)
These were my absolute favorite books growing up - I had them all! Remember the back covers where they had pictures of all the books? Messy Room was by far my favorite one, and I think an early influence on my love for home design and organization. It doesn't get better than Mama Bear's perfectly organized pickling jars in the treehouse basement...
@friendlykathleen I think the use of the book is probably okay under the fair use doctrine.
Loved those books as a kid, and I really enjoyed the post. The reminder about peg boards is very timely for me as I am about to move to an apartment with a much smaller kitchen!
Jan and Stan Berenstain donated their characters to the Pennsylvania Dept. of Transportation for their anti-littering campaign in the mid 1990's and as an intern I had the immense honor to meet the Berenstains in their home. They're a beautiful couple with a serene aura that immediately relaxes you. Stan told stories about their early collaboration with Theodor Geisel aka Dr. Suess, who had some extreme ideas about storytelling for children, like when brother bear misbehaved, papa bear would then pick up a tree and whack his son with it. Not surprising Jan and Stan vetoed that idea. They credited Geisel's wife for reining in Theodor's creativity for more mainstream appropriateness.
I loved the Berenstain Bears but did not even pick up on that connection between the organization in this particular book and my desire for it in my adult life! As a child I did have bouts of wanting to spend the whole day cleaning, organizing and re-arranging my bedroom though. I totally have to now go buy the whole series again!
My favorite BB books are:
- This one
- The BB Get the Gimmees
- The BB No Girls Allowed
- The BB and Too Much Birthday
- The BB Week at Grandmas
Although it really is hard to pick. Such great books and "lessons" for kids. Mama's New Job was also a favorite because I loved all the quilt designs. And female empowerment!
Gods, I remember obsessing over the remade closet when I was very young -- and I knew that that was the way I wanted things to be.
@Presh: Likely not. Is the purpose of the publication of this educational rather than for-profit? No. AT makes money from its content by way of ads. Is the purpose of this post to create a satire of the original work used? No. It is, in fact, an homage to the original work.
I'm sure the lawyers at AT are busy getting the appropriate permissions for use of this original work and will promptly post the legally required notification of permission pronto.
I remember BEGGING my parents to put a peg board in my room after reading this book as a kid. They didn't do it and now 25 years later I place the blame solely on them for the state of my messy closet.
I believe this would fall under fair use. Yes there are ads but they aren't selling copies of this page or of the picture.
Anyway, where did the pictures come from and why does the text look so weird?
Fantastic post! That book totally started it for me. Also inspirational: "Groom Your Room" from the American Girl Dolls company.
Pegboard isn't just for kids and garages! I just did a post on my blog about how I use one to hang necklaces in my room!
Love the Bears...recently ordered a different one to help a little friend with some scary stuff.
What I hate about reorganizing is that just when I get it mostly done, everything in its place, in its right sized and right styled containers (it takes me a few years), then it is time to move, and then I have to start over, not everything finds its use in a new home, closets and storage areas are shaped differently, containers don't fit. Sigh. Maybe it is time to settle down and stay put...but life seems to take me different places.
this post is SO fabulous, it should be the foundation for a whole series of "what was your childhood inspiration?" ... I realize that I strongly connect to the suave kitchen prep moves of chef Snoopy and Woodstock in "A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving" --I think I'm always striving to have that much of a routine whenever I'm in the kitchen.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7-fCt1nitmk
and then Albert's lunch in "Bread and Jam for Frances" always makes me want to be quite fancy and completely prepared in any picnic situation:
"He took a bite of the sandwich, a bite of pickle,
a bite of hard-boiled egg, and a drink of milk.
Then he sprinkled more salt on the egg and went round again.
Albert made the sandwich, the pickle,
the egg, and the milk come out even.
He ate his bunch of grapes and his tangerine.
Then he cleared away the crumpled-up waxed paper,
the eggshell, and the tangerine peel.
He set the cup custard in the middle of the napkin on his desk.
He took up his spoon and at up all the custard.
Then Albert folded up his napkins and put them away.
He put away his cardboard saltshaker and his spoon.
He screwed the cup on top of his thermos bottle.
He shut his lunch box,
put it back inside his desk, and sighed.
'I like to have a good lunch,' said Albert."
http://mindfulmomma.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Bread-and-Jam-for-Francis.jpg
Powerful stuff, those primary kid memories!