Last year after Christmas I tried to take two Dutch ovens with me on the plane in my carry-on suitcase. One had been a gift, and the other was a purchase, and I thought that putting them in my carry-on would be the safest way to transport them back to New York. This seemed like a good plan until I tried to go through security...
...where I discovered that Dutch ovens are considered potential weapons. "You could throw them at another passenger," the TSA agent told me. I tried to explain that even if I wanted to throw it at someone, it'd take me 15 minutes just to get the suitcase down from the overhead compartment in order to remove the Dutch oven, unwrap it from its three layers of sweaters, empty all the socks and t-shirts stuffed in the cavity, only to then throw it at someone. Did she seriously think I was likely to do that?
Well, apparently she did, because she confiscated both my Dutch ovens.* (To her credit, in that moment I really did want to throw something, so she wasn't completely off base.)
Physical gifts are wonderful, but sometimes they're just not practical (if you have to transport it long distances) or desired (as some people don't want any more stuff). Gift cards are always an option, but if you want to go above and beyond that, take a cue from these non-stuff gift ideas:
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1. Give the gift of a class. We recently wrote about giving the gift of life skills, and we still think it's one of the best gift ideas. Sign your loved one up for a class in a topic they're interested in. A few ideas: upholstery, photography, sewing/quilting, screen printing, welding, woodworking, glass blowing, cake decorating, cooking or baking, cheese making, flower arranging, beer or kombucha brewing, vermicomposting, dance, or yoga. Check your local botanical garden for classes, as botanical gardens are becoming a great source for visitors' interests in nature, sustainability, cooking, health, family and the arts.

2. Give a subscription service. No, not magazines, and yes, this is stuff-related, but a good subscription service or "of the month" club is more like an experience, a gift that keeps on giving. Check out this Marketplace post for 15 'Of the Month' clubs. A few of our favorite ideas: try a CSA farm-box-of-the-month subscription (find a farm near you through Local Harvest); sustainable Coffee of the Month from Citizen Bean; Jam of the Month club from Etsy seller LemonBird, or an all-natural, handmade Soap of the Month from Etsy seller Sweet Petula. You can even adopt a sheep and receive raw wool from Etsy seller WildWoolFarm. (Check out all of Etsy's 'Of the Month' clubs here.)

3. Donate on their behalf to a charity. The most non-material gift is a gift for a good cause. (This is also another 'Of the Month' idea.) Check out these posts for a few ideas:
- 10 Green Gifts for Good Causes
- 6 Charitable Donations (With an Eco-Friendly Addition)
- Weekend Meditation: Where to Donate for Haiti Relief
4. Give your time. Did you ever make a coupon book for your parents when you were little? A coupon for a hug, or a coupon to clean the dishes? The ideas still apply. Give your loved one the night off. Offers to cook, clean, babysit, run errands, fix, repair, or build are priceless for busy people.
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Share your non-stuff ideas below! And remember kids, dutch ovens are dangerous, so leave 'em at home.
* My in-laws, who were waiting in the wings, shipped both Dutch ovens to me later. And why, you ask, was I lugging around two Dutch ovens in the first place? I'm continuing to ask myself the same question.
Our 2010 Green Gift Guide:
- 10 Green Gifts for Dogs and Cats
- 10 Green Gadget Gifts for the Techie
- 10 Green Gifts for the Home Renovator
- 25 Handmade Gifts for the Home
- 10 Green Gifts for the Outdoors Lover
- 10 Gifts for the Artist, Crafter, or DIY'er
- 15 Green Gifts Under $50
- 25 Green Home Gifts Under $25
- 10 Green Gifts for the Cook
(Images: 1. Flickr member Wordridden licensed for use under Creative Commons; 2. Etsy Labs; 3. Sweet Petula; 4. Share Our Strength; 5. Liz Vidyarthi/Re-Nest)


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What a horrible story! The TSA enrages me so often. Did you ever get your Dutch ovens back???
Oops...I posted before I read your fine print. I'm glad you got them back.
I found a le creuset pan in a salvation army in ohio for $15. I just could not leave it there. My husband said they would not let me carry it but somehow they did. Phew.
... great ideas and glad your in-laws were there and able to ship them. Hopefully they were still in the box to pack for shipping.
I know this wasn't your point at all, but that is seriously the most absurd thing. I could also punch you in the face. Perhaps my extremities ought to be amputated before I fly again. Grrrr.
Charities that involve some sort of activity from the person receiving the gift (like Kiva) provide a nice touch.
@may and @gudrunthered, the 2nd Dutch oven was a Le Creuset I'd found at a fraction of its listed price that I couldn't help trying to bring home, if not for me than for a friend.
@amanda bee, funny you should say that, because that's basically the argument my husband was making with the TSA agent. Here, you might as well take my laptop, and my phone, and this book I'm carrying. My shoes can be pretty violent as well...
Fabulous and hilarious post! I am in complete agreement...I am truly tired of stuff! I am sure you have seen 'the story of stuff'...i believe it is one of the most important organizations out there and every child/teen should see every video Annie Lenard produces!
@daniellek, yes, we've actually written a few posts on it, including this one on The Story of Stuff, this one on The Story of Bottled Water, and this one on The Story of Electronics.
With every print subscription, GOOD magazine used to make a donation for the same amount to a charity of your choice. Things may have changed since last year, but it was a cool gift.
I traveled with a dutch oven last christmas, and it wasn't an issue!
I live abroad in south america, and you just can't find le creuset in some places here. I'd been dying for the 5.5 qt for ages, and I finally decided to get it. It's damn heavy though, and I wasn't about to part with some of my weight allotment in my checked luggage.
I boarded the plane in oklahoma, and traveled through Dallas - I didn't have a problem!
I think your TSA agent wanted to confiscate the dutch ovens for ulterior motives... (that's been known to happen before!)
Shipping is expensive, so I took three frying pans to my son, when I was visiting him at college, in checked luggage. Needless to say, they opened it to check it out, as evidenced by the "Cleared" sticker they put on it. I can see terrorist training camps covering this issue. As a weapon of choice, the frying pan is probably more aerodynamic, and easier to handle, but being hit by a dutch oven would probably hurt more. Glad I decided to check it. I'd be quite annoyed by having them confiscated. Then again, you could punch someone with your fists and cause some injury....
Tickets to a show - something that the recipient wouldn't generally splurge on. Another great subscription type option are the ticket packages you can buy to specific theaters and the recipient can pick and choose which shows and dates to go. I've done this for the ballet, music halls and theaters - and supports the arts. Another option is a membership to a museum - great for families too!
@UrbanSherp, all great ideas. Thanks!
I got one of my roommates a membership to the Historical Society this year. It's a household membership, so I'll be able to use it, too - bonus!
She's a history nerd, so it's the perfect gift. Definitely something we'll use!
I'm doing customized hypnosis mp3's.
So, are people with black belts allowed to fly?
*in karate or the like
as a no gifts person myself, i vote for kiva!
I heard on Fox news that terrorist training camps also struggle with the eternal issue of Staub vs Le Creuset.
I love the idea of giving gift certificates of your time. sometimes for my mom or mother-in-law I'll take them out for lunch/movies/manis... especially when family lives far away, it feels luxurious to carve out some one-on-one time doing something you both enjoy.
when I'm traveling, I'm so tired I couldn't even lift a dutch oven, never mind throw it.
I could, however, put your eye out with my pen!
Have done lots of the personal gift certificates - it's always fun to make a personalized booklet of them and get artistic with it, drawing little pictures and using caligraphy or at least fun handwriting. Everything from "I will cook you a candlelit dinner" to "Good for one (1) trip to a museum of your choice" to "I will watch a show of your choosing without complaint" to "Good for a picnic at sunset"...
Love the idea of the for the month clubs, too, or a subscription to a theater or something where the recipient gets to choose the dates/performances (otherwise, be careful to check that they are free on the days you pick!). The class idea seems a bit iffy unless you know for sure that they are interested, how much availability they have, and have talked to others who've taken the class to make sure the teacher is good and everything.
I also really like giving people an experience/trip - I've surprised exes with good tickets to sports games for example. And the best gift my ex gave me was a 3 day roadtrip up the CA coast staying in Monterey. We didn't stay anyplace fancy but having a couple days to ourselves was amazing and way better than whatever else he could have given me. For couples who don't want tangible gifts from each other, I highly recommend splitting the cost of a short weekend getaway.
I continue to try and get my parents to grasp this issue-- living in s small apartment I end up giving away most of the stuff they give so i'll have 'something to unwrap' under the tree.
I love taking people out to shows for birthdays/Christmas. My mother is generally impossible to buy for; so for the past two years, I've taken her to see the Cirque du Soleil (twice) and Eddie Izzard on her birthday, plus RACE on a trip to NYC....
best gifts ever, since she absolutely *cannot* bring herself to dish out the money for a show.
My best friend also once brought me to go see Sugar Sammy- it was an all around win; I got to laugh hysterically for two hours, have an evening out with my bud and we could make private jokes about it for months. :)
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i've never quite been a fan of the 'gift certificate of your time' idea... like "good for one back rub" or "good for one cooking of your favorite meal"... i dunno, i do all that stuff without gift certs, so... haha
My grandmother refuses to put necklaces in her carry-on luggage. She's worried some TSA agent will say "you could strangle somebody with it" and make her leave it behind. I always thought that was a little far-fetched, but this story has me convinced otherwise. Seems like such a crapshoot, which agent you get on what day under what alert level.
One other thing you could do for non-gift people, which is kinda something you should do anyway but doesn't always come up, and depending on how close you are to them, and how much corniness you personally can put up with ... is to think of something you admire about them, and tell them from the heart. It's easy to overlook the huge ways people inspire us, and I think it would be a nice Christmas tradition to start using the season as the excuse for sharing.
I love the idea of telling someone how you feel about them, one year I wrote a "book" for my children, I told them stories about when they were young and gave them advice for their futures and had them printed and bound at a print store... it will be a gift that will give to them for years and they can pass on as well. (I'd love to have something that my grandmother had written)
I also like giving a gift of something that means a lot to you, I once received a gift from a dear friend of a necklace she had bought for herself in Israel and I had admired it, I not only had something from her, but also the story she told me about the trip on which she bought it! I later gave it to my daughter and she cherishes it as well, knowing my story and the woman who had given it to me, it becomes an instant heirloom!
Great ideas from all!!
Nice, well-written article! Thanks!
I'm glad you got your Dutch Ovens back! Dummy me thought "Jam of the Month" had to do with music! Bwahahahaha!!
Sigh. So amateur. No, the carry-on was the worst place to pack the dutch ovens. If you want to bring stuff like that, or even outright contraband, you pack it in an old lady's checked baggage that is full of her granny panties and bras. My mother-in-law uses this every time she comes to visit us and she has never had anyone take anything. I'm starting to think that they only actually go through her other bags and just slap a sticker on the panties bag without opening it.